Now if you had said you're going through a rough spot but still have a positive outlook on life thats a completely different story. All I see is "woe is me"

I express things by writing them down and talking about them. I found this quote interesting.



What you said (in the first quote) is just a internet sugar coated happy way of putting the same thing I said. The truth about bad situations is negative. you can only be blindly positive for so long before the repressed frustration builds up to the point you have to express it in one form or another. I express it by writing it down and sharing it with strangers on the internet. The odds of us ever meeting are slim to none, and I am actually happy about that. If I had told you 'I am in a rough patch, but I will get through it." I would not have learned about the type of person you really are.

So you're a negative, down in the dumps guy with no hope for the future and you want someone to share that with...

Thanks a lot.

If you indeed were a smelly bum with a third grade reading level then I would not want to date you, and knowing that I wanted to not date you before I wasted both of our time with messages would be benificial for both of us.

This is a very negative write up, and like I said, if you are not strong enough to deal with a little adversity and negativity then I want nothing to do with you. I never said anywhere that I hold no hope for the future, you inferred that. I am simply very frustrated, and anybody that has dealt with any extensive hardship knows what I am going through and can empathize.

Wow seems like you have all the answers already. Why bother posting a thread where other people can respond when you can just make the OP your profile so anyone who visits your page can enjoy it?

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Plus you are giving good advice.

Like I said before I dated someone very similar to how you seem to be and all he did was drag me down in the dumps with him. It's not about adversity it's about knowing when you need to take a step back and work on yourself before you try to be with someone else. Relationships are hard enough, and what you're asking for might as well be a freakin Cinderella story. Ohhh my life is so shitty someone come save me from myself. Good luck with that.

Because it is not who I am, it is how I feel about myself and my life at that point in time. Expressing it and talking through it can only help. I am frustrated, not chronically negative.

Like I said before, I express frustration and negative emotion by writing them down and discussing it with strangers on the internet. i don't have any close friends that are close to where I live, and I am throughly alone. Which is a shame, because even though you don't see it, i have a lot to offer. Your ex boyfriend has jeded you a little to where you put everybody with hardships who are losing hope in his "category" of people. it is what sigmund Freud called transference.

Thanks for the psycho analysis stoner boy. I just call em like I see them and you posting what you did gave me more than enough info.

You know nothing about me to call me similar to your ex boyfriend. You have unresolved emotional issues there and are transferring them to me. I am frustrated right now, but I am going to work through it. And I am not going to work through it by pretending everything is ok and ignoring the frustration. i am going to express the frustration until it is dealt with, then I will move forward. Everybody has to work through adversity at one time or another.

Like I said, I just want a girl to spend time with me. Nothing more nothing less, nobody should have to go through this world alone.

You are quick to judge and label, that is an amazingly unattractive quality.

Can we take a commercial break?

I didn't judge you or label you anything.... you posted it all for the world to see.

Yes, but you took it to be a synopsis for who I am, not an expression of my current frustration. that makes you quick to label me based on one page I spent about .0004228% of my life writing.

Gee I wonder where I got the idea that this post was about WHO YOU ARE.

I'm done this is silly and a complete waste of my time.

Best of luck.

Was it really a post about who I was or how I felt?

oh just stop.