Topic: Any Other Empty Nesters Or Close To It?
HopesAndWishes's photo
Fri 06/11/10 06:38 AM
I have a son on his own in Michigan (he is 22), and my daughter only has one more year of high school. She's talking about leaving state, which I don't blame her. Although it's still a year away, it leaves me feeling a little sad. Is there anyone else going through this?

Jules0565's photo
Fri 06/11/10 08:32 AM
The "Empty Nest Syndrome" is quite the adjustment. My youngest left home for college last year. My oldest moved out 3 years ago. At first I was quite lonely..until I started a new life of my own. I guess I raised them both the best I could, it's time to put me first now! drinks

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 06/11/10 08:49 AM
eh, mine keep coming back....

msharmony's photo
Fri 06/11/10 01:18 PM
Edited by msharmony on Fri 06/11/10 01:19 PM

I have a son on his own in Michigan (he is 22), and my daughter only has one more year of high school. She's talking about leaving state, which I don't blame her. Although it's still a year away, it leaves me feeling a little sad. Is there anyone else going through this?


my son just graduated high school and will attend college in another state in a couple of months,,,, I cried ,because I am proud of him and glad that we have made it this far, but I think it is also because I always thought that day would be the start of a new life for BOTH of us,,,yet, I still have another fifteen years to go with my daughter,,,,,maybe then I will feel that 'empty nest' thing,,,

Dragoness's photo
Fri 06/11/10 01:58 PM
Empty nester here. Big change that is for sure.

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 06/11/10 05:17 PM
Next year is the last year chelly and I are together

she starts SUNY and her dad got her an apt

I'm devastated....,so is she. For some reason my girls never came back..,,hmmmmm

but really then it's me and my man time

should really be fun

will just miss my baby girl!:heart:

no photo
Fri 06/11/10 09:32 PM
My oldest,19 lived with me this last 9 months and just moved out West. Quite the change for me. My youngest still lives with her mother and is 17...so I am back to living alone again. I hope my daughter comes to live with me when she turns 18.

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 06/11/10 09:40 PM
I'm glad mine come back, I hope they always do....

Eoywen's photo
Mon 08/30/10 11:26 PM
Hi my daughter is only 8 months old but she is a determind do it yourself kind of baby, like me I guess, and I am trying to wrap my head around the fact that one day she will leave me and I just want to die. I have opened up several accounts for her to go to school, travel and savings and keep diaries, photos and video logs of her life, I know she will think I am insame so I don't really show them to people, I allow her to visit family and friends without me so i can let her explore the world without me tagging along and when she is gone I miss her so much already. I worked so hard to have this baby and give her the life she has now. She is only 8 Months old and I am worried about it already....help, I don't want to become dominaring. Maybe it will pass...maybe...

RainbowTrout's photo
Tue 08/31/10 12:58 AM
The only way I can keep up with mine is through facebook. Of course, they don't talk to me. The nest dried up and blew away years ago.

msharmony's photo
Tue 08/31/10 01:32 AM
I wrote mine today(email) to make sure his rent was paid on the first...lol


this was gonna be my hayday,,,but Im proud of him and in another fifteen years I know I will be feeling the same things about my daughter,,,

lulu24's photo
Fri 09/03/10 01:54 AM
my youngest is seven, so i'm not all the way there...but i just put another one in college. she's seventeen, and graduated a year early with a year and a half's worth of college already under her belt.

kid made a 31 on her ACT at fifteen.

she has a private dorm and a full ride...but i still wish she was around.

map7777's photo
Sat 09/04/10 07:31 PM
im soon to be. dont know how ill take it,being a single dad 4 almost 10 yrs i wont know what to do.almost feels like ill have to start life all over again.i think ill just run away lol

AllenAqua's photo
Sat 09/04/10 07:42 PM
Empty nester here...

At first it was a little sad but now I'm seeing the benefits.