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Edited by
kc0003
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Ok, I don’t get this whole fear thing here. Why are you people so worried about being turned down?
I mean, there are so many people in this world there is no way you could ever avoid it. Let’s face it not everyone you are attracted to is going to be receptive to your advances. It’s not a slight on you personally; it’s simply a matter of opportunity or lack thereof. Besides, fear breads insecurity and nothing will get you turned down faster than that. |
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I’m fairly traditional when it comes to dating. I prefer the man show his interest by asking me out. If I am attracted to someone, I give out signals; therefore, a guy would know if I was interested and it eliminates the fear of being “shot down.” Ah but signals are messy. Some people are just naturally flirty. Sometimes its just "being friendly". I've had situations where the girl acted very interested so I ask her out then get shot down. And situations where they acted disinterested then actually pursued me. |
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If a man is attracted to me, he had better come talk to me because I'm not going to walk up to him. I like a little aggresion, anyways.
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If a man is attracted to me, he had better come talk to me because I'm not going to walk up to him. I like a little aggresion, anyways. amen, its all in preference,, some women prefer take charge guys,,,that initial contact is an indication of what type of guy they are dealing with,,, I am with my sista on this,, I love a take charge type,, but I know MANY MANY women who like shy guys,,, and if you arent compatible at least you get that part over with in a hurry so you can move on,,, |
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Maybe that is why the show cops is so popular. Women get to see a lot of take charge guys running from the cops.
See, what many women (as much as they might like the take charge attitude) miss is that there is take charge and then there is not caring. With many (not all) guys that just walk up to a women and begin asking them out or buying them drinks it isn't that they are taking charge to initiate a romance, it is that they don't care and you are just another piece of tail to them. This is a big reason why so many guys have the feeling of good guys finish last. A good descent guy will typically care enough about what you might think to want a fairly good sign that you like them or that you are interested. Simply walking by and saying hi (and this goes for both guys and gals by the way) and exchanging real glances (like little winks, head nods, etc) can go a long way. (and girls, if a guy seems to keep staring at you, he probably likes you and is too nervous to do anything) Now, eventually someone needs to make a move, should it be the guy or girl?? Doesn't really matter, whoever feels most comfortable with it. Just remember ladies, when a guy just walks up and asks you to dance, is he taking charge, or does he just not care? |
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Maybe that is why the show cops is so popular. Women get to see a lot of take charge guys running from the cops. See, what many women (as much as they might like the take charge attitude) miss is that there is take charge and then there is not caring. With many (not all) guys that just walk up to a women and begin asking them out or buying them drinks it isn't that they are taking charge to initiate a romance, it is that they don't care and you are just another piece of tail to them. This is a big reason why so many guys have the feeling of good guys finish last. A good descent guy will typically care enough about what you might think to want a fairly good sign that you like them or that you are interested. Simply walking by and saying hi (and this goes for both guys and gals by the way) and exchanging real glances (like little winks, head nods, etc) can go a long way. (and girls, if a guy seems to keep staring at you, he probably likes you and is too nervous to do anything) Now, eventually someone needs to make a move, should it be the guy or girl?? Doesn't really matter, whoever feels most comfortable with it. Just remember ladies, when a guy just walks up and asks you to dance, is he taking charge, or does he just not care? could be both, or just the former,, but its hard to know until contact is made,,, |
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I want someone to come up to me with one of those cheesy pick up lines
 I have never been approached that way before
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I want someone to come up to me with one of those cheesy pick up lines I have never been approached that way before lol,, must be the police uniform,,,, |
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I want someone to come up to me with one of those cheesy pick up lines I have never been approached that way before lol,, must be the police uniform,,,, well the nurses outfit didn't work either. I think they were afraid I'd do something
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oh man, what wimps,,,,
if ya want cheesy lines, you have to post a tacky picture with alot of cleavage or something and post it on one of those adult sites,,, |
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oh man, what wimps,,,, if ya want cheesy lines, you have to post a tacky picture with alot of cleavage or something and post it on one of those adult sites,,, then that would require a boob job
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oh man, what wimps,,,, if ya want cheesy lines, you have to post a tacky picture with alot of cleavage or something and post it on one of those adult sites,,, then that would require a boob job you can buy them at the drug stores now,,, 
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 i'm just too shy! i remember once when she slipped me her number though... 
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Fri 05/28/10 01:26 AM
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i like it when the wiggle their tail and.....POUNCE!
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I want someone to come up to me with one of those cheesy pick up lines I have never been approached that way before Well then... If I received a nickel for everytime I saw someone as beautiful as you, I'd have five cents. Can I have your picture so I can show Santa what I want for Christmas? |
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How do you wish the other sex would approach you? Start by not staring. Staring so that all I want to do is politely ask you if I can roll your eyeballs back to you. Words are better than staring. Any words. Oh. And address them to my face. It is up here. |
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With a shot of Jameson in hand
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I want someone to come up to me with one of those cheesy pick up lines I have never been approached that way before Why don't you come over to my place for a Scotch and sofa? |
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With a knife bigger than mine.
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