Topic: How do you wish the other sex would approach you?
MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 05/28/10 10:01 AM


I’m fairly traditional when it comes to dating. I prefer the man show his interest by asking me out. If I am attracted to someone, I give out signals; therefore, a guy would know if I was interested and it eliminates the fear of being “shot down.”


Ah but signals are messy. Some people are just naturally flirty. Sometimes its just "being friendly". I've had situations where the girl acted very interested so I ask her out then get shot down. And situations where they acted disinterested then actually pursued me.


Not all women are fickle! winking

no photo
Fri 05/28/10 10:01 AM
If she came up to me and said, "I read your books, I find you absolutely fascinating, and I want to spend the rest of my life bringing you Pepsi and doing your laundry," that would get my attention.

If she passes the other 314 tests, she's in!


AndyBgood's photo
Fri 05/28/10 10:10 AM

If a man is attracted to me, he had better come talk to me because I'm not going to walk up to him. I like a little aggresion, anyways.



More often than not my aggression only makes women run! This maybe true for you but not the rest of womanhood!

OKCUTIE67's photo
Fri 05/28/10 11:05 AM
I think humor is the best way to approach me. If you can make me laugh you are more than 1/2 way there!

Of course there have been those that came up and threw out their line and I laughed and they were serious! oops ohwell

krupa's photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:00 PM
With a 12 pack of shiner in one hand, a box of porn in the other and her skivvies around her ankles would be a damn good start.

heavenlyboy34's photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:15 PM

With a 12 pack of shiner in one hand, a box of porn in the other and her skivvies around her ankles would be a damn good start.
laugh rofl rofl I wish that would happen to me! pitchfork drool

CharliePiano's photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:39 PM
LOL. I spend one day away at work and find i've missed out on a plethora of interesting topics... or not so interesting topics, hehehe. I hope everyone's had a good day :D

sherry4382's photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:41 PM

LOL. I spend one day away at work and find i've missed out on a plethora of interesting topics... or not so interesting topics, hehehe. I hope everyone's had a good day :D


everything seems to turn into something dirty around here, but i swear i had nothing to do with it.whoa

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:42 PM

LOL. I spend one day away at work and find i've missed out on a plethora of interesting topics... or not so interesting topics, hehehe. I hope everyone's had a good day :D


It's a wild, fun ride on Mingle :banana:

CharliePiano's photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:42 PM


LOL. I spend one day away at work and find i've missed out on a plethora of interesting topics... or not so interesting topics, hehehe. I hope everyone's had a good day :D


everything seems to turn into something dirty around here, but i swear i had nothing to do with it.whoa


HA! That's a lie :) I've read your comments and you're all about grabbing hair, riding azz, all that jazz, hehehe

sherry4382's photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:43 PM



LOL. I spend one day away at work and find i've missed out on a plethora of interesting topics... or not so interesting topics, hehehe. I hope everyone's had a good day :D


everything seems to turn into something dirty around here, but i swear i had nothing to do with it.whoa


HA! That's a lie :) I've read your comments and you're all about grabbing hair, riding azz, all that jazz, hehehe


That is my dirty little twin sister!! Damn her hacking into my account!!grumble mad

CharliePiano's photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:49 PM


That is my dirty little twin sister!! Damn her hacking into my account!!grumble mad


HA! I'll believe that the day that my **** turns purple and tastes like rainbow sherbert.

sherry4382's photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:50 PM



That is my dirty little twin sister!! Damn her hacking into my account!!grumble mad


HA! I'll believe that the day that my **** turns purple and tastes like rainbow sherbert.


Really your D*** tastes like rainbow sherbert??noway noway laugh

CharliePiano's photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:55 PM




That is my dirty little twin sister!! Damn her hacking into my account!!grumble mad


HA! I'll believe that the day that my **** turns purple and tastes like rainbow sherbert.


Really your D*** tastes like rainbow sherbert??noway noway laugh


It was supposed to be S***. It's a quote from Super Troopers... the only part of the movie that i thought was brilliant.

no photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:57 PM

I have this problem all the time. People often say that they want a no ******** relationship, but i find i can never go up to a beautiful woman and tell her all i'm thinking. Instead there's the whole song and dance that must be gone through before you can even consider being yourself.

I wish, for once, a woman would actually be modernized enough to approach me first. I might get that flirty look from across the room, but other than that i have to try and read if it's appropriate for me to slip a number, ask a number, ask a dance, buy a drink, etc. etc.

It would be nice if a girl could make the approach. What most women don't realize is if they are attractive, and the man is single, their chances of getting shot down are incredibly lowered. Also, i would find it SOOOOO attractive if a woman had the gall to go out and hunt for what she wants. Sometimes the hunt is fun, but also exhausting. It's refreshing for a woman to mix it up.

But i want to hear what you folks think. If you're a woman, what do you wish men were doing? If you're a man, the same thing. Discuss, and if you'd like to talk with me in private, i'm always open for PM.

Chuck
rawr - u belong over on our cougar threadflowerforyou

msmyka's photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:57 PM





That is my dirty little twin sister!! Damn her hacking into my account!!grumble mad


HA! I'll believe that the day that my **** turns purple and tastes like rainbow sherbert.


Really your D*** tastes like rainbow sherbert??noway noway laugh


It was supposed to be S***. It's a quote from Super Troopers... the only part of the movie that i thought was brilliant.
noway That whole movie is hilarious

no photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:58 PM

observation; you get a flirtatious look from across the room = she just made the first move
HELloooooooooooo:laughing: I love an observant mansmitten

CharliePiano's photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:58 PM


I have this problem all the time. People often say that they want a no ******** relationship, but i find i can never go up to a beautiful woman and tell her all i'm thinking. Instead there's the whole song and dance that must be gone through before you can even consider being yourself.

I wish, for once, a woman would actually be modernized enough to approach me first. I might get that flirty look from across the room, but other than that i have to try and read if it's appropriate for me to slip a number, ask a number, ask a dance, buy a drink, etc. etc.

It would be nice if a girl could make the approach. What most women don't realize is if they are attractive, and the man is single, their chances of getting shot down are incredibly lowered. Also, i would find it SOOOOO attractive if a woman had the gall to go out and hunt for what she wants. Sometimes the hunt is fun, but also exhausting. It's refreshing for a woman to mix it up.

But i want to hear what you folks think. If you're a woman, what do you wish men were doing? If you're a man, the same thing. Discuss, and if you'd like to talk with me in private, i'm always open for PM.

Chuck
rawr - u belong over on our cougar threadflowerforyou


HA! I hear that :) Link me ;)

sherry4382's photo
Fri 05/28/10 07:59 PM





That is my dirty little twin sister!! Damn her hacking into my account!!grumble mad


HA! I'll believe that the day that my **** turns purple and tastes like rainbow sherbert.


Really your D*** tastes like rainbow sherbert??noway noway laugh


It was supposed to be S***. It's a quote from Super Troopers... the only part of the movie that i thought was brilliant.


Well i rather taste your D*** than your S*** rofl rofl rofl

CharliePiano's photo
Fri 05/28/10 08:04 PM



Well i rather taste your D*** than your S*** rofl rofl rofl


lol, i want them to research technology to make c*m taste like chocolate.