Topic: How do you wish the other sex would approach you?
MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 05/30/10 05:51 AM

Years ago I tried the whole screw the world bit. I hate you. Sounds crazy but women seemed to eat that stuff up. Now I'm just ough on the outside sweet in the middle. And I'm on a dating sight. 1+0=explode


What's wrong with a dating site? Do you think meeting someone at a bar or anywhere else is more productive?

If you hung out with women that bought the "angry" crap then you need to date different women! laugh For anyone to gravitate towards that type of self-loathing it's obvious they are not ready for a serious dating relationship. Like, OMG, that is sooooo high school! laugh

Welcome to Mingle! Many people, including myself, have enjoyed a lot of success here.

willing2's photo
Sun 05/30/10 10:51 AM
Love is;:heart:

Right about now, I'd like to be approached by a woman with, one foot in th' grave, the other foot on a banana peel and big fat life insurance policy as me being the beneficiary.:wink: :angel:

Any takers?

MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 05/30/10 02:34 PM

Love is;:heart:

Right about now, I'd like to be approached by a woman with, one foot in th' grave, the other foot on a banana peel and big fat life insurance policy as me being the beneficiary.:wink: :angel:

Any takers?


rofl rofl

no photo
Sun 05/30/10 02:55 PM
Seriously, I would just like to be approached, for once, with some honesty and some legitimate interest in who I am -- no ulterior motives, no hidden agendas, no domestication schemes. While I'm at it, I'd also like a platinum banjo that shoots hundred-dollar bills.


papersmile's photo
Sun 05/30/10 03:04 PM
i personally like the type of guy who flirtatiously grins at me and, in a non-verbal way, beckons me to come on over.

i prefer to make the first move as that way i am guaranteed at least physical attraction.

heavenlyboy34's photo
Sun 05/30/10 04:14 PM
~gives papersmile a come hither look~ love pitchfork

papersmile's photo
Sun 05/30/10 06:06 PM
then there are the guys who try to flirt with anything and everything and those ones are repulsive and it doesn't matter what they do or say.

bedlum1's photo
Sun 05/30/10 07:11 PM

then there are the guys who try to flirt with anything and everything and those ones are repulsive and it doesn't matter what they do or say.
rofl

no photo
Sun 05/30/10 08:47 PM
What are you looking for?Majority online looking for a Loni Anderson and not realizing will only be in their dreamslaugh Come down to earth and will find the true love.Be yourself and stop looking for girls out of a magazinelaugh

CharliePiano's photo
Sun 05/30/10 09:24 PM

then there are the guys who try to flirt with anything and everything and those ones are repulsive and it doesn't matter what they do or say.


HA! HAHAHAHAHA!!! Oh what a burn.... holy crap that was amazing.

CharliePiano's photo
Sun 05/30/10 09:24 PM

What are you looking for?Majority online looking for a Loni Anderson and not realizing will only be in their dreamslaugh Come down to earth and will find the true love.Be yourself and stop looking for girls out of a magazinelaugh


Who are you talking too?

bedlum1's photo
Sun 05/30/10 09:29 PM
wearing nothing but chocolate asking me if i got a sweet toothdevil

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 05/30/10 09:41 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Sun 05/30/10 09:42 PM

I have this problem all the time. People often say that they want a no ******** relationship, but i find i can never go up to a beautiful woman and tell her all i'm thinking. Instead there's the whole song and dance that must be gone through before you can even consider being yourself.

I wish, for once, a woman would actually be modernized enough to approach me first. I might get that flirty look from across the room, but other than that i have to try and read if it's appropriate for me to slip a number, ask a number, ask a dance, buy a drink, etc. etc.

It would be nice if a girl could make the approach. What most women don't realize is if they are attractive, and the man is single, their chances of getting shot down are incredibly lowered. Also, i would find it SOOOOO attractive if a woman had the gall to go out and hunt for what she wants. Sometimes the hunt is fun, but also exhausting. It's refreshing for a woman to mix it up.

But i want to hear what you folks think. If you're a woman, what do you wish men were doing? If you're a man, the same thing. Discuss, and if you'd like to talk with me in private, i'm always open for PM.

Chuck


It's actually the fear of rejection that might be driving you a bit.

The worst thing ever happened to me was I got slapped on the face, but I deserved it, because at that time I was drunk and I think I might had said something otherwise I wouldn't say to stranger (but pretty) woman.

She didn't know she kinda turned me on with that. bigsmile Why? Because she showed manners and she showed she had standards, that she wouldn't just get swept off her feet by some overconfident drunk dude.

To tell you the truth..I'm actually a bit keeping my distance from women who tries to jump on me or stalk me etc..or sort of agrees upon anything whatever I say or want..it's usually a test actually.

CharliePiano's photo
Sun 05/30/10 10:20 PM


I have this problem all the time. People often say that they want a no ******** relationship, but i find i can never go up to a beautiful woman and tell her all i'm thinking. Instead there's the whole song and dance that must be gone through before you can even consider being yourself.

I wish, for once, a woman would actually be modernized enough to approach me first. I might get that flirty look from across the room, but other than that i have to try and read if it's appropriate for me to slip a number, ask a number, ask a dance, buy a drink, etc. etc.

It would be nice if a girl could make the approach. What most women don't realize is if they are attractive, and the man is single, their chances of getting shot down are incredibly lowered. Also, i would find it SOOOOO attractive if a woman had the gall to go out and hunt for what she wants. Sometimes the hunt is fun, but also exhausting. It's refreshing for a woman to mix it up.

But i want to hear what you folks think. If you're a woman, what do you wish men were doing? If you're a man, the same thing. Discuss, and if you'd like to talk with me in private, i'm always open for PM.

Chuck


It's actually the fear of rejection that might be driving you a bit.

The worst thing ever happened to me was I got slapped on the face, but I deserved it, because at that time I was drunk and I think I might had said something otherwise I wouldn't say to stranger (but pretty) woman.

She didn't know she kinda turned me on with that. bigsmile Why? Because she showed manners and she showed she had standards, that she wouldn't just get swept off her feet by some overconfident drunk dude.

To tell you the truth..I'm actually a bit keeping my distance from women who tries to jump on me or stalk me etc..or sort of agrees upon anything whatever I say or want..it's usually a test actually.


LOL! I actually am perfectly capable of approaching women... simply tired of always being the one to make the move. Initiate the number request, the first kiss, any other intimate matters. It would just be refreshing to have a more direct woman approach me.

isaac_dede's photo
Sun 05/30/10 10:25 PM
how do I want the other sex to approach me?

Well that's easy....naked!

CharliePiano's photo
Sun 05/30/10 10:35 PM
Isaac seems to be the sort of guy that takes after my own heart, hahaha.rofl

msmyka's photo
Sun 05/30/10 11:17 PM
Naked works for me too pitchfork

Engraven_Image's photo
Sun 05/30/10 11:26 PM
I don't know about approach...










...I'd want them to stalk me for awhile first!

Veldt_Falsetto's photo
Mon 05/31/10 03:17 PM
hmm I dunno, if someone likes me or thinks I'm attractive or something it'd be nice if someone said it to me.

I'd say the same, if I thought someone was really gorgeous I'd say, so I expect the same back

willing2's photo
Mon 05/31/10 03:41 PM
I'd like her to let me snatch a kiss and visa-versa.smokin