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Topic: Is it ever ok 2 cheat?
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Fri 05/07/10 05:42 PM
a common problem, especialy to men. Is it ever ok 2 cheat? Say u want to cool of from a fight, or just a 1 night stand with a friend? A nobody has to know basis..?

delilady's photo
Fri 05/07/10 05:45 PM
NO!!!!

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Fri 05/07/10 05:45 PM
:angry: No!

Winx's photo
Fri 05/07/10 05:47 PM
Hell, NO.:angry:

Seakolony's photo
Fri 05/07/10 05:48 PM
In my opinion no it is never okay, how insensitive can a person be? And even worse if you do not take the time or respect to protect your partner. I actually find it a very selfish neandrathal thing to do.

msharmony's photo
Fri 05/07/10 05:48 PM
um,, no,, I think thats implied in the word 'cheat'

newarkjw's photo
Fri 05/07/10 05:52 PM

a common problem, especialy to men. Is it ever ok 2 cheat? Say u want to cool of from a fight, or just a 1 night stand with a friend? A nobody has to know basis..?


I feel ya brother. There is nothing like a little strange to cool off from a fight........smokin

AndyBgood's photo
Fri 05/07/10 05:53 PM
Don't make any promises you can't keep and you are golden. Then it isn't cheating! Simple enough. Cheating = Broken promises and no one likes a liar!:banana:

StillLooking29's photo
Fri 05/07/10 05:58 PM

um,, no,, I think thats implied in the word 'cheat'



RIGHT ON

cutie1975's photo
Fri 05/07/10 06:00 PM
oops well things happen ,but if someone is going to cheat they better be prepaired to pay the price. i understand things happen but i don't think it's a good ideasurprised

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Fri 05/07/10 06:03 PM
Absolutely not. If things are at that bad a stage, then break
it off, gain closure, and move on.

imsingle951's photo
Fri 05/07/10 06:09 PM
NEVER

jezmondo's photo
Fri 05/07/10 06:21 PM
It's an interesting point to be fair but not the right thing to do after a fight. I am going to be honest I went and got drunk after a fight and cheated. Don't get me wrong I am disgusted with myself for doin it because it solves no problems what so ever. U live and learn from ur mistakes but if u fight then u need to talk it out or break it off. Cheating is not the answer trust me.

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Fri 05/07/10 06:22 PM
let me add, that although its not 'right' it doesnt make you the worst peron in the world either,,,,just another fallable human..

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Fri 05/07/10 06:26 PM

let me add, that although its not 'right' it doesnt make you the worst peron in the world either,,,,just another fallable human..



No, it doesn't. :smile: People make mistakes, and some can forgive
something like that, some can't.

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Fri 05/07/10 07:47 PM
Common problem? No...cheating is a lot like stabbing people in the back, you might as well use the extra energy and go for the front. If you are that miserable that you are even thinking of cheating it is time to reevaluate the plan.

LouLou2's photo
Fri 05/07/10 07:49 PM
No

jadday's photo
Fri 05/07/10 08:08 PM
NO NO and NO again rant

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Fri 05/07/10 08:42 PM
Edited by AGoodGuy1026 on Fri 05/07/10 08:43 PM

a common problem, especialy to men. Is it ever ok 2 cheat? Say u want to cool of from a fight, or just a 1 night stand with a friend? A nobody has to know basis..?


common, really? have you conducted a survey or are you trying to make yourself feel better...

it's a question of your own character an morality.. if you want to hit everything in sight, just be up front and honest with your partners... you can have morals and good character and have casual sex - as long as it is conveyed honestly, frankly and up front.

the problem only happens when you betray yourself and pursue a relationship with someone - say you want a monogamous relationship - when you know in your heart you only want to hit and run...

be honest, be a man... convey your needs and adhere to your limits... there is nothing wrong with casual sex as long as it is honest, safe and what both parties want...

get my drift?

p.s. "especially for men"... uhm, you have a LOT to learn about women!! ROFLMAO!!!!

se ya... playa...!

$.02 drinker

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Fri 05/07/10 10:17 PM
very well put out! Nice 1

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