Topic: Is it ever ok 2 cheat?
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Fri 05/07/10 10:20 PM
its never ok, but for some, things happen! But I believe there is always a choice! People cheat coz they want to!

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Fri 05/07/10 10:20 PM
its never ok, but for some, things happen! But I believe there is always a choice! People cheat coz they want to!

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Fri 05/07/10 10:23 PM
NO!!!

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Fri 05/07/10 10:27 PM

In my opinion no it is never okay, how insensitive can a person be? And even worse if you do not take the time or respect to protect your partner. I actually find it a very selfish neandrathal thing to do.

its realy selfish, isnt it? U wonder why people keep doing it! Thanx tho

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Fri 05/07/10 10:27 PM
It's never ok.

If someone is with me, and they feel like they want to cheat with soeone else, then go right ahead...

BUT, have the courage to break up with me first.glasses

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Fri 05/07/10 10:29 PM

It's an interesting point to be fair but not the right thing to do after a fight. I am going to be honest I went and got drunk after a fight and cheated. Don't get me wrong I am disgusted with myself for doin it because it solves no problems what so ever. U live and learn from ur mistakes but if u fight then u need to talk it out or break it off. Cheating is not the answer trust me.

things happen, and yes its never the answer! Thanx

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Fri 05/07/10 10:31 PM

It's never ok.

If someone is with me, and they feel like they want to cheat with soeone else, then go right ahead...

BUT, have the courage to break up with me first.glasses

Lol.. I like that! Thanx

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Fri 05/07/10 10:32 PM
slaphead just watch Jerry Sringer show and tadke notes on what happens to people who cheat on each other. smokin

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Fri 05/07/10 11:10 PM

a common problem, especialy to men. Is it ever ok 2 cheat? Say u want to cool of from a fight, or just a 1 night stand with a friend? A nobody has to know basis..?

no to those reasons.

i say there are instances where it is ok to cheat. if the other person cheated first, what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

if you're involved with someone who isn't willing to see to your needs and you've expressed your needs, find someone who will.

if someone is holding a gun to your head and says you will cheat or you'll die, cheat.

of course, with the first 2, the relationship is probably over anyway. and the third one is just ridiculous.



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Sat 05/08/10 10:58 AM
No, I don't believe there is a situation when it is okay to cheat. I do believe that people try to justify thier actions with situations; for example, "They weren't meeting my needs" or "I got caught up in the moment".

If someone isn't meeting your needs in a relationship and you have openly communicated this in an 'adult' manner and nothing has changed, why stay in the relationship? Leave the relationship than find someone new.

Getting caught up in the moment is one of the excuses people use because it makes them feel better.

Lying and cheating are just plain wrong. Period. However with some people that is just not enough of a reason for some people.

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Sat 05/08/10 10:59 AM
Never a reason. Other than people are cowardly but again that's a choice.

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Sat 05/08/10 12:24 PM

Common problem? No...cheating is a lot like stabbing people in the back, you might as well use the extra energy and go for the front. If you are that miserable that you are even thinking of cheating it is time to reevaluate the plan.


Well said!

jetlions's photo
Sat 05/08/10 12:25 PM
Absolutely, Positively, NO!!!!!!

BL4766's photo
Sat 05/08/10 12:25 PM
it is NEVER "OK" to cheat!
you think that way.....its time to get OUT of the
relationship your in!

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Sat 05/08/10 12:41 PM
Well, my doll caught me cheating on here and refused to inflate for me for at least 2 weeks!!noway BUt the other doll I bought filled the void!!!:banana: Thank God I got my money back when the trial period was over!!bigsmile :tongue:

Meg8771's photo
Sat 05/08/10 06:26 PM
No...I could only say I would not want to be cheated on, therefore I would never cheat on the person i was with.

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Sat 05/08/10 06:27 PM

Well, my doll caught me cheating on here and refused to inflate for me for at least 2 weeks!!noway BUt the other doll I bought filled the void!!!:banana: Thank God I got my money back when the trial period was over!!bigsmile :tongue:


Mikey...You are nutz! Luv Ya!!

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Sat 05/08/10 06:58 PM


..it's a matter of morality for me.doesn't matter if no one else knows..i would know and i hold myself to a way higher standard than most....smokin

Peccy's photo
Sat 05/08/10 07:15 PM
If you think you have to cheat, then there's something wrong with the relationship.

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Sat 05/08/10 07:21 PM
Never