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Topic: Need some advice...help
AGoodGuy1026's photo
Thu 04/29/10 06:50 AM


Jill what will happen if wife kicks him out he'll go to your friend.Some people are very good in manipulation and i bet he has both these women convinced he loves them.He loves himself.He's using your friend and keeping his options open
And my friend is allowing this all to happen which really upsets me.
I guess I felt like if I was "barb" I would want to be told. But I can't seem to justify contacting her and stirring up all these problems. I feel like I would be causing even more drama and problems to an already bad situation. I just feel guilty for "barb". For all I know right now, she's innocent in this... but maybe she's not. I just don't know. I do believe that all cheaters will eventually get caught. Maybe I should wait it out and let him get caught up on his own.


It's their life, not yours... why do you feel the need to try to "rescue" someone... perhaps you should mind your own business? I mean, these are two adults... not like they are children or something (who may actually need a rescue)...

*sigh*

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CatsLoveMe's photo
Thu 04/29/10 10:23 AM
If your friend has fallen to the wiles of this jerk-weed, and his marriage fails like it's probably gonna do, his new woman to torment and break her heart will be your friend. Count on it, I've seen it happen over and over again. He will continue doing what he does best, you'll lose your friend, and she will be miserable, because this dirt-bag will do to her what he did to his wife, and he'll be cheating with another girl. And so it goes. Save your friend, or let her slip away. Inaction is not a safe option, if you don't want to see your friend get hurt.

Shasta1's photo
Thu 04/29/10 12:30 PM
Just remember there are 3 sides to every story (at least). Hers, his and the truth.

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