Topic: Nice guy VS. Decent dude....
bedlum1's photo
Thu 04/15/10 04:53 PM



most of us have seen many "nice guy posts" sorry but its pretty much a joke...
action talks bs walks...plain and simple
words are cheap...and everyone knows it...
best way to show it is join in the posts and let your personality do the talking..
if you are a nice guy chances are it will show through...
but for petes sake no more nice guy posts....lmaoslaphead frustrated :tongue:


:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:


Or atleast come to my nice guy threads. It is my attempt to keep all the nice guys in one place so the ladies can just take their pick without having to shop around.

The management thanks you.flowerforyou
right...rofl

Atlantis75's photo
Thu 04/15/10 04:53 PM




Book of Revelations from apostle Atlantis:


1. Women knows we fart and we laugh on it. And every fart is funny, it never gets old.
2. Sometimes our feet stink bad and before washing it, we find it amusing when our partner suffers from it for a few minutes.
3. We are all dirty, we want to lick things on women...and women like those guys more.
4. Everything we do is related to get laid. Marriage was invented to get everyone laid, even if they were very ugly, but at least there is a force that binds them from the church. Guys wouldn't buy fast cars or wear nice suits if it wasn't to get a woman in their bed.

5. When we talk to women, or chat, we already had sex with them at least 20 times in our mind.



I would say that is about 90% correct. But a gentlemen never tells.


That narrows it down whether I'm one or not. sad2



rofl rofl rofl


<---see my pic? I tried to imitate this smiley: sad2

sekinwisdom's photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:02 PM
Ok you win, no more nice guys threads.

misswright's photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:02 PM



I have only been here a week but I am starting to have some deep revelations about the the virtual world around us. I have been portraying the "Nice guy" and "gentlemen" because.... well that is just simply who I am. But I have discovered that most ladies arent really looking for a nice guy, most just want a decent dude, or at least thats what they would settle for. We, the men in the world, have created this, and believe it or not chivalry dies at our hands, not the hands of that beautiful creature we call woman. So I ask you ladies would you be happy just finding a decent dude who is just trying his best to do the next right thing?


Be who you are. Don't try to put on a nice guy persona and don't settle for being a decent dude if you feel you're more than that.flowerforyou

Some women still want a gentleman. I, for one, think that chivalry is sweet, to a point. If we're going out for a fancy dinner, and I've taken the time to actually apply make-up and put on those God awful nylons and heels, okay sure, it'd be nice if you held the door open for me. If you insist on opening my car door EVERY TIME I get out, even if I'm just running in the store to grap a soda or six pack for you, I'd probably get annoyed quickly. If you push it to an extreme, it will become a problem. Certain situations call for different protocols. Perhaps that's why men find women so confusing. laugh

Ultimately, you can't go wrong if you just be yourself. Doesn't mean you'll find someone, but it's certainly better to be alone with who you are then acting a part with a partner. Just my inconsequential thought on the subject.ohwell

Tonight I took a lady for a drive. We drove in the light rain and talked for a few hours. At one point I pulled over on the side of a quiet street and got out, saying nothing. I walked to a beautiful lilac tree and picked a stem of purple flowers for her. I got back in the car, and she was looking at me like I had done the oddest thing in the world. Strange how she would find that odd. Anyway I wouldnt want to get out in the rain and pick the flower every trip to the store, but as a gentlemen I know when the appropriate time to do something special is. The idea is to always have something on hand to make a lady feel special. Sometimes thats a word, sometimes thats a touch, sometimes its a flower on a warm spring day.


Random acts of kindness are an anomalie these days. She probably looked at you like an alien because her last boyfriend had her out changing the flat tire in the rain. Well, it was her car, she was driving, and women wanted equality, right!?! It's one of those be careful what you wish for things.

Being a gentleman is becoming a lost art. I hope you continue to use the medium despite the strange looks from women...someone needs to keep this valuable concept on life support.shades

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:03 PM





Book of Revelations from apostle Atlantis:


1. Women knows we fart and we laugh on it. And every fart is funny, it never gets old.
2. Sometimes our feet stink bad and before washing it, we find it amusing when our partner suffers from it for a few minutes.
3. We are all dirty, we want to lick things on women...and women like those guys more.
4. Everything we do is related to get laid. Marriage was invented to get everyone laid, even if they were very ugly, but at least there is a force that binds them from the church. Guys wouldn't buy fast cars or wear nice suits if it wasn't to get a woman in their bed.

5. When we talk to women, or chat, we already had sex with them at least 20 times in our mind.



I would say that is about 90% correct. But a gentlemen never tells.


That narrows it down whether I'm one or not. sad2



rofl rofl rofl


<---see my pic? I tried to imitate this smiley: sad2
do i have too look at it lol drinks it should be this biggrin

bedlum1's photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:07 PM
tried to tell ya...lol
:banana: :banana: :banana:

MelodyGirl's photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:07 PM


Grape jelly and chest hair. Ugh, I just threw up in my mouth a little.sick :wink:

I just waxed my chest hair and the jelly is only on my nipples...I'm not some kind of sickobigsmile bigsmile bigsmile


That's good! No one should have chest hair! winking

Now the visual is back to hot! tongue2

sekinwisdom's photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:08 PM



Grape jelly and chest hair. Ugh, I just threw up in my mouth a little.sick :wink:

I just waxed my chest hair and the jelly is only on my nipples...I'm not some kind of sickobigsmile bigsmile bigsmile


That's good! No one should have chest hair! winking

Now the visual is back to hot! tongue2

Just a note, I have no chest hair.

Atlantis75's photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:10 PM






Book of Revelations from apostle Atlantis:


1. Women knows we fart and we laugh on it. And every fart is funny, it never gets old.
2. Sometimes our feet stink bad and before washing it, we find it amusing when our partner suffers from it for a few minutes.
3. We are all dirty, we want to lick things on women...and women like those guys more.
4. Everything we do is related to get laid. Marriage was invented to get everyone laid, even if they were very ugly, but at least there is a force that binds them from the church. Guys wouldn't buy fast cars or wear nice suits if it wasn't to get a woman in their bed.

5. When we talk to women, or chat, we already had sex with them at least 20 times in our mind.



I would say that is about 90% correct. But a gentlemen never tells.


That narrows it down whether I'm one or not. sad2



rofl rofl rofl


<---see my pic? I tried to imitate this smiley: sad2
do i have too look at it lol drinks it should be this biggrin


<---- Here you go, I forced a smile on my face. :smile:

sekinwisdom's photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:11 PM

tried to tell ya...lol
:banana: :banana: :banana:
Thank you brother. I should have listened, story of my life.

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:12 PM







Book of Revelations from apostle Atlantis:


1. Women knows we fart and we laugh on it. And every fart is funny, it never gets old.
2. Sometimes our feet stink bad and before washing it, we find it amusing when our partner suffers from it for a few minutes.
3. We are all dirty, we want to lick things on women...and women like those guys more.
4. Everything we do is related to get laid. Marriage was invented to get everyone laid, even if they were very ugly, but at least there is a force that binds them from the church. Guys wouldn't buy fast cars or wear nice suits if it wasn't to get a woman in their bed.

5. When we talk to women, or chat, we already had sex with them at least 20 times in our mind.



I would say that is about 90% correct. But a gentlemen never tells.


That narrows it down whether I'm one or not. sad2



rofl rofl rofl


<---see my pic? I tried to imitate this smiley: sad2
do i have too look at it lol drinks it should be this biggrin


<---- Here you go, I forced a smile on my face. :smile:
awww ya didn't have to force ya self but a smile is better then a sad face bigsmile

EquusDancer's photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:13 PM








Book of Revelations from apostle Atlantis:


1. Women knows we fart and we laugh on it. And every fart is funny, it never gets old.
2. Sometimes our feet stink bad and before washing it, we find it amusing when our partner suffers from it for a few minutes.
3. We are all dirty, we want to lick things on women...and women like those guys more.
4. Everything we do is related to get laid. Marriage was invented to get everyone laid, even if they were very ugly, but at least there is a force that binds them from the church. Guys wouldn't buy fast cars or wear nice suits if it wasn't to get a woman in their bed.

5. When we talk to women, or chat, we already had sex with them at least 20 times in our mind.



I would say that is about 90% correct. But a gentlemen never tells.


That narrows it down whether I'm one or not. sad2



rofl rofl rofl


<---see my pic? I tried to imitate this smiley: sad2
do i have too look at it lol drinks it should be this biggrin


<---- Here you go, I forced a smile on my face. :smile:
awww ya didn't have to force ya self but a smile is better then a sad face bigsmile


I think it's really this for Atlantis

pitchfork

mscherbear's photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:42 PM
Edited by mscherbear on Thu 04/15/10 05:45 PM




I have only been here a week but I am starting to have some deep revelations about the the virtual world around us. I have been portraying the "Nice guy" and "gentlemen" because.... well that is just simply who I am. But I have discovered that most ladies arent really looking for a nice guy, most just want a decent dude, or at least thats what they would settle for. We, the men in the world, have created this, and believe it or not chivalry dies at our hands, not the hands of that beautiful creature we call woman. So I ask you ladies would you be happy just finding a decent dude who is just trying his best to do the next right thing?


Be who you are. Don't try to put on a nice guy persona and don't settle for being a decent dude if you feel you're more than that.flowerforyou

Some women still want a gentleman. I, for one, think that chivalry is sweet, to a point. If we're going out for a fancy dinner, and I've taken the time to actually apply make-up and put on those God awful nylons and heels, okay sure, it'd be nice if you held the door open for me. If you insist on opening my car door EVERY TIME I get out, even if I'm just running in the store to grap a soda or six pack for you, I'd probably get annoyed quickly. If you push it to an extreme, it will become a problem. Certain situations call for different protocols. Perhaps that's why men find women so confusing. laugh

Ultimately, you can't go wrong if you just be yourself. Doesn't mean you'll find someone, but it's certainly better to be alone with who you are then acting a part with a partner. Just my inconsequential thought on the subject.ohwell

Tonight I took a lady for a drive. We drove in the light rain and talked for a few hours. At one point I pulled over on the side of a quiet street and got out, saying nothing. I walked to a beautiful lilac tree and picked a stem of purple flowers for her. I got back in the car, and she was looking at me like I had done the oddest thing in the world. Strange how she would find that odd. Anyway I wouldnt want to get out in the rain and pick the flower every trip to the store, but as a gentlemen I know when the appropriate time to do something special is. The idea is to always have something on hand to make a lady feel special. Sometimes thats a word, sometimes thats a touch, sometimes its a flower on a warm spring day.


Random acts of kindness are an anomalie these days. She probably looked at you like an alien because her last boyfriend had her out changing the flat tire in the rain. Well, it was her car, she was driving, and women wanted equality, right!?! It's one of those be careful what you wish for things.

Being a gentleman is becoming a lost art. I hope you continue to use the medium despite the strange looks from women...someone needs to keep this valuable concept on life support.shades


:thumbsup:

And furthermore, in regard to opening doors...isn't it just common courtesy to open a door for someone? Heck, I do it all the time!

no photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:44 PM


flowerforyou others declare if you are a nice guy or gentlemanflowerforyou

I agree, but how are others supposed to decide about me if I dont express myself and get out there a little. Tell you my views, talk about it. How else would you be able to tell if I was the real deal?


You should be able to do that without telling everyone you're a nice guy. Don't you have a better way to describe yourself, rather than just telling us you're a nice guy?

sekinwisdom's photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:49 PM



flowerforyou others declare if you are a nice guy or gentlemanflowerforyou

I agree, but how are others supposed to decide about me if I dont express myself and get out there a little. Tell you my views, talk about it. How else would you be able to tell if I was the real deal?


You should be able to do that without telling everyone you're a nice guy. Don't you have a better way to describe yourself, rather than just telling us you're a nice guy?

why should anyone change what they call themselves just because others ask them to? I like who I am, and Im just expressing that. What should I say about myself, That I am a compassionate man? Boy wouldn't that spring up questions...

sekinwisdom's photo
Thu 04/15/10 05:50 PM





I have only been here a week but I am starting to have some deep revelations about the the virtual world around us. I have been portraying the "Nice guy" and "gentlemen" because.... well that is just simply who I am. But I have discovered that most ladies arent really looking for a nice guy, most just want a decent dude, or at least thats what they would settle for. We, the men in the world, have created this, and believe it or not chivalry dies at our hands, not the hands of that beautiful creature we call woman. So I ask you ladies would you be happy just finding a decent dude who is just trying his best to do the next right thing?


Be who you are. Don't try to put on a nice guy persona and don't settle for being a decent dude if you feel you're more than that.flowerforyou

Some women still want a gentleman. I, for one, think that chivalry is sweet, to a point. If we're going out for a fancy dinner, and I've taken the time to actually apply make-up and put on those God awful nylons and heels, okay sure, it'd be nice if you held the door open for me. If you insist on opening my car door EVERY TIME I get out, even if I'm just running in the store to grap a soda or six pack for you, I'd probably get annoyed quickly. If you push it to an extreme, it will become a problem. Certain situations call for different protocols. Perhaps that's why men find women so confusing. laugh

Ultimately, you can't go wrong if you just be yourself. Doesn't mean you'll find someone, but it's certainly better to be alone with who you are then acting a part with a partner. Just my inconsequential thought on the subject.ohwell

Tonight I took a lady for a drive. We drove in the light rain and talked for a few hours. At one point I pulled over on the side of a quiet street and got out, saying nothing. I walked to a beautiful lilac tree and picked a stem of purple flowers for her. I got back in the car, and she was looking at me like I had done the oddest thing in the world. Strange how she would find that odd. Anyway I wouldnt want to get out in the rain and pick the flower every trip to the store, but as a gentlemen I know when the appropriate time to do something special is. The idea is to always have something on hand to make a lady feel special. Sometimes thats a word, sometimes thats a touch, sometimes its a flower on a warm spring day.


Random acts of kindness are an anomalie these days. She probably looked at you like an alien because her last boyfriend had her out changing the flat tire in the rain. Well, it was her car, she was driving, and women wanted equality, right!?! It's one of those be careful what you wish for things.

Being a gentleman is becoming a lost art. I hope you continue to use the medium despite the strange looks from women...someone needs to keep this valuable concept on life support.shades


:thumbsup:

And furthermore, in regard to opening doors...isn't it just common courtesy to open a door for someone? Heck, I do it all the time!
It is courtesy but not common....

no photo
Thu 04/15/10 06:09 PM




flowerforyou others declare if you are a nice guy or gentlemanflowerforyou

I agree, but how are others supposed to decide about me if I dont express myself and get out there a little. Tell you my views, talk about it. How else would you be able to tell if I was the real deal?


You should be able to do that without telling everyone you're a nice guy. Don't you have a better way to describe yourself, rather than just telling us you're a nice guy?

why should anyone change what they call themselves just because others ask them to? I like who I am, and Im just expressing that. What should I say about myself, That I am a compassionate man? Boy wouldn't that spring up questions...


If someone tells me they're a nice guy, it really means nothing, as many times what they say doesn't match their actions.

no photo
Thu 04/15/10 06:10 PM


And furthermore, in regard to opening doors...isn't it just common courtesy to open a door for someone? Heck, I do it all the time!


Yeah, really. I hold doors open for people all the time. That doesn't make me a nice guy.. laugh.

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 04/15/10 06:12 PM
instead of announcing it, why not let each individual decide? Some may think someone is nice while others think they aren't

msmyka's photo
Thu 04/15/10 06:12 PM
Hey newbie, just wanna say :thumbsup: on taking the "constructive" criticism that's been thrown your way for the past few days. The fact that you're not getting angry or riled up about it shows you're even tempered and can think through things with out getting defensive. Admirable qualities in my opinion. Just keep being yourself and we will see whatever it is that you are that can not be quantified with words like "nice" or "decent". Who knows, maybe we will find you to be exceptional! :smile: I think what most people want is someone who loves them self enough to be who they really are, so that we can find an honest and true connection with someone. But, I digress...

The point of my post was actually to tell you that you should have some more FUN in the forums, enough of this serious stuff flowerforyou