sekinwisdom


sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 05:52 PM Topic: A tear for the passing of the gentlemen....
Do you cook ?Share a recipe with us in the recipe forum I can cook yes, but I dont use recipes. Kind of an art thing. I looked but cant find your cooking threads. Remember Im new. Al little navigation would be appreciated.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 05:50 PM Topic: Nice guy VS. Decent dude....
I have only been here a week but I am starting to have some deep revelations about the the virtual world around us. I have been portraying the "Nice guy" and "gentlemen" because.... well that is just simply who I am. But I have discovered that most ladies arent really looking for a nice guy, most just want a decent dude, or at least thats what they would settle for. We, the men in the world, have created this, and believe it or not chivalry dies at our hands, not the hands of that beautiful creature we call woman. So I ask you ladies would you be happy just finding a decent dude who is just trying his best to do the next right thing? Be who you are. Don't try to put on a nice guy persona and don't settle for being a decent dude if you feel you're more than that. Some women still want a gentleman. I, for one, think that chivalry is sweet, to a point. If we're going out for a fancy dinner, and I've taken the time to actually apply make-up and put on those God awful nylons and heels, okay sure, it'd be nice if you held the door open for me. If you insist on opening my car door EVERY TIME I get out, even if I'm just running in the store to grap a soda or six pack for you, I'd probably get annoyed quickly. If you push it to an extreme, it will become a problem. Certain situations call for different protocols. Perhaps that's why men find women so confusing. Ultimately, you can't go wrong if you just be yourself. Doesn't mean you'll find someone, but it's certainly better to be alone with who you are then acting a part with a partner. Just my inconsequential thought on the subject. Tonight I took a lady for a drive. We drove in the light rain and talked for a few hours. At one point I pulled over on the side of a quiet street and got out, saying nothing. I walked to a beautiful lilac tree and picked a stem of purple flowers for her. I got back in the car, and she was looking at me like I had done the oddest thing in the world. Strange how she would find that odd. Anyway I wouldnt want to get out in the rain and pick the flower every trip to the store, but as a gentlemen I know when the appropriate time to do something special is. The idea is to always have something on hand to make a lady feel special. Sometimes thats a word, sometimes thats a touch, sometimes its a flower on a warm spring day. Random acts of kindness are an anomalie these days. She probably looked at you like an alien because her last boyfriend had her out changing the flat tire in the rain. Well, it was her car, she was driving, and women wanted equality, right!?! It's one of those be careful what you wish for things. Being a gentleman is becoming a lost art. I hope you continue to use the medium despite the strange looks from women...someone needs to keep this valuable concept on life support. And furthermore, in regard to opening doors...isn't it just common courtesy to open a door for someone? Heck, I do it all the time! It is courtesy but not common....

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 05:49 PM Topic: Nice guy VS. Decent dude....
others declare if you are a nice guy or gentleman I agree, but how are others supposed to decide about me if I dont express myself and get out there a little. Tell you my views, talk about it. How else would you be able to tell if I was the real deal? You should be able to do that without telling everyone you're a nice guy. Don't you have a better way to describe yourself, rather than just telling us you're a nice guy? why should anyone change what they call themselves just because others ask them to? I like who I am, and Im just expressing that. What should I say about myself, That I am a compassionate man? Boy wouldn't that spring up questions...

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 05:41 PM Topic: Gentlemen / Ladies defined
A gentleman does everything for his lady He does so willingly, expects nothing in return If he's truly lucky and caring, he'll earn her love For him and only him, her true heart will burn Well said....

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 05:40 PM Topic: Gentlemen / Ladies defined
A gentlemen is just that a man who is gentle with the feelings, emotions, wants, needs, and desires of the person he has chosen to share himself with. He takes the time to truly get to know a woman, and do his best, with his limited understanding, to touch her heart and soul. He lifts her up and lets her fly. He does all the little things instead of just talking about them. In short, he truly cares about people, and focuses on making others feel special. Of coarse everyone has the basic stereotype that gentlemen opens doors and buys dinner, but it goes much deeper than that. A gentlemen treats others with the respect he would like to be afforded, and that is the very quality that makes us special. Honesty, compassion and understanding. Thats what makes a gentleman a gentleman in my opinion. Theres alot more to it, its a whole belief system that makes a man who he is, and there is a whole different one that makes him gentle. I wont go on as i am coming to understanding that noone believes me anyway. But its still fun to talk about.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 05:25 PM Topic: Gentlemen / Ladies defined
IMO a gentleman or lady has exceptional manners. Very proper type. This IMO is different than someone that just has respect etc. I'm no lady...I'M A WOMAN I personally want to applaud the women. They have contributed so much to mankind. They are warm and compassionate and always keep a level head. Im impressed. You seem to have gotten it.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 05:11 PM Topic: Nice guy VS. Decent dude....
tried to tell ya...lol Thank you brother. I should have listened, story of my life.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 05:10 PM Topic: A tear for the passing of the gentlemen....
you were on a roll I got moderated. I kinda like it here, guess I better do a better job of fitting in.... Ill work on it.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 05:08 PM Topic: Nice guy VS. Decent dude....
Grape jelly and chest hair. Ugh, I just threw up in my mouth a little. I just waxed my chest hair and the jelly is only on my nipples...I'm not some kind of sicko That's good! No one should have chest hair! Now the visual is back to hot! Just a note, I have no chest hair.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 05:03 PM Topic: A tear for the passing of the gentlemen....
Ok you win, no more nice guy threads.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 05:02 PM Topic: The true gentlemen, myth, legend, or just misunderstood?
Ok you win, no more nice guy threads.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 05:02 PM Topic: Nice guy VS. Decent dude....
Ok you win, no more nice guys threads.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 04:45 PM Topic: Nice guy VS. Decent dude....
I have only been here a week but I am starting to have some deep revelations about the the virtual world around us. I have been portraying the "Nice guy" and "gentlemen" because.... well that is just simply who I am. But I have discovered that most ladies arent really looking for a nice guy, most just want a decent dude, or at least thats what they would settle for. We, the men in the world, have created this, and believe it or not chivalry dies at our hands, not the hands of that beautiful creature we call woman. So I ask you ladies would you be happy just finding a decent dude who is just trying his best to do the next right thing? Be who you are. Don't try to put on a nice guy persona and don't settle for being a decent dude if you feel you're more than that. Some women still want a gentleman. I, for one, think that chivalry is sweet, to a point. If we're going out for a fancy dinner, and I've taken the time to actually apply make-up and put on those God awful nylons and heels, okay sure, it'd be nice if you held the door open for me. If you insist on opening my car door EVERY TIME I get out, even if I'm just running in the store to grap a soda or six pack for you, I'd probably get annoyed quickly. If you push it to an extreme, it will become a problem. Certain situations call for different protocols. Perhaps that's why men find women so confusing. Ultimately, you can't go wrong if you just be yourself. Doesn't mean you'll find someone, but it's certainly better to be alone with who you are then acting a part with a partner. Just my inconsequential thought on the subject. Tonight I took a lady for a drive. We drove in the light rain and talked for a few hours. At one point I pulled over on the side of a quiet street and got out, saying nothing. I walked to a beautiful lilac tree and picked a stem of purple flowers for her. I got back in the car, and she was looking at me like I had done the oddest thing in the world. Strange how she would find that odd. Anyway I wouldnt want to get out in the rain and pick the flower every trip to the store, but as a gentlemen I know when the appropriate time to do something special is. The idea is to always have something on hand to make a lady feel special. Sometimes thats a word, sometimes thats a touch, sometimes its a flower on a warm spring day.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 04:39 PM Topic: Nice guy VS. Decent dude....
Book of Revelations from apostle Atlantis: 1. Women knows we fart and we laugh on it. And every fart is funny, it never gets old. 2. Sometimes our feet stink bad and before washing it, we find it amusing when our partner suffers from it for a few minutes. 3. We are all dirty, we want to lick things on women...and women like those guys more. 4. Everything we do is related to get laid. Marriage was invented to get everyone laid, even if they were very ugly, but at least there is a force that binds them from the church. Guys wouldn't buy fast cars or wear nice suits if it wasn't to get a woman in their bed. 5. When we talk to women, or chat, we already had sex with them at least 20 times in our mind. I would say that is about 90% correct. But a gentlemen never tells.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 04:31 PM Topic: Nice guy VS. Decent dude....
Grape jelly and chest hair. Ugh, I just threw up in my mouth a little. Me too....

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 04:29 PM Topic: Nice guy VS. Decent dude....
They don't understand what it means to be a gentleman. I just smeared grape jelly all over my nipples...ladies, any takers??? I'm only asking because I am a true gentleman Brother, you are definitely one of a kind!

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 04:14 PM Topic: A tear for the passing of the gentlemen....
I seem to have that effect on people. I just bet you do..... You seem like a very level headed person, and I would be willing to be you have alot of wisdom to share. Thank you for posting on my thread.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 04:11 PM Topic: Nice guy VS. Decent dude....
most of us have seen many "nice guy posts" sorry but its pretty much a joke... action talks bs walks...plain and simple words are cheap...and everyone knows it... best way to show it is join in the posts and let your personality do the talking.. if you are a nice guy chances are it will show through... but for petes sake no more nice guy posts....lmao I have joined in, and I am letting my personality show through. I am trying to get involved. I post on this topic because people seem to like them and want to talk about it. You keep coming back, and I really like you all, so why not do nice guy posts? Its as good as anything right? missing my point..but hey whatever....im talking the games ,the advice, all the other posts that show little bits of you...not im a nice guy posts....im just trying to help you.. Thank you for your advice, and I apologize if I mistook your other comment. I am not playing games, I am just posting about a topic that interests me and seems to interest alot of other people. I have only been here a few days and I already feel like I have made some new friends. Isnt that what all this is about?

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 04:06 PM Topic: The true gentlemen, myth, legend, or just misunderstood?
Sek I think you are sweet...Carry on being a nice guy/decent dude...You can hold a door open for me anytime Thank you ma lady. And to the ladies above, I thank you for your input, and if you were speaking of me playing the victim, I asure you miss, I am nobody's victim.

sekinwisdom Joined Mon 04/12/10 Posts: 164	Thu 04/15/10 02:30 PM Topic: Nice guy VS. Decent dude....
I have only been here a week but I am starting to have some deep revelations about the the virtual world around us. I have been portraying the "Nice guy" and "gentlemen" because.... well that is just simply who I am. But I have discovered that most ladies arent really looking for a nice guy, most just want a decent dude, or at least thats what they would settle for. We, the men in the world, have created this, and believe it or not chivalry dies at our hands, not the hands of that beautiful creature we call woman. So I ask you ladies would you be happy just finding a decent dude who is just trying his best to do the next right thing? In my experience, it has nothing to do with "nice" or "decent" -- it's all about how domesticable you are. Nothing else matters just so long as you're amenable to becoming a mindless cardboard cutout and following orders unquestioningly. Is it possible that through mutual understand that two people can reach a place where neither one of them turns out as a cardboard cut out?

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