instead of announcing it, why not let each individual decide? Some may think someone is nice while others think they aren't

I have only been here a week but I am starting to have some deep revelations about the the virtual world around us. I have been portraying the "Nice guy" and "gentlemen" because.... well that is just simply who I am. But I have discovered that most ladies arent really looking for a nice guy, most just want a decent dude, or at least thats what they would settle for. We, the men in the world, have created this, and believe it or not chivalry dies at our hands, not the hands of that beautiful creature we call woman. So I ask you ladies would you be happy just finding a decent dude who is just trying his best to do the next right thing?