Previous 1
Topic: How do all the shadows...
TheShadow's photo
Sun 02/21/10 09:34 AM
Expect to get noticed, meet somone or even make friends on this site if all they do is peak in the fourms,but never post?


I

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 02/21/10 09:44 AM
Some people just don't have an interest in the forums, or the time. I have a friend on here that never posts ..I know he lurks cause he tells me he sees my jokes. It's not for everybody.

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 02/21/10 09:46 AM
Maybe in reality they don't really want to get noticed.

Or they just don't have anything to say.

Or they are afraid the grammar police will find them.

TheShadow's photo
Sun 02/21/10 09:50 AM
I know it's not for everyone, and when I first joined this site. I was the same way for the first couple weeks. Then I got brave laugh





RKISIT's photo
Sun 02/21/10 09:54 AM
i mostly post in threads that were typed by someone else. i have posted topics but the one page or no responses got old after awhile.laugh i'll post a topic here and there but i usually just respond to others post

Mikebert4's photo
Sun 02/21/10 09:55 AM
Bah, I just dived straight in :smile:

People expect others to browse profiles and search and whatnot. I've not done that fora while :s maybe I ought to?

oh well :D

M

bsdetector's photo
Sun 02/21/10 09:55 AM

Maybe in reality they don't really want to get noticed.

Or they just don't have anything to say.

Or they are afraid the grammar police will find them.


What he said.

no photo
Sun 02/21/10 09:58 AM
I'm heavily absorbed in self-counseling for habitual posting.It's attributed to that pesky battle of the left & right hemisphere & all that.ohwell laugh

TheShadow's photo
Sun 02/21/10 10:02 AM
I was just looking at this thread, and it has 40 vews already and I'm sure it will get a lot more. it's not the people that use other things for pic's. it's the ones that we don't know who they are. It makes me wonder how many people actually hang around the fourm, but never let anyone know there here.


One of my post has over 200 views and I know there are not that many that post on the forum. It would be nice to see more people joine the forum.





TheShadow's photo
Sun 02/21/10 10:04 AM

I'm heavily absorbed in self-counseling for habitual posting.It's attributed to that pesky battle of the left & right hemisphere & all that.ohwell laugh




I see youlaugh

RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 02/21/10 10:06 AM
It could be that they are shy and having trouble relating with others.

skydancingA's photo
Sun 02/21/10 10:42 AM
If I read a post, and my comment has already been stated by
someone else, I move on.
I will post if someone ELSE said something pertinent/humorous to lend support of their thoughts.
But posting just to post...
Not so much :-)

Ahhhh.
But I do read everything.
That is what keeps your posting# high :-)

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 02/21/10 10:51 AM
Actually there are many members that never post within the forums and choose not to. They are here only for one thing and that is to meet others and not to make friends within the forums.

Actually have been talking to one that e-mailed me here over a month ago and he has never posted within the forums and due to his job does not have the time to as well.

Which is kewl with me for we have had plenty of time to get to know each other on the phone instead as friends.bigsmile

TheShadow's photo
Sun 02/21/10 10:52 AM
Edited by TheShadow on Sun 02/21/10 10:52 AM

If I read a post, and my comment has already been stated by
someone else, I move on.
I will post if someone ELSE said something pertinent/humorous to lend support of their thoughts.
But posting just to post...
Not so much :-)

Ahhhh.
But I do read everything.
That is what keeps your posting# high :-)


I'm the same way. If it has been said already and after a couple pages. Most likely it has been said. Some post though, I wont post in because it might be that I have never been in the situation. Or it's just not something i'm interested in.

TheShadow's photo
Sun 02/21/10 10:58 AM

Actually there are many members that never post within the forums and choose not to. They are here only for one thing and that is to meet others and not to make friends within the forums.

Actually have been talking to one that e-mailed me here over a month ago and he has never posted within the forums and due to his job does not have the time to as well.

Which is kewl with me for we have had plenty of time to get to know each other on the phone instead as friends.bigsmile


There is nothing wrong in not posting. I just brought this up because some threads I have posted have been viewed over 200 times within a couple days. And I was like, hm, wonder how many people hang out on the thread like I stated before. But never let anyone know there here.


Guess what i'm saying is. We need fresh meatrofl rofl rofl

Shasta1's photo
Sun 02/21/10 11:22 AM

I was just looking at this thread, and it has 40 vews already and I'm sure it will get a lot more. it's not the people that use other things for pic's. it's the ones that we don't know who they are. It makes me wonder how many people actually hang around the fourm, but never let anyone know there here.


One of my post has over 200 views and I know there are not that many that post on the forum. It would be nice to see more people joine the forum.







I wonder actually how many people are on the forums that post?

TheShadow's photo
Sun 02/21/10 11:43 AM


I was just looking at this thread, and it has 40 vews already and I'm sure it will get a lot more. it's not the people that use other things for pic's. it's the ones that we don't know who they are. It makes me wonder how many people actually hang around the fourm, but never let anyone know there here.


One of my post has over 200 views and I know there are not that many that post on the forum. It would be nice to see more people joine the forum.







I wonder actually how many people are on the forums that post?


My guess would be anywhere from 30 to 50 the most on a good month. Lots of people will post on the new meembers forum, but maybe out of 10 people 2 might stick around.

RKISIT's photo
Sun 02/21/10 11:46 AM
when i first started posting in the forums when it was justsayhi, this place was nonstop hardcore posting action,then when it switched to M2 it still was rather busy but lately it has just came down to a few regulars...i just can't explain it

Shasta1's photo
Sun 02/21/10 11:52 AM
Was just thinking last night, wondering when spring comes will people start posting more again...

Christinacospgs's photo
Sun 02/21/10 11:53 AM
I haven't had as much time to even read the forums lately, much less post... but I do enjoy it. I wonder how many are like me, and sometimes have a lot of posts and then go dormant awhile?

Previous 1