Thats what I was trying to get at earlier in the thread. If someone is so used to being with different partners how is this person going to handle being with only one, from now on, and for the rest of their life?

I don't hold anything against anyone for what or who they've done in the past, of course there's always the disease thing to watch out for. I've done plenty in the past that I'm not proud of but not in the sexual or relationships part of it. Always wanted to be with just one. Unfortunately it hasn't worked out that way. lol But I think it takes like minded people on that subject to make it work.

yes and no; history repeats itself. If a girl were to tell me she has been with 50 guys I would probly not touch that, in fear of my beans corroding. If she said she were with only 3 guys, but they were all at once, I would probly not touch that either.

Double digits is bad. mkay?

Double digits is bad? So, if she has been with 10, that's bad, but 9 is ok?

at once????

First of all

Why would ya ask

To tell the truth that ? never popped into my mind really

Is it because your scared you won't be as good or as experienced as the one before or the one your with

Is it because of illness--you can catch it with only one partner

Why would ya really care?

i'm a virgin,looking for a woman to devirginize me

Personally, I like my women with a little experience.

Those young ones are always, like: "Eeew - I'm not doing that!"

In the past week, yes.
In the past year, maybe
In the past decade...

Well if he was with more than one in the past week

and your a couple

then somthings wrong

If your not a couple then who cares

I don't care if ya had or 1,000 if its just sex between us

Just in theory though

Dont be silly


cover the willy!!!!!!!!!!!!!

one of my ex's would always ask me if he was better then the bf before him. My answer was always the same, "things are different with you then they were with him." I never said if they were better or worse. This is why I don't like talking about my or their sexlife past, less hassles.

If people are worried about STDs, make to get checked for STDs often. I really do think it has more to do with worried about being compared more than anything else.

Yeah, I've had someone ask me that before.

Well, was he?

It might. I'd be concerned if they had more than a few in the past year. It would tell me that they're not long term relationship material.

ummm YEAH! If he ever called for just a booty call,it would be hard to say no, He was the kind of guy that the woman was always taken care of first. He did have a ton of other issues though.

The number of partners would not be as big of a concern as if the person is disease free.

It only takes one time to be exposed to AIDS, gonorrhea, syphilis, or any other venereal disease.

The question I would ask is when is the last time you have had testing for those diseases, and are you willing to get tested NOW?

If they say no, then I wouldn't deal with them on any intimate level.

So you would ask in order to see if they were relationship material?

What if they had only been with one person? Would that automatically make them relationship material?

Yeah, I'd be wary of anyone who would say no to that.

Right on!!