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Long way to look down...
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Ok, I need to add url-/url in the future for links.
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Long way to look down...
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From the top of the Burj Dubai..now the tallest building in the world:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xl4Ppae9ZE0 I wouldn't mind being at the top of that..just not outside. |
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Moon
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twuScTcDP_Q
Definitely an original concept, IMO. Really enjoyed it. |
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 16
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Wow..thats kind of..I can't think of the word but its nice and kind of sad at the same time. |
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So NOT Crushing... - part 3
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I've always got a crush... my little fantasy world It's amazing what a great imagination can accomplish. I don't know what I'd do without one. |
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Please help me understand.
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Yep, like I said I don't understand the purpose of writing "I'm different than everyone you've met".
Everyone has subtle differences. I'm only interested in what a potential date has to offer in a relationship (and the first thought is not sex). As I'm sure she is interested in what I'd have to offer. Its a given that people will probably embellish their profiles a little. Thats not necessarily lying. But I still maintain that the majority of people in their profiles are not lying in any case. They are only stating how they view what they'd like. Or maybe a number of people are just confused in what they want in someone. |
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So NOT Crushing... - part 3
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I have no idea what this thread is about but I'm going to just join in and say hi to everyone.
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So..........
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it's hard to find someone you really like, who also really likes you, and you're both available and live near eachother too, here or in 3D world --- real love is a gift, like real friendship. This seems to be a really good way to put it...a gift. I will be honest about something here about how I percieved that. I was in a marriage for 10 years. I honestly did not view her as my soulmate and felt very unhappy. But I married her because in my own mind..that someone loved me the way she did was a gift and I better damn well accept it and like it because if I didn't, I'd be alone. She was the only 'gift' I would receive. (This was what I convinced myself). Obviously eventually we divorced because I could not give her what she needed. I tried..but I just could not feel the same way towards her. Real love is a gift. If both feel it, thats one of the best gifts you can recieve. The truth is many don't know how to handle it, and many feel love is 'disposable'. |
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 16
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Single yesterday,
Single today Single forever. (Well, hopefully not the last one) |
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So..........
Edited by
CHutch
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Sun 01/24/10 01:53 PM
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I know for a fact men are generally stimulated by what they read in a woman's profile, not by the pictures they post. Men do not judge women by their looks. 
If you don't like what you are getting, change what you are doing. well i would say your wrong. looks at least you know may be true their profile is almost never true! Sarcasm owns...FTW!! yes i knew that..... let me elaborate..... Profiles are are generally full of lies and a waste of time.....hence men don't choose not to read simply because they are visual but also because people are liars! It's always about looks on both sides men and women...... I don't share this sentiment. Yes, I look at the photos. But I also read the profiles to get a sense of their personality. I will ignore a very pleasing photo that has a profile that seems to indicate 'airhead' or 'snob'. I want someone down to earth, reasonably intelligent and open minded, even if that person could not be a VS model. I'm not sure what you're complaining about. You have a half naked photo and alot of women..like alot of men..will respond to that. And you like that response as opposed to being clothed and gathering..fewer..responses. lol...nevermind! It's pointless i guess! It is what it is.......Maybe i'm living in a different world???? But, in my experience i have read countless profiles staing they are the girl next door and yet i am still here....so go figure man???? someone is lying! Maybe it is a different world. But I do believe there are very few people who can be whats called a perfect match for you. The annoyance of course is going through dozens, or even hundreds of women to find what you could call that 'perfect match'. But think about what you're offering. I don't know you at all, but if I was a girl I'd probably think you were more interested in offering a good night (through your photo) than much more than that. Although I will say I'm probably the absolute WRONG person to take advice from...as I've yet to have any responses here. So you know what..just keep doing what you're doing. It's working better than what I've tried. I can only tell you what I believe. |
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Please help me understand.
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Thinking about dating and maybe settling down again it maybe temporary insanity on my part or just tired of the same ole bar scene but a bit confused on how so many people seem to be looking for someone and just browsing some posts and comments from people everyone seems to have the same complaints about the dating scene. If everyone is complaining about the same things why is it so difficult to meet someone. Because most people on these sites are LIARS, thats why! [/quote And I thought I was cynical.Are some liars? Sure. Most? Thats hard to swallow. |
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So..........
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I know for a fact men are generally stimulated by what they read in a woman's profile, not by the pictures they post. Men do not judge women by their looks.
If you don't like what you are getting, change what you are doing. well i would say your wrong. looks at least you know may be true their profile is almost never true! Sarcasm owns...FTW!! yes i knew that..... let me elaborate..... Profiles are are generally full of lies and a waste of time.....hence men don't choose not to read simply because they are visual but also because people are liars! It's always about looks on both sides men and women...... I don't share this sentiment. Yes, I look at the photos. But I also read the profiles to get a sense of their personality. I will ignore a very pleasing photo that has a profile that seems to indicate 'airhead' or 'snob'. I want someone down to earth, reasonably intelligent and open minded, even if that person could not be a VS model. I'm not sure what you're complaining about. You have a half naked photo and alot of women..like alot of men..will respond to that. And you like that response as opposed to being clothed and gathering..fewer..responses. |
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Guess their age...
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29 ..and I'm 35
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So..........
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Only about sex? I don't think so. I think if someone absolutely only had sex on their mind, they wouldn't go through all the trouble of trying to line up a date on the internet. There would be other, much easier options.
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"What do you want?"
Edited by
CHutch
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Sun 01/24/10 11:25 AM
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As childish as this may seems, I have no idea how to answer this question for myself. I also don't get what it means. Before you assume I'm a depressed emo guy with long hair covering my face, hear me out. When someone says, "What do you want out of a relationship?" I answer, "An attractive, easy-going, smart, honest, fun, girl who has goals in life and a great personality...etc." Doesn't everyone answer that? Of course they do, so why do people ask themselves (or others) this question? Nobody wants a relationship full of the opposite of course... No. For me that answer is too subjective. My answer seems to be a woman who I 'share an emotional, mental, an physical attraction' with. I really don't know what that is like yet. If you don't share that with your partner, than the items you mentioned flip to the opposite pretty quick. |
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singer brain tease - part 11
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I don't understand what this is about.
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Guess their age...
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55?
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Yes I would. I don't know if it would work out, but it would be interesting.
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I'll Be Honest, Will You?
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I like to put my cold feet on a warm back under the covers.
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I may be old fashion but if looking hasn't worked yet how about just letting friendships build and if something sparks from that then you guys have one of the biggest humps compleated which is comunication.. theres someone for everyone. You will know her when you meet her.hugs! This makes sense, except I'm not good at making friends. I guess what I've been told before, and its probably true..that I've put up such a tall and thick wall around me. And people notice that. And I'm stuck between wanting to tear it down, and stay inside in the safety. But yes. It does help to talk about it. We got a few things in common. is it because you are shy or because you "say the wrong thing" and I say that loosely.. Shyness is part of it. But there's more, in the past 5 years things have happened that I guess I felt a wall was necessary. I don't want to share here on the forum. Privately sure but not publicly. |
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