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Topic: y r nice guys invisable to women??
mallymal's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:40 PM
what is it about a nice guys that drive women into making them be just friends? girls always say they want to meet some one that just sweeps them off there feet with poems and flowers or with there sense of humor... they say that but when it happens they change there mind about it, y is that?? r they afraid to let that guy get close to them? r they afraid that if they enter a relationship with that person they might scare them off?? i have heard girls say "awe ur a nice guy, but i want to b just friends." and not even 10 minutes later that same girl says she wishes she could meet a nice guy... did i miss something?

EliteChassis7's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:43 PM
damn good question... i've often wondered the same thing... why do i have so many lady friends, i'm nice to them... etc... i have no idea...

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Mon 01/11/10 06:43 PM

TxsSun's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:43 PM
Where is Lex?????

DTHRomeo's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:44 PM




Pass some PATS

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:45 PM





Pass some PATS



drinker

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:45 PM
They are not invisable to me!............








I just don't like em!!!:heart: devil devil devil devil

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:45 PM



sorry pats I'm not asking just taking some



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Mon 01/11/10 06:46 PM

what is it about a nice guys that drive women into making them be just friends? girls always say they want to meet some one that just sweeps them off there feet with poems and flowers or with there sense of humor... they say that but when it happens they change there mind about it, y is that?? r they afraid to let that guy get close to them? r they afraid that if they enter a relationship with that person they might scare them off?? i have heard girls say "awe ur a nice guy, but i want to b just friends." and not even 10 minutes later that same girl says she wishes she could meet a nice guy... did i miss something?


It's because, a lot of times, they think they're SUPPOSED to say they want a nice guy. It's the "proper" thing to say. But they generally don't actually want the nice guy, because a lot of nice guys are doormats, and once you've wiped your feet on them a few times, the appeal is gone.

I should add that it's not just the nice guys who suffer from the invisibility problem -- I'm about as far away from being a nice guy as you can get without actually wearing some sort of armored suit and carrying medieval weaponry, but I am totally undetectable to women who are within 897,000 miles of me. A true mystery of science.


Ruth34611's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:46 PM
Chemistry. It's all about the chemistry. Just because you're nice doesn't mean there's any chemistry.

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:48 PM


what is it about a nice guys that drive women into making them be just friends? girls always say they want to meet some one that just sweeps them off there feet with poems and flowers or with there sense of humor... they say that but when it happens they change there mind about it, y is that?? r they afraid to let that guy get close to them? r they afraid that if they enter a relationship with that person they might scare them off?? i have heard girls say "awe ur a nice guy, but i want to b just friends." and not even 10 minutes later that same girl says she wishes she could meet a nice guy... did i miss something?


It's because, a lot of times, they think they're SUPPOSED to say they want a nice guy. It's the "proper" thing to say. But they generally don't actually want the nice guy, because a lot of nice guys are doormats, and once you've wiped your feet on them a few times, the appeal is gone.

I should add that it's not just the nice guys who suffer from the invisibility problem -- I'm about as far away from being a nice guy as you can get without actually wearing some sort of armored suit and carrying medieval weaponry, but I am totally undetectable to women who are within 897,000 miles of me. A true mystery of science.




You're wearing 'invisiblitly' glasses....didn't you know?

ashley_renee's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:50 PM
You're serious, right?

It's because NICE GUYS DON'T HAVE ANY BALLS.

That's why you're invisible.
Because you don't take a chance.

You want to talk to a girl that you like?
TALK TO HER.

Don't wait for someone else who HAS BALLS to talk to her.
Sure he might be a jerk, but he made the initiative to make the first move.


I hate these threads. grumble

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:50 PM
rats..another nice guy that's young and far away..

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Mon 01/11/10 06:50 PM



what is it about a nice guys that drive women into making them be just friends? girls always say they want to meet some one that just sweeps them off there feet with poems and flowers or with there sense of humor... they say that but when it happens they change there mind about it, y is that?? r they afraid to let that guy get close to them? r they afraid that if they enter a relationship with that person they might scare them off?? i have heard girls say "awe ur a nice guy, but i want to b just friends." and not even 10 minutes later that same girl says she wishes she could meet a nice guy... did i miss something?


It's because, a lot of times, they think they're SUPPOSED to say they want a nice guy. It's the "proper" thing to say. But they generally don't actually want the nice guy, because a lot of nice guys are doormats, and once you've wiped your feet on them a few times, the appeal is gone.

I should add that it's not just the nice guys who suffer from the invisibility problem -- I'm about as far away from being a nice guy as you can get without actually wearing some sort of armored suit and carrying medieval weaponry, but I am totally undetectable to women who are within 897,000 miles of me. A true mystery of science.




You're wearing 'invisiblitly' glasses....didn't you know?


So much for Lens Crafters....

TxsSun's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:51 PM
I knew Lex would show up :smile:


Time for popcorn Pats bigsmile

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Mon 01/11/10 06:51 PM

I knew Lex would show up :smile:


Time for popcorn Pats bigsmile


It's like waving a Red Bull in front of a flag....

....or something....


Pnronne's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:55 PM

You're serious, right?

It's because NICE GUYS DON'T HAVE ANY BALLS.

That's why you're invisible.
Because you don't take a chance.

You want to talk to a girl that you like?
TALK TO HER.

Don't wait for someone else who HAS BALLS to talk to her.
Sure he might be a jerk, but he made the initiative to make the first move.


I hate these threads. grumble


I have to agree here. Most nice guys are not confident (Cocky is not Confidence) and It is proven, Woman Love a man that is confident, self assured, first and foremost. Now the reason the "bad boy" gets the woman , is because woman mistake Cocky for true self assurance and confidence.


just my 2 cents


TxsSun's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:00 PM


I knew Lex would show up :smile:


Time for popcorn Pats bigsmile


It's like waving a Red Bull in front of a flag....

....or something....




Close enough :wink:

shoesmonkey's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:02 PM
I have a nice guy and, I wouldn't trade him for the world. Yeah, he's really sweet and kind. But, I'd never treat him like a doormat.

Jill298's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:06 PM
They aren't invisble. I noticed them when I kept walking past.

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