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Lex that brings it down to 498 now
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This should be fun. What do you think the opposite sex is really looking for in a partner? And don't just say a jerk or a b!tch. Really give your views and thoughts about this. Ok. Brownies are so good warmed up with ice cream and hot fudge sauce....... 
Have you ever seen a white brownie with ice cream and hot fudge? Just asking 
I haven't. Sounds yummy.. |
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Lex that brings it down to 498 now
hah. Glad I wasn't the only one who thought that way. |
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A man who does no thinking at all would be a complete turn off. This is why I didn't go out again with the last guy. He wanted me to decide things for him. That's what I'm talking about when I say women want a man that leads. One of the differences in the way men and women think is a man LOVES it when you ask him what he wants and give it to him. But, women are happier when a man tells her to relax, he's taken care of everything. She wants to be taken into his world. |
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A man who does no thinking at all would be a complete turn off. This is why I didn't go out again with the last guy. He wanted me to decide things for him. That's what I'm talking about when I say women want a man that leads. One of the differences in the way men and women think is a man LOVES it when you ask him what he wants and give it to him. But, women are happier when a man tells her to relax, he's taken care of everything. She wants to be taken into his world. What is this world you speak of? There is only one world and we can both coexist happily (men/women). I get uptight when someone tells me to relax, I'll relax when I'm good and ready
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Men will never know what women want, mainly because women don't know what women want :P
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Guys want: 1) sex 2) the remote control 3) sex 4) Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue 5) beer 6) more sex 7) personal parking spot at Hooters 
8) sex 9) shiny ,hot sports car 10) non- stop sex sorry - I'm just talking off the top of my head here...
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What is this world you speak of? There is only one world and we can both coexist happily (men/women). I get uptight when someone tells me to relax, I'll relax when I'm good and ready
I live in my world. You live in your world. Our worlds cross on this forum. I'm not talking about a stranger telling you to relax. I'm talking about someone you have built a connection with. Someone you trust. |
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Edited by
papersmile
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Tue 12/29/09 06:59 AM
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What is this world you speak of? There is only one world and we can both coexist happily (men/women). I get uptight when someone tells me to relax, I'll relax when I'm good and ready
I live in my world. You live in your world. Our worlds cross on this forum. I'm not talking about a stranger telling you to relax. I'm talking about someone you have built a connection with. Someone you trust. even with someone close to me, i take the word 'relax' in a derogatory way, sort of how one would tell a child to stop his tantrum. however, i do admit to loving the feeling that i am taken care of, that i'm protected by a strong male, regardless of how sexist and old fashioned that may sound. |
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What is this world you speak of? There is only one world and we can both coexist happily (men/women). I get uptight when someone tells me to relax, I'll relax when I'm good and ready
I live in my world. You live in your world. Our worlds cross on this forum. I'm not talking about a stranger telling you to relax. I'm talking about someone you have built a connection with. Someone you trust. We do not live in different worlds, we live in different places. Our paths cross on the forums.
Someone I trust, have a connection with would know me better than to tell me to relax. If for one reason or another I am upset, it will pass but not because I was told to relax
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Edited by
Dempcey
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Tue 12/29/09 08:02 AM
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When dealing with two mature adults, the same thing my own gender wants: love, security, compromise, good communication, trust, honestly, respect, friendship, good sex life, companionship, and a boat load of understanding.
It's the navigating through all the strange weeds in the garden to find the mature adults that is the issue from my experience. |
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Guys want: 1) sex 2) the remote control 3) sex 4) Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue 5) beer 6) more sex 7) personal parking spot at Hooters
8) sex 9) shiny ,hot sports car 10) non- stop sex sorry - I'm just talking off the top of my head here...
Wow, I don't know where to begin with this. An alteration is required when talking about me. 1. Ok maybe, I'd be lying if I said I didn't want at least some sex. 2. What all the time? Sometimes I just don't feel like watching TV. Sometimes I want to watch what she watches. 3. Since it's mentioned again I'll say it again, I think I'd want some, but I think to much would drive you insane. 4 . What good is that? I don't like sports and I'm loyal to one woman ever. Now if my girl happened to be one of the models, that's different. 5 . Nope, Non-drinker. Straight-edge for life. 6 . Again? But we just finished! Damn woman, give me some time to rest!
7. Hooters? Although I like Chicken, there are better bar and grills with a much better reputation. 8. I swear you're trying to kill me! Go ahead and give the pool boy a go, he likes you! 9. Well I do like shiny things. Can't I have a more family-oriented car or van and then trick it out with awesome stuff instead? 10. Non-stop?! I'm not Superman. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is spongy and bruised. I hope you realize non-stop sex would kill me.... that's it isn't it, you are trying to kill me with sex! |
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A man who does no thinking at all would be a complete turn off. This is why I didn't go out again with the last guy. He wanted me to decide things for him. That's what I'm talking about when I say women want a man that leads. One of the differences in the way men and women think is a man LOVES it when you ask him what he wants and give it to him. But, women are happier when a man tells her to relax, he's taken care of everything. She wants to be taken into his world. Not necessarily. I want a man who can make decisions on his own, but who does not think he has to make all the decisions. I decided what we were doing for the first date and wanted to see what he'd come up with for the second. He wouldn't. Even a couple ideas thrown out would have been fine. I want someone who will make decisions sometimes, but is happy when I do as well. Not just one or the other. |
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whatever it is they want it's not me!!!! Right there with ya, bro. lol |
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boys want all the fun without the strings or responsibility
MEN want the same things women do I think. Companionship...as well as good food and good intimate relationships..lol |
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women want a man like me but just won't say it
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Not necessarily. I want a man who can make decisions on his own, but who does not think he has to make all the decisions. I decided what we were doing for the first date and wanted to see what he'd come up with for the second. He wouldn't. Even a couple ideas thrown out would have been fine. I want someone who will make decisions sometimes, but is happy when I do as well. Not just one or the other. So, a man who leads, but also listens to your thoughts and opinions. This is what a good leader does. He listens to what everyone thinks and then decides what to do. It's a poor leader that runs things without listening or expects someone else to lead for him. |
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Not necessarily. I want a man who can make decisions on his own, but who does not think he has to make all the decisions. I decided what we were doing for the first date and wanted to see what he'd come up with for the second. He wouldn't. Even a couple ideas thrown out would have been fine. I want someone who will make decisions sometimes, but is happy when I do as well. Not just one or the other. So, a man who leads, but also listens to your thoughts and opinions. This is what a good leader does. He listens to what everyone thinks and then decides what to do. It's a poor leader that runs things without listening or expects someone else to lead for him. Do you always plan your dates, or does she plan them sometimes? Or, does she give you ideas and you ultimately make the decision? |
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Not necessarily. I want a man who can make decisions on his own, but who does not think he has to make all the decisions. I decided what we were doing for the first date and wanted to see what he'd come up with for the second. He wouldn't. Even a couple ideas thrown out would have been fine. I want someone who will make decisions sometimes, but is happy when I do as well. Not just one or the other. So, a man who leads, but also listens to your thoughts and opinions. This is what a good leader does. He listens to what everyone thinks and then decides what to do. It's a poor leader that runs things without listening or expects someone else to lead for him. Do you always plan your dates, or does she plan them sometimes? Or, does she give you ideas and you ultimately make the decision? I plan all my FIRST dates and the next two or three. After that anything goes. |
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