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Topic: How do you know when it's done and over--
Coldfire25's photo
Thu 10/22/09 09:24 PM
Edited by Coldfire25 on Thu 10/22/09 09:26 PM
and youre ready to pack your bags? Lack of love felt, nothing but the screaming at the top of your lungs? Sleepless nights? I'm curious of the kinds of responses out there for this question.

redhead44613's photo
Thu 10/22/09 09:26 PM
umm yeah that's about the time to leave.

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 10/22/09 09:27 PM
When the sex goes bad
The kissing stops
The bad mouthing starts
When being near the person starts to hurt:heart:

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Thu 10/22/09 09:27 PM

umm yeah that's about the time to leave.


i concur

Pumpkin_King's photo
Thu 10/22/09 09:27 PM
Well i guess it would be the screaming at the top of your lungs would be my best guess, but it all depends on how you feel, its hard to let go of something you love no matter what happens.

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Thu 10/22/09 09:28 PM
should have ALREADY been gone.

Edy_ca's photo
Thu 10/22/09 09:30 PM

and youre ready to pack your bags? Lack of love felt, nothing but the screaming at the top of your lungs? Sleepless nights? I'm curious of the kinds of responses out there for this question.


i think that a lot of times the screaming is just the last attempt, or maybe pent up anger from "it" being over for some time...i think, things end before the screaming yelling etc start...break ups are hard...and sometimes we just lose ourselves and ability to go away in a civil manner...

earthytaurus76's photo
Thu 10/22/09 09:31 PM

and youre ready to pack your bags? Lack of love felt, nothing but the screaming at the top of your lungs? Sleepless nights? I'm curious of the kinds of responses out there for this question.


When theres a lack of love felt.


I dont hang around for that ****.

Coldfire25's photo
Thu 10/22/09 09:38 PM
all very good answers. in my last relationship, there was alot of yelling, mostly from her, but she was always able to convince me to stay. due to recent events though, i dont think i can be there for her anymore. its gotten a lil bit too hard, if i had had plenty of relationships before, i might have more know-how. but thats not the case.

daisy911's photo
Thu 10/22/09 09:42 PM
When there is no more fight left in you. When your silent and can't be bothered to waste one ounze of energy on that person anymore. Frankly scarlet I don't give a damn.

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Thu 10/22/09 09:43 PM

all very good answers. in my last relationship, there was alot of yelling, mostly from her, but she was always able to convince me to stay. due to recent events though, i dont think i can be there for her anymore. its gotten a lil bit too hard, if i had had plenty of relationships before, i might have more know-how. but thats not the case.


that's no way to live...no matter how much someone convinces ya...
get out while you can..good luck!

remark4636's photo
Thu 10/22/09 09:43 PM
sounds like bad chemistry...don't give up. There are plenty more women out there...in fact it took me 4 different dates...each one I learned a little something. The biggest lesson was don't come off crowding her space appearing to be needy, be youself, witty, charming, hold open the door. Another important factor is be confident.

I've been dating the same girl for about a month now. We seem to click very well, she just might be the one.

Good luck on your journey.

Edy_ca's photo
Thu 10/22/09 09:48 PM
i am not anyone that has any room to tell you what you should or shouldn't do. you do what is best for you, and i am sure that you also know that we teach others how to treat us. life is too short to live it and not be happy...go for makes you happy, and do it respectfully and with dignity...

Coldfire25's photo
Thu 10/22/09 09:50 PM
lol wish i could find an attractive woman who has no high expectations for men. where are they at? seems like theyre an endangered species.

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Thu 10/22/09 09:50 PM
Yup, sometime we, hang on when we know it is not working. and when it breaks its like chrystal, all the glue in the world will ever make right again.

Edy_ca's photo
Thu 10/22/09 10:05 PM

lol wish i could find an attractive woman who has no high expectations for men. where are they at? seems like theyre an endangered species.


even a nice, easy going girl like myself has expectations...i expect you respect me, work, love your kids, pick up after yourself, make me tea at night, help me pay the bills, let me be free, since a realtionship is not an ownership
of course i will give you all of that in return...

lulu24's photo
Thu 10/22/09 10:08 PM
i could fix almost anything...and i stayed even though i didn't feel a thing. worked through that and fell back in love...then it fell apart again a few years later.

i left when i could honestly say that being with him was worse for my kids than being without him would be.

Coldfire25's photo
Thu 10/22/09 10:09 PM


lol wish i could find an attractive woman who has no high expectations for men. where are they at? seems like theyre an endangered species.


even a nice, easy going girl like myself has expectations...i expect you respect me, work, love your kids, pick up after yourself, make me tea at night, help me pay the bills, let me be free, since a realtionship is not an ownership
of course i will give you all of that in return...


those are all very reasonable expectations, which any guy should be able to fulfill. i know i could. most women never really give me a chance though. even if those expectations can be met, there are still ways of turnin off women though

earthytaurus76's photo
Thu 10/22/09 10:09 PM

When there is no more fight left in you. When your silent and can't be bothered to waste one ounze of energy on that person anymore. Frankly scarlet I don't give a damn.


haa thats cute! Ive said the same darn thing.

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 10/22/09 10:26 PM
When I'm not happy.

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