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Do you all think it's better to be single than stay in a relationship that is no good for you, even if that includes reasons that the person youre with cant control? no such thing! if they can't control it.. go find a good doctor that will help her achieve control. If anyone really wants to control it.. they can!! good answer. you know, i cant see the future. i had no idea things were going to get as bad as they did. she may resent me (although i dont think she does, she took the news better than i thought she would) but in my defense when we first got together she told me she was going to start taking better care of herself, and i thought she meant it. what else could i do? as a man with not much experience with women and taking care of others, i thought it best i back out. Confused a bit here, how was she not taking care of herself? |
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Do you all think it's better to be single than stay in a relationship that is no good for you, even if that includes reasons that the person youre with cant control? no such thing! if they can't control it.. go find a good doctor that will help her achieve control. If anyone really wants to control it.. they can!! good answer. you know, i cant see the future. i had no idea things were going to get as bad as they did. she may resent me (although i dont think she does, she took the news better than i thought she would) but in my defense when we first got together she told me she was going to start taking better care of herself, and i thought she meant it. what else could i do? as a man with not much experience with women and taking care of others, i thought it best i back out. Confused a bit here, how was she not taking care of herself? she had 2 strokes because she was not watching her diet and smoking even though she has diabetes. |
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Do you all think it's better to be single than stay in a relationship that is no good for you, even if that includes reasons that the person youre with cant control? If the person you are with can't control their life you are not going to be able to either. Lot of times not being able to control your life is just and excuse or a choice to be weak. You have to ask yourself are you enableing bad behavior? He ended the relationship so he's not enabling bad bahavior; he's helping to put a stop to it. That was the point I was making. Not enableing a sick relationship was a wise move. He seems to feel guilt for leaving when really that was the wisest course for all. |
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Do you all think it's better to be single than stay in a relationship that is no good for you, even if that includes reasons that the person youre with cant control? no such thing! if they can't control it.. go find a good doctor that will help her achieve control. If anyone really wants to control it.. they can!! good answer. you know, i cant see the future. i had no idea things were going to get as bad as they did. she may resent me (although i dont think she does, she took the news better than i thought she would) but in my defense when we first got together she told me she was going to start taking better care of herself, and i thought she meant it. what else could i do? as a man with not much experience with women and taking care of others, i thought it best i back out. Confused a bit here, how was she not taking care of herself? she had 2 strokes because she was not watching her diet and smoking even though she has diabetes. You are 25.. why were you dating an 70 year old woman? Honestly she sounds suicidal |
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Do you all think it's better to be single than stay in a relationship that is no good for you, even if that includes reasons that the person youre with cant control? no such thing! if they can't control it.. go find a good doctor that will help her achieve control. If anyone really wants to control it.. they can!! good answer. you know, i cant see the future. i had no idea things were going to get as bad as they did. she may resent me (although i dont think she does, she took the news better than i thought she would) but in my defense when we first got together she told me she was going to start taking better care of herself, and i thought she meant it. what else could i do? as a man with not much experience with women and taking care of others, i thought it best i back out. Confused a bit here, how was she not taking care of herself? well you asked |
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Do you all think it's better to be single than stay in a relationship that is no good for you, even if that includes reasons that the person youre with cant control? If the person you are with can't control their life you are not going to be able to either. Lot of times not being able to control your life is just and excuse or a choice to be weak. You have to ask yourself are you enableing bad behavior? He ended the relationship so he's not enabling bad bahavior; he's helping to put a stop to it. That was the point I was making. Not enableing a sick relationship was a wise move. He seems to feel guilt for leaving when really that was the wisest course for all. 
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Do you all think it's better to be single than stay in a relationship that is no good for you, even if that includes reasons that the person youre with cant control? no such thing! if they can't control it.. go find a good doctor that will help her achieve control. If anyone really wants to control it.. they can!! good answer. you know, i cant see the future. i had no idea things were going to get as bad as they did. she may resent me (although i dont think she does, she took the news better than i thought she would) but in my defense when we first got together she told me she was going to start taking better care of herself, and i thought she meant it. what else could i do? as a man with not much experience with women and taking care of others, i thought it best i back out. Confused a bit here, how was she not taking care of herself? she had 2 strokes because she was not watching her diet and smoking even though she has diabetes. You are 25.. why were you dating an 70 year old woman? Honestly she sounds suicidal lmao 70. shes 33, she was diagnosed with diabetes at a young age. and hey, come on, i had been single for a long time. i got my hopes up. like i said, i havnt had much experience with women, even at 25. despite bad experiences with previous women, im still kinda weak. youd think i wouldve toughened up alot by now. well i sorta did. and besides, i still didnt know it would get this bad. |
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when the voices tell you its over
mine say"STEAL CHEESE!" 
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Do you all think it's better to be single than stay in a relationship that is no good for you, even if that includes reasons that the person youre with cant control? no such thing! if they can't control it.. go find a good doctor that will help her achieve control. If anyone really wants to control it.. they can!! good answer. you know, i cant see the future. i had no idea things were going to get as bad as they did. she may resent me (although i dont think she does, she took the news better than i thought she would) but in my defense when we first got together she told me she was going to start taking better care of herself, and i thought she meant it. what else could i do? as a man with not much experience with women and taking care of others, i thought it best i back out. Confused a bit here, how was she not taking care of herself? she had 2 strokes because she was not watching her diet and smoking even though she has diabetes. You are 25.. why were you dating an 70 year old woman? Honestly she sounds suicidal lmao 70. shes 33, she was diagnosed with diabetes at a young age. and hey, come on, i had been single for a long time. i got my hopes up. like i said, i havnt had much experience with women, even at 25. despite bad experiences with previous women, im still kinda weak. youd think i wouldve toughened up alot by now. well i sorta did. and besides, i still didnt know it would get this bad. I would say she doesn't have good enough reason (in her mind) to live healthy and take care of herself. Strokes also cause dain bramage. Even the titanic was un-savable. |
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You said yourself.. she was not taking care of herself even before you got together with her...
Big sign. get involved with a gal that already cares about and loves herself. You would never be the reason for her to save herself. You need to find a Lady that has more to offer from the beginning. |
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Do you all think it's better to be single than stay in a relationship that is no good for you, even if that includes reasons that the person youre with cant control? no such thing! if they can't control it.. go find a good doctor that will help her achieve control. If anyone really wants to control it.. they can!! good answer. you know, i cant see the future. i had no idea things were going to get as bad as they did. she may resent me (although i dont think she does, she took the news better than i thought she would) but in my defense when we first got together she told me she was going to start taking better care of herself, and i thought she meant it. what else could i do? as a man with not much experience with women and taking care of others, i thought it best i back out. Confused a bit here, how was she not taking care of herself? she had 2 strokes because she was not watching her diet and smoking even though she has diabetes. You are 25.. why were you dating an 70 year old woman? Honestly she sounds suicidal lmao 70. shes 33, she was diagnosed with diabetes at a young age. and hey, come on, i had been single for a long time. i got my hopes up. like i said, i havnt had much experience with women, even at 25. despite bad experiences with previous women, im still kinda weak. youd think i wouldve toughened up alot by now. well i sorta did. and besides, i still didnt know it would get this bad. I would say she doesn't have good enough reason (in her mind) to live healthy and take care of herself. Strokes also cause dain bramage. Even the titanic was un-savable. you know, when a relationship gets that mushy and annoying, im kinda glad to see it go up in flames, or in that case, drown. lol talkin about the movie. still though, coming from the more twisted side of me, it was kinda interesting to see what frozen bodies look like |
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Do you all think it's better to be single than stay in a relationship that is no good for you, even if that includes reasons that the person youre with cant control? no such thing! if they can't control it.. go find a good doctor that will help her achieve control. If anyone really wants to control it.. they can!! good answer. you know, i cant see the future. i had no idea things were going to get as bad as they did. she may resent me (although i dont think she does, she took the news better than i thought she would) but in my defense when we first got together she told me she was going to start taking better care of herself, and i thought she meant it. what else could i do? as a man with not much experience with women and taking care of others, i thought it best i back out. Confused a bit here, how was she not taking care of herself? she had 2 strokes because she was not watching her diet and smoking even though she has diabetes. You are 25.. why were you dating an 70 year old woman? Honestly she sounds suicidal lmao 70. shes 33, she was diagnosed with diabetes at a young age. and hey, come on, i had been single for a long time. i got my hopes up. like i said, i havnt had much experience with women, even at 25. despite bad experiences with previous women, im still kinda weak. youd think i wouldve toughened up alot by now. well i sorta did. and besides, i still didnt know it would get this bad. I would say she doesn't have good enough reason (in her mind) to live healthy and take care of herself. Strokes also cause dain bramage. Even the titanic was un-savable. you know, when a relationship gets that mushy and annoying, im kinda glad to see it go up in flames, or in that case, drown. lol talkin about the movie. still though, coming from the more twisted side of me, it was kinda interesting to see what frozen bodies look like If Mushy (affectionate) is annoying......... You may want a woman around for the wrong reasons?! And if frozen bodies is what you took away from that movie....................................................... 
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Do you all think it's better to be single than stay in a relationship that is no good for you, even if that includes reasons that the person youre with cant control? no such thing! if they can't control it.. go find a good doctor that will help her achieve control. If anyone really wants to control it.. they can!! good answer. you know, i cant see the future. i had no idea things were going to get as bad as they did. she may resent me (although i dont think she does, she took the news better than i thought she would) but in my defense when we first got together she told me she was going to start taking better care of herself, and i thought she meant it. what else could i do? as a man with not much experience with women and taking care of others, i thought it best i back out. Confused a bit here, how was she not taking care of herself? she had 2 strokes because she was not watching her diet and smoking even though she has diabetes. You are 25.. why were you dating an 70 year old woman? Honestly she sounds suicidal lmao 70. shes 33, she was diagnosed with diabetes at a young age. and hey, come on, i had been single for a long time. i got my hopes up. like i said, i havnt had much experience with women, even at 25. despite bad experiences with previous women, im still kinda weak. youd think i wouldve toughened up alot by now. well i sorta did. and besides, i still didnt know it would get this bad. I would say she doesn't have good enough reason (in her mind) to live healthy and take care of herself. Strokes also cause dain bramage. Even the titanic was un-savable. you know, when a relationship gets that mushy and annoying, im kinda glad to see it go up in flames, or in that case, drown. lol talkin about the movie. still though, coming from the more twisted side of me, it was kinda interesting to see what frozen bodies look like If Mushy (affectionate) is annoying......... You may want a woman around for the wrong reasons?! And if frozen bodies is what you took away from that movie....................................................... heh, affection is a good for relationships. but im kind of old fashioned i guess, and im not very affectionate out in public |
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Do you all think it's better to be single than stay in a relationship that is no good for you, even if that includes reasons that the person youre with cant control? no such thing! if they can't control it.. go find a good doctor that will help her achieve control. If anyone really wants to control it.. they can!! good answer. you know, i cant see the future. i had no idea things were going to get as bad as they did. she may resent me (although i dont think she does, she took the news better than i thought she would) but in my defense when we first got together she told me she was going to start taking better care of herself, and i thought she meant it. what else could i do? as a man with not much experience with women and taking care of others, i thought it best i back out. Confused a bit here, how was she not taking care of herself? she had 2 strokes because she was not watching her diet and smoking even though she has diabetes. You are 25.. why were you dating an 70 year old woman? Honestly she sounds suicidal lmao 70. shes 33, she was diagnosed with diabetes at a young age. and hey, come on, i had been single for a long time. i got my hopes up. like i said, i havnt had much experience with women, even at 25. despite bad experiences with previous women, im still kinda weak. youd think i wouldve toughened up alot by now. well i sorta did. and besides, i still didnt know it would get this bad. I would say she doesn't have good enough reason (in her mind) to live healthy and take care of herself. Strokes also cause dain bramage. Even the titanic was un-savable. you know, when a relationship gets that mushy and annoying, im kinda glad to see it go up in flames, or in that case, drown. lol talkin about the movie. still though, coming from the more twisted side of me, it was kinda interesting to see what frozen bodies look like If Mushy (affectionate) is annoying......... You may want a woman around for the wrong reasons?! And if frozen bodies is what you took away from that movie....................................................... heh, affection is a good for relationships. but im kind of old fashioned i guess, and im not very affectionate out in public Heck.. If a Lady cares about or loves me enough to show the WORLD!! More power to her!!! |
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Do you all think it's better to be single than stay in a relationship that is no good for you, even if that includes reasons that the person youre with cant control? no such thing! if they can't control it.. go find a good doctor that will help her achieve control. If anyone really wants to control it.. they can!! good answer. you know, i cant see the future. i had no idea things were going to get as bad as they did. she may resent me (although i dont think she does, she took the news better than i thought she would) but in my defense when we first got together she told me she was going to start taking better care of herself, and i thought she meant it. what else could i do? as a man with not much experience with women and taking care of others, i thought it best i back out. Confused a bit here, how was she not taking care of herself? she had 2 strokes because she was not watching her diet and smoking even though she has diabetes. You are 25.. why were you dating an 70 year old woman? Honestly she sounds suicidal lmao 70. shes 33, she was diagnosed with diabetes at a young age. and hey, come on, i had been single for a long time. i got my hopes up. like i said, i havnt had much experience with women, even at 25. despite bad experiences with previous women, im still kinda weak. youd think i wouldve toughened up alot by now. well i sorta did. and besides, i still didnt know it would get this bad. I would say she doesn't have good enough reason (in her mind) to live healthy and take care of herself. Strokes also cause dain bramage. Even the titanic was un-savable. you know, when a relationship gets that mushy and annoying, im kinda glad to see it go up in flames, or in that case, drown. lol talkin about the movie. still though, coming from the more twisted side of me, it was kinda interesting to see what frozen bodies look like If Mushy (affectionate) is annoying......... You may want a woman around for the wrong reasons?! And if frozen bodies is what you took away from that movie....................................................... heh, affection is a good for relationships. but im kind of old fashioned i guess, and im not very affectionate out in public Heck.. If a Lady cares about or loves me enough to show the WORLD!! More power to her!!! Ever seen the movie Anger Management? maybe what i need is some crazy Jack Nicholsin type to come snap me out of it! lol |
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When ur significant other alternates between loving you so much they cant live without you and loving you so much they cant see you live without them,,,,,,RUN
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When ur significant other alternates between loving you so much they cant live without you and loving you so much they cant see you live without them,,,,,,RUN heh, good answer. clingyness can repel. my question is how can a man learn not to be so clingy? women do say they like their men to pay attention to them. how can us guys tell the difference? |
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all of the above? If those are the reactions then it's pretty much over...
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I think it is a matter of degree but if someone is obsessed about much of anything it is a good bet they are going to get real hard on the nerves. Balance can be a beautiful thing. Someone who's life is always out of control is a good bet not to change. The whole thing of if promises and wishes were horses beggars would ride.
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When the communication went sour, when the sex went sour and you lost that loving feeling uh yeah it's over.
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