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Topic: The Games People Play
TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 09/17/09 01:37 PM


I don't text.


Yeah, that's because you're not hip. Everybody is texting these days. It's much better than phoning. You don't have to read it right away ajd you can get back to them when you are free.

Texting rocks!


Hummmmmm I don't text either if that is what I have to do to be kewl so be it. I'm over 50 and a adult not trying to be kewl. Myself I perfer the old fashion way they can call me if they want to talk to me....bigsmile

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 09/17/09 01:45 PM

Ok....I see a bunch of people in here that are seemingly against using text messages.

BUT...consider this.

If your man/woman is at work, and cannot actually talk on the phone because they would get in trouble, but they really wanted to let you know they love you or that you are thinking about them, and a text message can convey the message without the other getting into trouble...is it such a bad thing??


I have nothing against texting and would welcome a few ever so often but I do prefer them to call me if possible. But if they did text me I would take the time to text back...... I'm just not into texting that much and takes me forever to do it. :laughing: :laughing:

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Fri 09/18/09 02:02 AM
Edited by hwv23 on Fri 09/18/09 02:05 AM


I am really getting disillusioned by Love and Relationships.

Why is it that people feel they need to play games?

I certainly don't have time for them.

Very recently; I was chatting with a young lady I met on Mingle; our conversation was going nice until...she wanted me to go to a Live Webcam Site, to see her undress on camera. When I refused to go; she got the nerve to get mad at me.

Is it right that you should play with a person's heart and feelings?

Or the phone number game; I give you my number, and you never call. Or you give me your number, and I can never reach you.

All I can say is play time is over, some people need to grow up...




When a profile is set up for the specific intent to divert you to a pay site, flag the profile as SPAM to the mods. winking


What you just said is exactly what I mean. I can't believe there are people here who do that. I've contacted some, and I tell these girls I would like to know them by chatting with them only. Then they no longer reply. That's why when I message them, or they message me, I ask them if I can IM them.... ONLY through the dating site's IM. Once that's approved, then a personal IM chatting is possible. We all got to be careful on that.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Fri 09/18/09 09:01 AM

Hummmmmm I don't text either if that is what I have to do to be kewl so be it. I'm over 50 and a adult not trying to be kewl. Myself I perfer the old fashion way they can call me if they want to talk to me....bigsmile


Cool isn't something you TRY to be. Either you are or you're not. You know you're cool if you have lots of friends wanting to hang out with you, inviting you to their parties etc. Cool is simply another word for social.

Texting really is much easier than calling. If you don't agree you haven't used the technology enough to get to know it.

Winx's photo
Fri 09/18/09 09:02 AM

I rarely text. I am worth a phone call.


I am worth a call too.:smile:

TexasScoundrel's photo
Fri 09/18/09 09:09 AM
So, You have had your call. You have agreed to go out with that special guy. Now, during the day before he picks you up he sends you little texts. Just something to give you a smile and let you know he's thinking about you.

There is a time to call and a time to text. You wouldn't have time to talk to him 5 times during your day. But, it nice to get little notes.

TxsSun's photo
Fri 09/18/09 09:11 AM

So, You have had your call. You have agreed to go out with that special guy. Now, during the day before he picks you up he sends you little texts. Just something to give you a smile and let you know he's thinking about you.

There is a time to call and a time to text. You wouldn't have time to talk to him 5 times during your day. But, it nice to get little notes.



I knew you had a soft side :tongue:

TexasScoundrel's photo
Fri 09/18/09 09:25 AM

I knew you had a soft side :tongue:


Don't spread it around.

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 09/18/09 09:43 AM


I knew you had a soft side :tongue:


Don't spread it around.


to late...

TxsSun's photo
Fri 09/18/09 09:43 AM
He is really a sweetheart, but I am not suppose to say that laugh

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 09/18/09 09:45 AM

He is really a sweetheart, but I am not suppose to say that laugh


yeah, it shows through the internet..

TxsSun's photo
Fri 09/18/09 09:51 AM
Edited by TxsSun on Fri 09/18/09 09:52 AM


He is really a sweetheart, but I am not suppose to say that laugh


yeah, it shows through the internet..



OH I agree with thatlaugh laugh

djchaos667's photo
Fri 09/18/09 10:15 AM

I am really getting disillusioned by Love and Relationships.

Why is it that people feel they need to play games?

I certainly don't have time for them.

Very recently; I was chatting with a young lady I met on Mingle; our conversation was going nice until...she wanted me to go to a Live Webcam Site, to see her undress on camera. When I refused to go; she got the nerve to get mad at me.

Is it right that you should play with a person's heart and feelings?

Or the phone number game; I give you my number, and you never call. Or you give me your number, and I can never reach you.

All I can say is play time is over, some people need to grow up...




If a few conversations online led you to a point that you feel your heart and feelings were played with because she was working for her paycheck I would say grow some thicker skin. Nothing is wrong with games, so long as both parties are aware they are playing, she just made you aware.

no photo
Fri 09/18/09 10:16 AM
dating sucks it is very unfortunate to have to deal with so many wrongs before you find a right, but i wish you the best of luck!

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 09/18/09 12:29 PM

Nothing is wrong with games, so long as both parties are aware they are playing, she just made you aware.


Wow! I wish all guys had this message written on their shirt so I would know to run away from them! slaphead scared You should put that in your profile! whoa

Games are evil and immature even if both parties play. It definitely shows a lack of intelligence, purpose, and total dysfunction. Who the hell wants that? surprised

mscherbear's photo
Fri 09/18/09 12:31 PM


Nothing is wrong with games, so long as both parties are aware they are playing, she just made you aware.


Wow! I wish all guys had this message written on their shirt so I would know to run away from them! slaphead scared You should put that in your profile! whoa

Games are evil and immature even if both parties play. It definitely shows a lack of intelligence, purpose, and total dysfunction. Who the hell wants that? surprised


I would have to agree with Melody!

Winx's photo
Fri 09/18/09 12:43 PM


Nothing is wrong with games, so long as both parties are aware they are playing, she just made you aware.


Wow! I wish all guys had this message written on their shirt so I would know to run away from them! slaphead scared You should put that in your profile! whoa

Games are evil and immature even if both parties play. It definitely shows a lack of intelligence, purpose, and total dysfunction. Who the hell wants that? surprised


Games show lack of character and integrity too.

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