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I guess the very first " WTF??? " moment I had around here was when I got a random IM ( the ONLY Im I have ever gotten on this site by the way ) from some woman, and she wound up calling me a freak because I wasn't interested in doing the cybersex thing with her. lol I have had a few more of those moments around here...but the other day, when I saw some of the women here talking about what " guys " do....that was another one. I figured ( in a way ) that if THAT'S what they expect, then I am completely screwed....lol orrr maybe you should feel bad for those ladies for not having experienced anything different. But how can I " feel bad " for people that think I am weird because of the way I don't think???? lol |
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I don't think you are as different as you might think. I know several men like you describe. Perhaps you are just evolving quicker out of the neaderthol muck Perhaps. But there sure aren't many like me around my area. I actually know a dude who will start drooling ( LITERALLY ) when he sees a woman with a nice set of boobs. Oi Vey Oh, it's absolutely hilarious to watch the poor guy try to hold a conversation with a woman who has nice boobs. Every time I start feeling bad about myself, I just go hang out with him and I wind up feeling MUCH better....lol |
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I guess the very first " WTF??? " moment I had around here was when I got a random IM ( the ONLY Im I have ever gotten on this site by the way ) from some woman, and she wound up calling me a freak because I wasn't interested in doing the cybersex thing with her. lol I have had a few more of those moments around here...but the other day, when I saw some of the women here talking about what " guys " do....that was another one. I figured ( in a way ) that if THAT'S what they expect, then I am completely screwed....lol i've got a few women on my friends list that use me for cybering.at first i'm like "nah i don't feel like it" then they mention boobs and i get started |
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JasmineInglewood
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Wed 08/05/09 01:28 AM
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I guess the very first " WTF??? " moment I had around here was when I got a random IM ( the ONLY Im I have ever gotten on this site by the way ) from some woman, and she wound up calling me a freak because I wasn't interested in doing the cybersex thing with her. lol I have had a few more of those moments around here...but the other day, when I saw some of the women here talking about what " guys " do....that was another one. I figured ( in a way ) that if THAT'S what they expect, then I am completely screwed....lol i've got a few women on my friends list that use me for cybering.at first i'm like "nah i don't feel like it" then they mention boobs and i get started so is that what's reeeally going on here... |
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I guess the very first " WTF??? " moment I had around here was when I got a random IM ( the ONLY Im I have ever gotten on this site by the way ) from some woman, and she wound up calling me a freak because I wasn't interested in doing the cybersex thing with her. lol I have had a few more of those moments around here...but the other day, when I saw some of the women here talking about what " guys " do....that was another one. I figured ( in a way ) that if THAT'S what they expect, then I am completely screwed....lol i've got a few women on my friends list that use me for cybering.at first i'm like "nah i don't feel like it" then they mention boobs and i get started so is that what's reeeally going on here... Not here....lol |
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I don't think you are as different as you might think. I know several men like you describe. Perhaps you are just evolving quicker out of the neaderthol muck Perhaps. But there sure aren't many like me around my area. I actually know a dude who will start drooling ( LITERALLY ) when he sees a woman with a nice set of boobs. Oi Vey Oh, it's absolutely hilarious to watch the poor guy try to hold a conversation with a woman who has nice boobs. Every time I start feeling bad about myself, I just go hang out with him and I wind up feeling MUCH better....lol |
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I guess the very first " WTF??? " moment I had around here was when I got a random IM ( the ONLY Im I have ever gotten on this site by the way ) from some woman, and she wound up calling me a freak because I wasn't interested in doing the cybersex thing with her. lol I have had a few more of those moments around here...but the other day, when I saw some of the women here talking about what " guys " do....that was another one. I figured ( in a way ) that if THAT'S what they expect, then I am completely screwed....lol i've got a few women on my friends list that use me for cybering.at first i'm like "nah i don't feel like it" then they mention boobs and i get started so is that what's reeeally going on here... where? |
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on mingle2
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well it's happening for me
i dunno about anyone else though |
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well i for one have never been asked.
but good for you though |
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I was talking to a friend via email today...and a thought struck me. Of all the guys I know, I am the least " guy " like. I don't sit around drinking beer. Hell...I rarely drink at all. I am not completely fascinated by boobs. They are nice and all, and I can appreciate a nice pair just like other guys. But they don't completely mesmerize me. I'm not into watching porn. I don't find toilet humor, or the Jackass show/movies funny in any way. Considering the fact that women, for the most part, expect guys to appreciate a fart joke, or look at their chests rather than their face when they are trying to have a conversation.... Should I just pack up and go home??? I mean, I like sports and stuff...but that's about it. |
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I hear ya guy!
When I moved to Michigan people would ask me. "So, ya don't hunt, fish, golf or own a snowmobile. Why did you move to Michigan?" I said "To pi$$ of the people that do!" And they say "Well, you are doing a good job" I don't work on my car in the yard either. |
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I think its great that you are not a "typical" man. I say KEEP IT UP!! I think women get sick of men talking to their chest and not to them, I know I do...it makes me feel very uncomfortable. If a guy actually keeps looking at my chest, I will not go on another date with them.
I say, keep being you and you will find the right one!! |
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Your just a diff kind of man!!
Your you Enjoy it !! |
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not all men are neanderthal's -- thank you for bringing this to light in such a positive way...
some women like neanderthal's, some don't. Neanderthal's all thing "they are the ****"... whatever... be yourself man...!! |
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I was talking to a friend via email today...and a thought struck me. Of all the guys I know, I am the least " guy " like. I don't sit around drinking beer. Hell...I rarely drink at all. I am not completely fascinated by boobs. They are nice and all, and I can appreciate a nice pair just like other guys. But they don't completely mesmerize me. I'm not into watching porn. I don't find toilet humor, or the Jackass show/movies funny in any way. Considering the fact that women, for the most part, expect guys to appreciate a fart joke, or look at their chests rather than their face when they are trying to have a conversation.... Should I just pack up and go home??? I mean, I like sports and stuff...but that's about it. I'm about the same...other than I watch loads of porn. |
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Hands JAG his "Woman Card"......JUST KIDDING! Wish there were more men like you around...
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There are quite a few of you out there..well, not You.. men who think that way. It's quite refreshing actually.
I rather enjoy Jackazz.. except the puking parts, that gags me. |
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not another me like this, me different, me bla bla bla thread.
Everybody is the same and everybody is unique what more do we need to know. |
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