Topic: I need to determine something....
Dragoness's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:06 AM
I think you are talking about accepted stereotyping here and humans for some reason want everyone to fit one of these so they create them in their mind and place all they meet into them.

I have met guys who could care less about boobs, they feel they are alright and all but are not fanatic about them. These men usually are leg men or feet men or some other body part turns them on.

We are all unique within ourselves, whether we choose to share it with others or let others believe we are the same, it is there.

donovanc's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:10 AM
Well I am also like you in some ways. I don't care for toilet humor or like dumb movies like Jackass. But I do watch the occasional porn, free on the internet of course lol. As for boobs, I'm more of and butt and legs guy

earthytaurus76's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:20 AM
You know how I feel, I love you just the way you are, (and not in a weird way).


I think your tops, and to me, your just an amazing guy, no matter what you like.


xo

misswright's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:20 AM

I was talking to a friend via email today...and a thought struck me.

Of all the guys I know, I am the least " guy " like.

I don't sit around drinking beer. Hell...I rarely drink at all.

I am not completely fascinated by boobs. They are nice and all, and I can appreciate a nice pair just like other guys. But they don't completely mesmerize me.

I'm not into watching porn.

I don't find toilet humor, or the Jackass show/movies funny in any way.

Considering the fact that women, for the most part, expect guys to appreciate a fart joke, or look at their chests rather than their face when they are trying to have a conversation....

Should I just pack up and go home???

I mean, I like sports and stuff...but that's about it.



Don't pack up and go home! Join the carnival...you can be one of those weird attractions...the bearded lady, the elephant boy, and Justaguy...the a-typical man!

"Come one, come all. Watch the amazing enigma that chooses a BOOK over porn. That's right folks, come on in and see the freak, we show him breasts and he just shrugs. Never before seen. Only $1!"

The fair's coming to my town this month. I'll look for ya!:wink:

But seriously, don't change. flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:32 AM

I was talking to a friend via email today...and a thought struck me.

Of all the guys I know, I am the least " guy " like.

I don't sit around drinking beer. Hell...I rarely drink at all.

I am not completely fascinated by boobs. They are nice and all, and I can appreciate a nice pair just like other guys. But they don't completely mesmerize me.

I'm not into watching porn.

I don't find toilet humor, or the Jackass show/movies funny in any way.

Considering the fact that women, for the most part, expect guys to appreciate a fart joke, or look at their chests rather than their face when they are trying to have a conversation....

Should I just pack up and go home???

I mean, I like sports and stuff...but that's about it.


I'm glad you posted this.

I'm more or less in the same boat.

I don't drink at all. I don't go to bars. I don't want to be around people who drink. Everything else being equal, I would prefer to spend my money in places where alcohol is not sold.

I've never been interested in boobs, either. Smaller works for me. While most of the guys I play hockey with seem drawn to the Astarte types (goddess of fertility, with the big boobs & butt), I just don't see anything attractive about that look.

The Playboy centerfold type always strikes me as plastic and immaterial. Beauty contest winners always strike me as vapid and mannequin-like.

I lost interest in porn around age 15.

The pee-pee and poo-poo cliques/threads always strike me as juvenile, and I feel vaguely embarrassed for the people who post them thinking they're funny.

I love hockey and baseball, have played them all my life, but no other sports interest me at all.

Most of the "guy stuff" that typical guys seem to like to do just bores me to death. Working on cars? No thanks.

I think maybe I've missed out by not being one of those guys. Because, clearly, girls aren't interested in the more intellectual, thoughtful types, the creative guys, the ones who think it's more important to get to know someone than it is to jump on top of them.

But I can't be one of those guys. And I wouldn't want to be with someone who wanted one of those guys....





JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:34 AM

Hands JAG his "Woman Card"......JUST KIDDING! laugh Wish there were more men like you around...


LMAO!!!

For a while there I started to think that someone had repossessed my Man Card...lol

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:37 AM


I was talking to a friend via email today...and a thought struck me.

Of all the guys I know, I am the least " guy " like.

I don't sit around drinking beer. Hell...I rarely drink at all.

I am not completely fascinated by boobs. They are nice and all, and I can appreciate a nice pair just like other guys. But they don't completely mesmerize me.

I'm not into watching porn.

I don't find toilet humor, or the Jackass show/movies funny in any way.

Considering the fact that women, for the most part, expect guys to appreciate a fart joke, or look at their chests rather than their face when they are trying to have a conversation....

Should I just pack up and go home???

I mean, I like sports and stuff...but that's about it.



smitten


Ah HA!!! Now I understand why all of my brother's gay friends love me...lol

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:38 AM

I hear ya guy!
When I moved to Michigan people would ask me.

"So, ya don't hunt, fish, golf or own a snowmobile. Why did you move to Michigan?"
I said "To pi$$ of the people that do!"
And they say "Well, you are doing a good job"

I don't work on my car in the yard either.


HEH. I don't, fish, or smowmobile ( too freakin COLD for that ) either. I do play golf though.bigsmile

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:40 AM

I think its great that you are not a "typical" man. I say KEEP IT UP!! I think women get sick of men talking to their chest and not to them, I know I do...it makes me feel very uncomfortable. If a guy actually keeps looking at my chest, I will not go on another date with them.
I say, keep being you and you will find the right one!! flowerforyou


One of the funniest things I have ever seen was when my buddy was talking to a woman ( well...talking to her chest anyway ) and he couldn't seem to raise his head enough to make eye contact.

She finally got annoyed and smacked him in the forehead and said " HEY!!! I'm UP HERE!!! "

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:42 AM

not all men are neanderthal's -- thank you for bringing this to light in such a positive way...

some women like neanderthal's, some don't. Neanderthal's all thing "they are the ****"... whatever...

be yourself man...!! :banana: drinker


Oh I plan on it.

I am who I am. Not gonna bother trying to be anything other than myself. bigsmile

no photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:42 AM



I was talking to a friend via email today...and a thought struck me.

Of all the guys I know, I am the least " guy " like.

I don't sit around drinking beer. Hell...I rarely drink at all.

I am not completely fascinated by boobs. They are nice and all, and I can appreciate a nice pair just like other guys. But they don't completely mesmerize me.

I'm not into watching porn.

I don't find toilet humor, or the Jackass show/movies funny in any way.

Considering the fact that women, for the most part, expect guys to appreciate a fart joke, or look at their chests rather than their face when they are trying to have a conversation....

Should I just pack up and go home???

I mean, I like sports and stuff...but that's about it.



smitten


Ah HA!!! Now I understand why all of my brother's gay friends love me...lol


and u thought they were being polite? bigsmile

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:44 AM

There are quite a few of you out there..well, not You.. men who think that way. It's quite refreshing actually.
I rather enjoy Jackazz.. except the puking parts, that gags me.


To each their own. I just can't find any humor in some dude being dumb enough to abuse himself the way those guys do.

* shrugs *

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:46 AM

what what not another me like this, me different, me bla bla bla thread.

Everybody is the same and everybody is unique what more do we need to know.


Oh hush. LOL

The kind of stuff I put up in here isn't actually on my profile. Although, I probably should do another re write of it.

Anyway, like I said, I was talking to a friend and the thought struck me.

I have a habit of posting about the thoughts that strike me. LOL

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:48 AM

I think you are talking about accepted stereotyping here and humans for some reason want everyone to fit one of these so they create them in their mind and place all they meet into them.

I have met guys who could care less about boobs, they feel they are alright and all but are not fanatic about them. These men usually are leg men or feet men or some other body part turns them on.

We are all unique within ourselves, whether we choose to share it with others or let others believe we are the same, it is there.


Meh. I hate being stereotyped.

Besides, how could I possibly attract someone if they don't know what I'm really about?

No better way to let women know about stuff like this than here in the forums.bigsmile

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:48 AM

Well I am also like you in some ways. I don't care for toilet humor or like dumb movies like Jackass. But I do watch the occasional porn, free on the internet of course lol. As for boobs, I'm more of and butt and legs guy


Whatever works for you, dude.drinker

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:49 AM

You know how I feel, I love you just the way you are, (and not in a weird way).


I think your tops, and to me, your just an amazing guy, no matter what you like.


xo


blushing smooched bigsmile

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:50 AM


I was talking to a friend via email today...and a thought struck me.

Of all the guys I know, I am the least " guy " like.

I don't sit around drinking beer. Hell...I rarely drink at all.

I am not completely fascinated by boobs. They are nice and all, and I can appreciate a nice pair just like other guys. But they don't completely mesmerize me.

I'm not into watching porn.

I don't find toilet humor, or the Jackass show/movies funny in any way.

Considering the fact that women, for the most part, expect guys to appreciate a fart joke, or look at their chests rather than their face when they are trying to have a conversation....

Should I just pack up and go home???

I mean, I like sports and stuff...but that's about it.



Don't pack up and go home! Join the carnival...you can be one of those weird attractions...the bearded lady, the elephant boy, and Justaguy...the a-typical man!

"Come one, come all. Watch the amazing enigma that chooses a BOOK over porn. That's right folks, come on in and see the freak, we show him breasts and he just shrugs. Never before seen. Only $1!"

The fair's coming to my town this month. I'll look for ya!:wink:

But seriously, don't change. flowerforyou


Ooooo....that's not a bad idea at all.

I may even be able to make a few bucks...lmao

lilith401's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:51 AM
I stare at boobs if they're on display. We all do. Same with moobs, but that is a staring, morbid fascination issue. laugh

But, I don't think about them on any sort of a regular basis. Either kind.

As far as the rest goes... be glad. Glad that you don't behave like a child.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:53 AM
But I can't be one of those guys. And I wouldn't want to be with someone who wanted one of those guys....


Ya know...I'm not sure that there are a whole lot of women who would actually want one of " those " guys.

In a lot of cases, I think they more or less just accept it as things that " guys " do. Regardless of whether it annoys them or not.

I would be willing to bet that there are a lot more of " those " guys out there than there are of us. So if a woman didn't want one of " those " guys, her options would be even more limited than they are already.

Dragoness's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:53 AM


I think you are talking about accepted stereotyping here and humans for some reason want everyone to fit one of these so they create them in their mind and place all they meet into them.

I have met guys who could care less about boobs, they feel they are alright and all but are not fanatic about them. These men usually are leg men or feet men or some other body part turns them on.

We are all unique within ourselves, whether we choose to share it with others or let others believe we are the same, it is there.


Meh. I hate being stereotyped.

Besides, how could I possibly attract someone if they don't know what I'm really about?

No better way to let women know about stuff like this than here in the forums.bigsmile


Very true. I agree that stereotyping stops us from really seeing each other.