(Not sure if this should be here or in General, but I'm sure the mods know...)

So, I was sitting here thinking about how we all have different insecurities, and wondering if anyone else would be brave enough to post theirs here. It may be great therapy for us all, to see that we're not alone.

So I'll start: My major two insecurities are not knowing things (especially being in a situation where I'm the only one who doesn't know everyone / don't share the same history, etc), and my stomach. Some women are jealous of others' legs, others are jealous of boobs. Me? It's flat tummies. I always wondered what that was like to have one...

Now you!

How it would be to be thin


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I am shy and not outgoing because of health problems. I am afraid people might judge me for that

my nipples

apparently they`re suposed to be EXCACTLY 9inches apart

mine are not

to many insecurities to count, mostly my age....

I have that same problem!

I've been fat and thin and somewhere in between... thin isn't all its cracked up to be... you get a lot of attention in a not good way. I'm currently in pretty good shape but still got some meat on me

wow how long do you have? i could go on for days about insecurities!!
the biggest one i have is...i;m very guarded about who i allow around my daughter, there are some friends that i have that have never been to my house and dont know where i live..

but again, there are numerous, numerous insecurties in this girl...

Weight is such a MAJOR factor for women especially, which is sad considering we're MADE to get "paddier" as we age. My daughter told me once, "Mommy, I don't want you to lose weight. Your hugs wouldn't feel the same then!"

We have lost so much of what's important.

And guys, come on. Is it REALLY that hard to give your insecurities? Is there something about testosterone that makes admitting these things toxic to your system?

ETA: tgirl, that's an admirable trait. Just don't wrap her in bubble wrap.

On a serious note I know I'm not perfect. I'm a pretty guy not huge or anything but I'm over 6 foot and 250lbs my body isn't perfect. I have had guys and girls alike tell me I sometimes seem intimidating because I'm big guy and I look like a caveman/linebacker.

Snarky,

We haven't officially met but your threads are very thought provoking and for some unknown reason I feel the need to answer them honestly. My first instinct is to be a smarta$$ but not with your questions. I will have Lex analyze this anomoly for me later.

To your question, am I brave enough to post my insecurities. Yes I am.

Since my husband left, I've been very insecure about my age and my self confidence has been in the toilet.

I don't feel attractive enough, smart enough, hell anything enough. But I am working on it. Here's hoping.

I like

i don't have any insecurities...zilch, noda...wish i did..to be more human

roko

I have too many to list also, but mostly my extreme shyness.

yep, age. Seems like the guys want the young ones.. can make us feel inadquate if we don' keep it in check.

Sorry. No insecurities. I like myself. Waste of time not to.

Yeah but it seems like the younger guys want what you ladies have too, so dont forget that

Insecure people will always find something to be insecure about.

we are all shy

I have many. A lot of them stem from my past and several experiences from that with different people.

For one thing, I've been lied to by so many people that I'm often wary of others even when they are telling the truth. I am incredibly shy, I don't have great confidence in myself and I never feel pretty enough to name a few others. But yeah, don't know that I want to venture much more into all of those negative things....

Great topic though, Snarky...