Topic: a "heavy" question
mcgilvrey21's photo
Fri 07/17/09 03:56 PM


It depends on if she can make a really good sandwich or not.
And being able to balance a beer on her head would be a plus.


I agree there is nothing like a good sandwich. Is this balancing of a beer on her head actually possible? smokin


actually yes. lol I have mastered that talent winking

newarkjw's photo
Fri 07/17/09 04:02 PM



It depends on if she can make a really good sandwich or not.
And being able to balance a beer on her head would be a plus.


I agree there is nothing like a good sandwich. Is this balancing of a beer on her head actually possible? smokin


actually yes. lol I have mastered that talent winking


drool I am sure your mama is proud. Thanks for the laugh. rofl

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 07/17/09 04:05 PM



It depends on if she can make a really good sandwich or not.
And being able to balance a beer on her head would be a plus.


I agree there is nothing like a good sandwich. Is this balancing of a beer on her head actually possible? smokin


actually yes. lol I have mastered that talent winking
drool WHAT OTHER TALENTS HAVE YOU MASTERED?drool

mcgilvrey21's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:31 PM




It depends on if she can make a really good sandwich or not.
And being able to balance a beer on her head would be a plus.


I agree there is nothing like a good sandwich. Is this balancing of a beer on her head actually possible? smokin


actually yes. lol I have mastered that talent winking
drool WHAT OTHER TALENTS HAVE YOU MASTERED?drool


well, I am a vast resource of useless talent.
like tieing cherry stems in knots with my tongue.
unwrapping a starburst with useing my tongue.
I hear Im great with my hands..
Ya know things guys are rarely interested in..winking :laughing:

RKISIT's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:35 PM

SO, I was reading a thread about a girl who gets judged on her size.
I personally am happy with who I am and have never had a problem with it preventing me from dating or finding men attracted to me.
But it did raise some questions,
is size really an issue?
What body type do you prefer?
if i'm drunk well....don't matter i have an excuse...i was drunk....when sober well i would have to say.......not into the huge women maybe fluffylaugh laugh laugh i'm such an a$$hole..and proud of it:banana:

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 07/17/09 06:00 PM


SO, I was reading a thread about a girl who gets judged on her size.
I personally am happy with who I am and have never had a problem with it preventing me from dating or finding men attracted to me.
But it did raise some questions,
is size really an issue?
What body type do you prefer?
if i'm drunk well....don't matter i have an excuse...i was drunk....when sober well i would have to say.......not into the huge women maybe fluffylaugh laugh laugh i'm such an a$$hole..and proud of it:banana:



yes, yes you arelaugh

Sigiere's photo
Fri 07/17/09 06:14 PM
I'm flexible myself actually. I'm not particularly one who places a whole lot of precedence on a womans body but I do find a thick body to be a turn on.

cabot's photo
Fri 07/17/09 06:24 PM
My woman has to weigh less than me..I'm not throwing my back out again.

Roco's photo
Fri 07/17/09 07:16 PM
weight shouldn't be "weighted" heavily among the variables in determining attractiveness..but it is..as well as race, height, income and a few other things..

roko

motowndowntown's photo
Fri 07/17/09 07:20 PM


It depends on if she can make a really good sandwich or not.
And being able to balance a beer on her head would be a plus.


I agree there is nothing like a good sandwich. Is this balancing of a beer on her head actually possible? smokin


It's a rare talent but yes I have seen it done.

luckyguy2008's photo
Fri 07/17/09 08:58 PM

SO, I was reading a thread about a girl who gets judged on her size.
I personally am happy with who I am and have never had a problem with it preventing me from dating or finding men attracted to me.
But it did raise some questions,
is size really an issue?
What body type do you prefer?



I don't look for a body type. I look for a person that has he ability to laugh, and enjoy life. I also look for someone that has things in common with me. Looks are the last thing I look at. Size isn't an issue unless we are talking about the point of being bed ridden due to weight and then obviously I do not want to be in that position.

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 07/17/09 09:00 PM
Skinny - chubby, tanned & brunette.

BlueJay48's photo
Fri 07/17/09 09:16 PM

SO, I was reading a thread about a girl who gets judged on her size.
I personally am happy with who I am and have never had a problem with it preventing me from dating or finding men attracted to me.
But it did raise some questions,
is size really an issue?
What body type do you prefer?

Size and shape to me doesn't matter to me as long as that person knows how she is and loves that person and as long as the weight isn't causing her health problems.
I have had loves in my life of different sizes and shapes and a few that changed along the way. To me they where all pretty but found that I could not keep them for one reason or another.drinks

brokenwings30's photo
Fri 07/17/09 09:34 PM
The way I look at it,If you dont like the way I look,dont look at me,Im not a skinny girl,and it dont stop me from gettin a man.If you are happy with you then screw everyone esle

newarkjw's photo
Sat 07/18/09 09:13 AM

The way I look at it,If you dont like the way I look,dont look at me,Im not a skinny girl,and it dont stop me from gettin a man.If you are happy with you then screw everyone esle


drool

southern_bee's photo
Sat 07/18/09 09:17 AM
well its like my granny told me if i dont loose weight i wont find a man and get married!

and i told her who said i planned on getting married?

spacekase's photo
Sat 07/18/09 11:27 AM
for me ther has to b the connection, then atraction.

size only makes a dif wen it effects the personality. on either side of the scale, if u let ur size determine who u r, in my experiances, it tends to make u ugly, no matter wat.

it does say some, but not realy who u r.

i cant stand wen a smaller girl thinks thats all and the most important part, they tend to have that im perfect aditude. get over urself wer all r human (human aka in my mind horrible). the ugliest thing in my books.

or on the other side, despise self pitty. we r who we r cuz we made r selfs that way. wen self awareness becomes self pitty, hate, or discust with ones self is wer i drawl the line. ex. iv had a freind since 2nd grade, we got alone great, had fun, prob would b quite compatiable. but bein a big girl could get over it, she has so many probs cuz of it, mainly addictions to blur reality. shes a pretty girl, realy she is. but just her self perseption is such a turn off. how can i b happy with some one whos not happy with them selfs? and another ex, another freind of mine loves life, her self, and is happy with her size, could b happier (self awareness very thin line), but is so beautifull becouse of it. to bad shes takin.

Slyther83's photo
Sat 07/18/09 12:18 PM
thick to thin = win, IMO. im a fairly skinny bastard though.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 07/18/09 12:20 PM

Skinny - chubby, tanned & brunette.


:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:

adj4u's photo
Sat 07/18/09 12:27 PM
the issue is 90% self image

and 10% public opinion

in this area imo

if you do not like yourself how can anyone else like you

and when you are big and grow up that way your self image taes a constant beating as others have to have some one to degrade as to make themselves feel better than another

the overweight fit this role very well

but if you give off a positive ora then chances are you will recieve positive feedback

sure you will still have the jerks but it is how you let the jerk control you that is really key

letting another raise you to anger or lower you to feeling shame is giving them control of a piece of your very inner being

it is hard to do sometimes but it helps when you figure it out

flowerforyou drinker