So heres the situation.

I meet a guy online. I speak to him a little in emails. Over a days period.

He says, "lets get together". Im like "well, Id prefer to get to know you by speaking a bit on the phone first".


He calls.

We talk.. he says.. he really wants to get together and talk,.. says he doesnt like to waste time getting to know someone that way, in his experience, he has hit it off many times on the phone, and they end up not a match after meeeting in person, SOOOOO, he prefers to meet in person. (Im thinking, wouldnt he like more of a chance for me to judge him for who he is on the phone?

He says he just really wants to meet me.

Im thinking, "hm.. he doesnt seem to eager to please me ad make ME feel confortable."

WELLLLL... I think to myself.. ok, I would probably have coffee with someone I didnt know too well,... and.. ya gotta get to know people somehow sometime.. what if hes greattt...

so anyway.. i decide, ok.. " so I agree to meet him for coffee in a public place... but I AM SOOO NERVOUS!.

I am nervous because he is someone I dont know much at all.

ARGH! Im about to cancel this freaks me out.. What do you think?

sounds like you could use a cup of coffee

ha ha, I dont know if your kidding or not...

Don't worry about it too much, Go and see if he is what you were waiting for that is why you meet in public first, drive your own car. If you don't like him you can leave. Give it a chance and good luck.

I'd say dont do anything you aren't comfortable with

Heres the problem, I dont HAVE my car right now, and some guy threatened me on mingle violence recently thats local that scares me too!

go meet him -

if you don't feel comfortable after meeting him make the meeting short, but go with an open mind of meeting a friend not an appendage

I feel ya.

then don't ask anyone what to do earthy - trust your instincts.

It was nice knowing you E.T.

ha ha, always a good reminder, i try to live by that one, commitment freaks me out too.

i would say go.im the same way.i would much more meet the person in a public place.than over the phone.

YOU be quiet.

Well then that is a different story sorry that some JERK did that to you. The I would proceed with caution. If you feel comfortable meeting him then go. Follow what your heart says.

ahh i should chill on that he called me from his job. Its on call id.

You guys are awesome, thanks for the in input.