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So heres the situation.
I meet a guy online. I speak to him a little in emails. Over a days period. He says, "lets get together". Im like "well, Id prefer to get to know you by speaking a bit on the phone first". He calls. We talk.. he says.. he really wants to get together and talk,.. says he doesnt like to waste time getting to know someone that way, in his experience, he has hit it off many times on the phone, and they end up not a match after meeeting in person, SOOOOO, he prefers to meet in person. (Im thinking, wouldnt he like more of a chance for me to judge him for who he is on the phone? He says he just really wants to meet me. Im thinking, "hm.. he doesnt seem to eager to please me ad make ME feel confortable." WELLLLL... I think to myself.. ok, I would probably have coffee with someone I didnt know too well,... and.. ya gotta get to know people somehow sometime.. what if hes greattt... so anyway.. i decide, ok.. " so I agree to meet him for coffee in a public place... but I AM SOOO NERVOUS!. I am nervous because he is someone I dont know much at all. ARGH! Im about to cancel this freaks me out.. What do you think? |
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So heres the situation. I meet a guy online. I speak to him a little in emails. Over a days period. He says, "lets get together". Im like "well, Id prefer to get to know you by speaking a bit on the phone first". He calls. We talk.. he says.. he really wants to get together and talk,.. says he doesnt like to waste time getting to know someone that way, in his experience, he has hit it off many times on the phone, and they end up not a match after meeeting in person, SOOOOO, he prefers to meet in person. (Im thinking, wouldnt he like more of a chance for me to judge him for who he is on the phone? He says he just really wants to meet me. Im thinking, "hm.. he doesnt seem to eager to please me ad make ME feel confortable." WELLLLL... I think to myself.. ok, I would probably have coffee with someone I didnt know too well,... and.. ya gotta get to know people somehow sometime.. what if hes greattt... so anyway.. i decide, ok.. " so I agree to meet him for coffee in a public place... but I AM SOOO NERVOUS!. I am nervous because he is someone I dont know much at all. ARGH! Im about to cancel this freaks me out.. What do you think? sounds like you could use a cup of coffee  |
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ha ha, I dont know if your kidding or not...
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Don't worry about it too much, Go and see if he is what you were waiting for that is why you meet in public first, drive your own car. If you don't like him you can leave. Give it a chance and good luck.
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I'd say dont do anything you aren't comfortable with
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Don't worry about it too much, Go and see if he is what you were waiting for that is why you meet in public first, drive your own car. If you don't like him you can leave. Give it a chance and good luck. Heres the problem, I dont HAVE my car right now, and some guy threatened me on mingle violence recently thats local that scares me too! 
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ha ha, I dont know if your kidding or not... go meet him - if you don't feel comfortable after meeting him make the meeting short, but go with an open mind of meeting a friend not an appendage   |
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I'd say dont do anything you aren't comfortable with I feel ya. |
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Don't worry about it too much, Go and see if he is what you were waiting for that is why you meet in public first, drive your own car. If you don't like him you can leave. Give it a chance and good luck. Heres the problem, I dont HAVE my car right now, and some guy threatened me on mingle violence recently thats local that scares me too! then don't ask anyone what to do earthy - trust your instincts. |
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So heres the situation. I meet a guy online. I speak to him a little in emails. Over a days period. He says, "lets get together". Im like "well, Id prefer to get to know you by speaking a bit on the phone first". He calls. We talk.. he says.. he really wants to get together and talk,.. says he doesnt like to waste time getting to know someone that way, in his experience, he has hit it off many times on the phone, and they end up not a match after meeeting in person, SOOOOO, he prefers to meet in person. (Im thinking, wouldnt he like more of a chance for me to judge him for who he is on the phone? He says he just really wants to meet me. Im thinking, "hm.. he doesnt seem to eager to please me ad make ME feel confortable." WELLLLL... I think to myself.. ok, I would probably have coffee with someone I didnt know too well,... and.. ya gotta get to know people somehow sometime.. what if hes greattt... so anyway.. i decide, ok.. " so I agree to meet him for coffee in a public place... but I AM SOOO NERVOUS!. I am nervous because he is someone I dont know much at all. ARGH! Im about to cancel this freaks me out.. What do you think?  It was nice knowing you E.T.
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ha ha, I dont know if your kidding or not... go meet him - if you don't feel comfortable after meeting him make the meeting short, but go with an open mind of meeting a friend not an appendage ha ha, always a good reminder, i try to live by that one, commitment freaks me out too.
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i would say go.im the same way.i would much more meet the person in a public place.than over the phone.
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YOU be quiet.
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So heres the situation. I meet a guy online. I speak to him a little in emails. Over a days period. He says, "lets get together". Im like "well, Id prefer to get to know you by speaking a bit on the phone first". He calls. We talk.. he says.. he really wants to get together and talk,.. says he doesnt like to waste time getting to know someone that way, in his experience, he has hit it off many times on the phone, and they end up not a match after meeeting in person, SOOOOO, he prefers to meet in person. (Im thinking, wouldnt he like more of a chance for me to judge him for who he is on the phone? He says he just really wants to meet me. Im thinking, "hm.. he doesnt seem to eager to please me ad make ME feel confortable." WELLLLL... I think to myself.. ok, I would probably have coffee with someone I didnt know too well,... and.. ya gotta get to know people somehow sometime.. what if hes greattt... so anyway.. i decide, ok.. " so I agree to meet him for coffee in a public place... but I AM SOOO NERVOUS!. I am nervous because he is someone I dont know much at all. ARGH! Im about to cancel this freaks me out.. What do you think? It was nice knowing you E.T.
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Don't worry about it too much, Go and see if he is what you were waiting for that is why you meet in public first, drive your own car. If you don't like him you can leave. Give it a chance and good luck. Heres the problem, I dont HAVE my car right now, and some guy threatened me on mingle violence recently thats local that scares me too! Well then that is a different story sorry that some JERK did that to you. The I would proceed with caution. If you feel comfortable meeting him then go. Follow what your heart says. |
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Don't worry about it too much, Go and see if he is what you were waiting for that is why you meet in public first, drive your own car. If you don't like him you can leave. Give it a chance and good luck. Heres the problem, I dont HAVE my car right now, and some guy threatened me on mingle violence recently thats local that scares me too! then don't ask anyone what to do earthy - trust your instincts. ahh i should chill on that he called me from his job. Its on call id. |
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YOU be quiet. 
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You guys are awesome, thanks for the in input.
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