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what happened to all the positive energy that was here a few ago 
Im hanging on to that too girlfriend.
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what happened to all the positive energy that was here a few ago
lol i showed up and positive energy dissapears. |
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This is NOT good for a person who suffers from anxiety. lol
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Edited by
earthytaurus76
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Mon 07/13/09 01:49 PM
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Its funny, this is all over a cuppa.. But really, as a woman, I gotta be cautious.
I just dont wanna "caution" everyone out of my life. |
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This is NOT good for a person who suffers from anxiety. lol awww welcome to the club hun really its hard to get past the anxiety while worrying about stuff like this. i just got out of depression a few months ago. |
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If you don't feel right about seein him then don't go. Go with your gut.
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Its funny, this is all over a cuppa.. But really, as a woman, I gotta be cautious. yea you really do need to be carefull dear. best wishes |
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Mon 07/13/09 01:51 PM
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 He may not want you to see the name on the caller ID because it may be a wife/GF phone
Well I saw his work number.  So what? He wont give you his home phone number. Something is up with that.
No hon, he gave it to me, I just didnt call, I changed my mind and emailed him with mine cos I was like.. "Im not gonna call a guy". lol You will need to call him at an unexpected time.Look, this guy might not be "dangerous",but what he said just sounds weird to me and in my experience on here observing other people that is usually a sign of something bad.Not always, but there is ussually something odd going on when people deviate from the normal pattern of getting to know someone People normally talk on the phone for a while before meeting physically
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If you don't feel right about seein him then don't go. Go with your gut. ill second this |
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If you don't feel right about seein him then don't go. Go with your gut. This is why I love women. Guts are everything.
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Edited by
Dan99
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Mon 07/13/09 01:52 PM
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I think you only should meet someone when you both feel its the right time to do so, not because just they think it is. I wouldnt let anyone talk me around like that.
He doesnt wanna waste time talking to you on the phone? well thats nice. Maybe he wont wanna waste time talking to you over coffee unless you are going to sleep with him too. Too many red flags. Cancel. |
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Well, you guys have been helpful, Im gonna keep checking back here to see what people think..
I Thank you all so much. Hes gonna call after a while (hopefully) as Ive asked him to confirm. Ill get a better idea then too, and Ill keep ya posted.. *stay tuned* |
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I think you only should meet someone when you both feel its the right time to do so, not because just they think it is. I wouldnt let anyone talk me around like that. He doesnt wanna waste time talking to you on the phone? well thats nice. Maybe he wont wanna waste time talking to you over coffee unless you are going to sleep with him too. Too many red flags. Cancel. ah its nice to see that someone else has my brain pattern |
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E.T., YOU need to be the person that sets the "terms". Not the guy. The woman is the one that is supposed to be the one who sets the terms of meeting someone.Letting the guy do it is only setting yourself up for some bull****.
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I think you only should meet someone when you both feel its the right time to do so, not because just they think it is. I wouldnt let anyone talk me around like that. He doesnt wanna waste time talking to you on the phone? well thats nice. Maybe he wont wanna waste time talking to you over coffee unless you are going to sleep with him too. Too many red flags. Cancel. I KNOW I KNOWWWW!! Ive totally gone through a "IM GONNA CANCEL" stage... Ill keep that in mind. I said "did ya read my profile?" And he said yeah, and I said " I dont DO casual sex". Yup, hmmmmmm... |
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I think you only should meet someone when you both feel its the right time to do so, not because just they think it is. I wouldnt let anyone talk me around like that. He doesnt wanna waste time talking to you on the phone? well thats nice. Maybe he wont wanna waste time talking to you over coffee unless you are going to sleep with him too. Too many red flags. Cancel. I KNOW I KNOWWWW!! Ive totally gone through a "IM GONNA CANCEL" stage... Ill keep that in mind. I said "did ya read my profile?" And he said yeah, and I said " I dont DO casual sex". Yup, hmmmmmm... i like your profile and i still think that even if he said that i dont know if he meant it... many guys lie.... its a sad fact but i dont want to see you get hurt because of this guy pulling something. still going with the cancel option |
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E.T., YOU need to be the person that sets the "terms". Not the guy. The woman is the one that is supposed to be the one who sets the terms of meeting someone.Letting the guy do it is only setting yourself up for some bull****.
Yeah totally this is very empowering... Theres something totally wrongwith someone who wants to rush things.. I said,, "ON A MONDAY?" he said he was busy all week. The only reason I agreed was cos it is just coffee... but hmm It pisses me off he was not going my way in quite a way.. I do like a man who is charge though.. But just the fact that the *** kissing quota wasnt as high as I prefer.. Im with you on this. |
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E.T., YOU need to be the person that sets the "terms". Not the guy. The woman is the one that is supposed to be the one who sets the terms of meeting someone.Letting the guy do it is only setting yourself up for some bull****.
Yeah totally this is very empowering... Theres something totally wrongwith someone who wants to rush things.. I said,, "ON A MONDAY?" he said he was busy all week. The only reason I agreed was cos it is just coffee... but hmm It pisses me off he was not going my way in quite a way.. I do like a man who is charge though.. But just the fact that the *** kissing quota wasnt as high as I prefer.. Im with you on this. hugs for you im hopeing you find a good guy |
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ha ha.. thanks.
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