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i want to know why dating is so complicated. i have tried a few times but for some reason it keeps blowing up in my face.
no im not seeking pitty. i dont feel sorry for nothin. just bored alot lol. im more tryin to get some advice peiced together so that maybe i have a better chance... i missed all of my good experience building relationships growing up and now im just confused lol |
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If it's complicated...some one is doing something wrong.
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But really, you're doing it wrong...or they are doing it wrong. Trial and error, learning is easier that way...well, unless you're trying to dodge bullets... |
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If it's complicated...some one is doing something wrong. |
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someone told me once and it has always helped me just live in the moment
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Just be you, be honest, and do what feels right.
If you play 'what if' or go by unwritten rules, then it is destined for failure. |
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But really, you're doing it wrong...or they are doing it wrong. Trial and error, learning is easier that way...well, unless you're trying to dodge bullets... or trying to park a $700,000 car on a guardrail |
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lol patsfan i did try it. so far no responses.... am i doing something wrong with it?
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lol patsfan i did try it. so far no responses.... am i doing something wrong with it? No you are doing nothing wrong bro, it's a numbers game the more emails that you send out the better your chances, but don't be discouraged you will not here back from a majority of them, that's just the way these places are! |
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Dating is not supposed to be easy. If it were easy, there wouldn't be any single people left on this plantet.
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I would say the key to dating is patience. There will be someone out there for you. You don't want to try to date someone who is not interested in you anyways, so no matter how much you are interested in someone if there not into you, its not worth it in the end. So just be patient, I'm sure you will come across someone.
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lol yeah i know what you mean. but it shouldnt be this hard lol i cant even get someone to talk to me face to face
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Edited by
Winx
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Mon 07/13/09 07:59 AM
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i want to know why dating is so complicated. i have tried a few times but for some reason it keeps blowing up in my face. no im not seeking pitty. i dont feel sorry for nothin. just bored alot lol. im more tryin to get some advice peiced together so that maybe i have a better chance... i missed all of my good experience building relationships growing up and now im just confused lol Parts of your resume don't send a good image to the ladies: "People are horrible to me...i'm tired of that..." "i have tried for years to meet someone..." "I can be nice to everyone and still get hated on..." "probably because i seem childish..." "the more i try to change myself to fit others the more my life seems to suck." "untill then i will be here in my room waiting for a message." What's up with that? 
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well i put all that in there because that is my honest truth lol. again its not pity seeking but i dont have much else to say. for real though... the only thing i got going good for me is my piano skills.
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Edited by
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Mon 07/13/09 08:14 AM
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well i put all that in there because that is my honest truth lol. again its not pity seeking but i dont have much else to say. for real though... the only thing i got going good for me is my piano skills. Why not mention your piano skills then? Talk about the things that you like to do? What kinds of dates do you like to go on? Be positive. |
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dating is not complicated - it's actually fun
what complicates things is the expectations people have. |
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Your profile is very negative.
The only line I like is: "so if you would like to meet someone that has a higher respect for a woman than some punk off the street that just wants sex all the time. look me up." Your profile says that you portray yourself as a victim. |
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i want to know why dating is so complicated. i have tried a few times but for some reason it keeps blowing up in my face. no im not seeking pitty. i dont feel sorry for nothin. just bored alot lol. im more tryin to get some advice peiced together so that maybe i have a better chance... i missed all of my good experience building relationships growing up and now im just confused lol Parts of your resume don't send a good image to the ladies: "People are horrible to me...i'm tired of that..." "i have tried for years to meet someone..." "I can be nice to everyone and still get hated on..." "probably because i seem childish..." "the more i try to change myself to fit others the more my life seems to suck." "untill then i will be here in my room waiting for a message." What's up with that?
Oh, yeah, ouch! Think of it this way, your profile on a dating site is similar to a resume. Would you hire you based on that? Or, in your case, if you came across that profile, would you want to get to know that person better? Didn't think so. Work on it, and quit feeling sorry for yourself! Nothing worse than that 
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hmmm.... well im not sure what i can putin there. i can only play piano by ear lol its impressive but not for long. as for what i like to do... i dont do anything anymore. i broke my hip awhile back and lost everything i worked so hard for. including friends and my place to live.
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