Topic: The Illusion Of Love
MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 07/10/09 11:05 AM



In my opinion, no. But for some, the only "real" love is that first rush of infatuation, which doesn't really last. But once that's over, they're on to the next.

For me, the rush is great but I would far rather have the deepness, the intimacy, the stability of something more longer-lasting. To me, it's more meaningful. flowerforyou



aww, why aren't men like u???


Some are! flowerforyou



bigsmile That's rightbigsmile

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 07/10/09 11:28 AM

love is what you make it. if what you dream love should be, and you don't have that in real life, then you need to work on it.

if the love you share in real life, is better than what you dream, then you are truely blessed.

i am truely blessed. i love my angel, and our love far exceeds and dream.:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:
:thumbsup:

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 07/10/09 11:34 AM

I think love is better in your dreams

Cause I woke up this morning..........
flowerforyou very poeticflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 07/10/09 12:36 PM


:heart:Is the illusion of love better than the reality of love itself?:heart:

bigsmileIn other words,does the best romance exist in our dreams and not in real life?what

I think it depends on the person...Some people are naturally dreamers, some people are more practical.

I'm a dreamer, so guys sometimes fall short of the sexy pirate escapades in my head...But I also know that love is what you make of it. So unless I pursue a sexy pirate I won't get that. Love is hard work and partnership which we should all remember needs a lot of time and understanding.

(I don't have a fetish about pirates, it's just an example)



:tongue: Yeah, you know you like sexy pirates:tongue:

Def03's photo
Fri 07/10/09 12:46 PM
Im really not romantic so I dont know

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Fri 07/10/09 12:48 PM

Im really not romantic so I dont know


You sure look romantic, oh wait.. I mean sexy... flowerforyou

Def03's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:03 PM


Im really not romantic so I dont know


You sure look romantic, oh wait.. I mean sexy... flowerforyou

Ah thank you, flowerforyou
My boyfriends complaints are usually the type you hear from women. (not trying to stereo type)

redhead44613's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:12 PM
nothing is perfect, not even love. It take work just like ever thing else.

Relationships can seem perfect but there is always something that could be better.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:41 PM

Im really not romantic so I dont know
flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:41 PM

nothing is perfect, not even love. It take work just like ever thing else.

Relationships can seem perfect but there is always something that could be better.
flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 07/10/09 03:09 PM
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SunnyMcleod's photo
Fri 07/10/09 05:07 PM



:heart:Is the illusion of love better than the reality of love itself?:heart:

bigsmileIn other words,does the best romance exist in our dreams and not in real life?what

I think it depends on the person...Some people are naturally dreamers, some people are more practical.

I'm a dreamer, so guys sometimes fall short of the sexy pirate escapades in my head...But I also know that love is what you make of it. So unless I pursue a sexy pirate I won't get that. Love is hard work and partnership which we should all remember needs a lot of time and understanding.

(I don't have a fetish about pirates, it's just an example)



:tongue: Yeah, you know you like sexy pirates:tongue:

Well every girl must have a vice :tongue:

CKeef's photo
Fri 07/10/09 05:27 PM
Edited by CKeef on Fri 07/10/09 05:31 PM

I think it depends on the person...Some people are naturally dreamers, some people are more practical.

I'm a dreamer, so guys sometimes fall short of the sexy pirate escapades in my head...But I also know that love is what you make of it. So unless I pursue a sexy pirate I won't get that. Love is hard work and partnership which we should all remember needs a lot of time and understanding.

(I don't have a fetish about pirates, it's just an example)


I always wanted to be a pirate... I now remember why tongue2

SunnyMcleod's photo
Fri 07/10/09 05:33 PM


I think it depends on the person...Some people are naturally dreamers, some people are more practical.

I'm a dreamer, so guys sometimes fall short of the sexy pirate escapades in my head...But I also know that love is what you make of it. So unless I pursue a sexy pirate I won't get that. Love is hard work and partnership which we should all remember needs a lot of time and understanding.

(I don't have a fetish about pirates, it's just an example)


I always wanted to be a pirate... I now remember why tongue2

:wink: A pirate who likes weed? That's the best thing in the world I'd say. Or does the keef mean something else?

CKeef's photo
Fri 07/10/09 05:40 PM



I think it depends on the person...Some people are naturally dreamers, some people are more practical.

I'm a dreamer, so guys sometimes fall short of the sexy pirate escapades in my head...But I also know that love is what you make of it. So unless I pursue a sexy pirate I won't get that. Love is hard work and partnership which we should all remember needs a lot of time and understanding.

(I don't have a fetish about pirates, it's just an example)


I always wanted to be a pirate... I now remember why tongue2

:wink: A pirate who likes weed? That's the best thing in the world I'd say. Or does the keef mean something else?


You are correct! May my heart keep beating, you have stunned me! flowers

no photo
Fri 07/10/09 05:55 PM

:heart:Is the illusion of love better than the reality of love itself?:heart:

bigsmileIn other words,does the best romance exist in our dreams and not in real life?what


Neither.

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 07/10/09 06:31 PM
The illusion of love, or fantasy is always better because we can control it, have it anyway with want it. Obviously it doesn't work that way when there is another person involved other than our imagination. We need to keep ourselves in check. Learning unconditional love helps... unconditional love would never ask what we sometimes ask from each other

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:16 PM

:heart:Is the illusion of love better than the reality of love itself?:heart:

bigsmileIn other words,does the best romance exist in our dreams and not in real life?what


The illusion is always better than the reality.

Just ask all those foolish people out there who really believe that there is one perfect person out there looking for them.

The middle of the road guys, such as myself, can thank Hallmark and the candy industry ( Valentine's Day ) for convincing women that perfection is out there.

SunnyMcleod's photo
Fri 07/10/09 08:58 PM

You are correct! May my heart keep beating, you have stunned me! flowers


I'm clever ya know :wink: blushing

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 07/10/09 09:03 PM


You are correct! May my heart keep beating, you have stunned me! flowers


I'm clever ya know :wink: blushing
flowerforyou You areflowerforyou