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All women are ******* and all guys are *** holes  Except me of course. I'm a nice guy, so I'm screwed anyway  LMAO!!! Nice guys are great catches....for the right girls....never forget that... There are too many "wrong" women out there for this nice guy. I'm just going to be a monk and go that way
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All women are ******* and all guys are *** holes Except me of course. I'm a nice guy, so I'm screwed anyway LMAO!!! Nice guys are great catches....for the right girls....never forget that... There are too many "wrong" women out there for this nice guy. I'm just going to be a monk and go that way Oh dear, here we go again...what are YOU looking for that women "don't have or can't provide"?? |
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see,everybodies ex is an a hole and these are women that laid down and had sex with them. im sure there was a nice guy who was trying to date you and you brushed him off for an ex. thats just life and like us men it will never change. lol Ummm...errrm...I think I can honestly state I have NEVER (and never will) say my few "ex's" were a'holes. I loved them for a reason...and remain focused on that reason...til the bitter end. I do believe anyone who truly knows me here can state my case that I have NEVER (and never will) "ball bash" any of my ex's. EVER! I am woman enough to stand up and say "guess what? I screwed up too!!" Sure they did things that hurt me...sure they weren't perfect...sure I may vent my hurt somethings. But, NEWSFLASH...I sure didn't see MY name appear in the Daily Times stating "Virgin Mary Found Reborn on Sixth Street in Zoom Zoom, NC" either. I don't love quickly, easily or often...but, when I do choose to share that part of me, it is wholly and completely with a love partner. There WAS a reason I felt love...once. So, when I find the need to walk away...it is ALWAYS with respect, NO MATTER HIS FAULTS (as *I* perceive them). Wholly, completely and devoid of the need to discredit my partner. 
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dont get angry i didnt say ALL women i said most I don't like "most" that infers the majority of women.. I will accept "some" b/c the infers less than the majority... There are a lot of good women that got the sh*tty end of the stick and it's not fair to put most into a bucket... just sayin'...  That's just stupid... And you tell me not to get angry... How is a woman to know that 3 yrs into her marriage her husband is going to try to kill her? A great guy for 4 yrs then all of the sudden he doesn't get what he wants or he feels she cares about her work more than him b/c he's insecure and BAM he tries to choke her to death and throws her around for hours.. YOU tell me PLEASE how she allowed that? |
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i never said women change i said men dont. women try to change men if anything . which isnt right either
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All women are ******* and all guys are *** holes Except me of course. I'm a nice guy, so I'm screwed anyway LMAO!!! Nice guys are great catches....for the right girls....never forget that... There are too many "wrong" women out there for this nice guy. I'm just going to be a monk and go that way Oh dear, here we go again...what are YOU looking for that women "don't have or can't provide"?? I want a woman who won't look at me like I'm insane if I ever mention video games, hissy kittens, or Sailor Moon. I'm a total nerd and thats stuff I like. Oddly enough maybe 80% of women I talk too give me that "omg no wonder this guy is single" look. And if I'm 30 and still single, than I'm totally becoming a monk because I don't want to be that creepy single guy that everyone talks about behind his back. 
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he just didnt become insecure he has always been insecure that woman just could not or refused to see the signs early on hitting a woman is wrong and he should go to jail for it. but he didnt wake up that morning and all of a sudden wanted to hit a woman it was in him for a long time
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Edited by
directandwrite
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Tue 07/07/09 12:40 AM
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All women are ******* and all guys are *** holes Except me of course. I'm a nice guy, so I'm screwed anyway LMAO!!! Nice guys are great catches....for the right girls....never forget that... There are too many "wrong" women out there for this nice guy. I'm just going to be a monk and go that way Oh dear, here we go again...what are YOU looking for that women "don't have or can't provide"?? I want a woman who won't look at me like I'm insane if I ever mention video games, hissy kittens, or Sailor Moon. I'm a total nerd and thats stuff I like. Oddly enough maybe 80% of women I talk too give me that "omg no wonder this guy is single" look. And if I'm 30 and still single, than I'm totally becoming a monk because I don't want to be that creepy single guy that everyone talks about behind his back. Not all chicks are like that... |
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he just didnt become insecure he has always been insecure that woman just could not or refused to see the signs early on hitting a woman is wrong and he should go to jail for it. but he didnt wake up that morning and all of a sudden wanted to hit a woman it was in him for a long time Seriously, liars are good liars. It's that women are just so stupid that they purposly avoid all the warning signs. Some do. And so do men. However, when you get a good liar, the truth isn't so easy to come by. |
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he just didnt become insecure he has always been insecure that woman just could not or refused to see the signs early on hitting a woman is wrong and he should go to jail for it. but he didnt wake up that morning and all of a sudden wanted to hit a woman it was in him for a long time Perhaps it was but that doesn't mean she ignored it or tried to change him.. There are some that can hide that or curb it and then lose it... Some learn a hard lesson from an experience like that... |
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OMG i never said ALL women i said most
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OMG i never said ALL women i said most It's not the all or the most at this point it's what else you've said that is COMPLETELY RIDICULOUS! |
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see,everybodies ex is an a hole and these are women that laid down and had sex with them. im sure there was a nice guy who was trying to date you and you brushed him off for an ex. thats just life and like us men it will never change. lol Ummm...errrm...I think I can honestly state I have NEVER (and never will) say my few "ex's" were a'holes. I loved them for a reason...and remain focused on that reason...til the bitter end. I do believe anyone who truly knows me here can state my case that I have NEVER (and never will) "ball bash" any of my ex's. EVER! I am woman enough to stand up and say "guess what? I screwed up too!!" Sure they did things that hurt me...sure they weren't perfect...sure I may vent my hurt somethings. But, NEWSFLASH...I sure didn't see MY name appear in the Daily Times stating "Virgin Mary Found Reborn on Sixth Street in Zoom Zoom, NC" either. I don't love quickly, easily or often...but, when I do choose to share that part of me, it is wholly and completely with a love partner. There WAS a reason I felt love...once. So, when I find the need to walk away...it is ALWAYS with respect, NO MATTER HIS FAULTS (as *I* perceive them). Wholly, completely and devoid of the need to discredit my partner. wow, what's a guy gotta do to get ur number?? 
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That's just stupid... And you tell me not to get angry... How is a woman to know that 3 yrs into her marriage her husband is going to try to kill her? A great guy for 4 yrs then all of the sudden he doesn't get what he wants or he feels she cares about her work more than him b/c he's insecure and BAM he tries to choke her to death and throws her around for hours.. YOU tell me PLEASE how she allowed that? EDIT on my part, Indian, ok? Certainly, my previous post has no reference to physical, mental, or emotional abuse. That's a whole different ballgame, hon. You had NO part in responsibility in that...unless you provoked it, which likely you did not. However, I have experienced that to a certain degree...but, will still never openly "bash" my way long ago "ex" for it. Perhaps it is because he realized he had anger issues and began seeking help for it before he became an "ex". I forgive him for it. He was not well...clearly.
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OMG i never said ALL women i said most Even if you're just saying MOST women, you still blame us for the relationships going bad cuz men never change. Just women do. And women refuse to see the signs cause he was either always good or always bad. It's all our fault for not seeing a liar for liar. |
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^ Yeah for sure, but I have never seen someone who is happy cuz his lonely for ever. people need to interact and share, buttt that's my opinion. :) Andd someone's action can definitely have an effect on you. Think of spending time with someone who is negative and pessimistic. Or on the other hadn someone who's making you laugh and gives positive energy. Good thing I'm cynical...people always laugh at cynicism.  But honestly, I don't care if I'm lonely forever...I'm just fine with myself and can live comfortably alone. On top of that being alone has never left me depressed or questioning what I say to myself, far easier. If I happen to come across someone that compliments that or we mesh really good I suppose it can change...the beauty of life I guess, it is ever-changing. I respect that about you, Fear, I do, however think that your opinions might not always remain that way, or even that they are hiding below the surface levels and perhaps you don't recognize them yet. That is perfectly fine though. I wish I didn't want to share my life with that special someone as I do. I wish that it didn't matter one way or the other to me. But I do want that.... I think maybe one day you will also... It's not that I don't want to share my life with someone, that would be great! But merely as a compliment to my already comfortable life, not a detriment. I won't spend more than a half hour thinking if I made the right choice about breaking up with someone, as soon as they are a detriment to my happiness as a whole...they do not need to be in my life. Again, like I've said before, the one thing I've never understood about people is how they put so much control of their emotions and/or happiness in someone else's hands. No matter the length of time of the relationship as soon as they are detrimental to your happiness or emotions it is time to cut them loose, as quick as possible...sometimes people do that, sometimes it takes years and they don't come out the same as they went in. |
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im not trying to make anybody mad im just saying women choose these a holes and wonder where the nice guys are and it makes me laugh
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dont get angry i didnt say ALL women i said most I don't like "most" that infers the majority of women.. I will accept "some" b/c the infers less than the majority... There are a lot of good women that got the sh*tty end of the stick and it's not fair to put most into a bucket... just sayin'... That's just stupid... And you tell me not to get angry... How is a woman to know that 3 yrs into her marriage her husband is going to try to kill her? A great guy for 4 yrs then all of the sudden he doesn't get what he wants or he feels she cares about her work more than him b/c he's insecure and BAM he tries to choke her to death and throws her around for hours.. YOU tell me PLEASE how she allowed that? Yep IndnPrncs |
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see,everybodies ex is an a hole and these are women that laid down and had sex with them. im sure there was a nice guy who was trying to date you and you brushed him off for an ex. thats just life and like us men it will never change. lol Ummm...errrm...I think I can honestly state I have NEVER (and never will) say my few "ex's" were a'holes. I loved them for a reason...and remain focused on that reason...til the bitter end. I do believe anyone who truly knows me here can state my case that I have NEVER (and never will) "ball bash" any of my ex's. EVER! I am woman enough to stand up and say "guess what? I screwed up too!!" Sure they did things that hurt me...sure they weren't perfect...sure I may vent my hurt somethings. But, NEWSFLASH...I sure didn't see MY name appear in the Daily Times stating "Virgin Mary Found Reborn on Sixth Street in Zoom Zoom, NC" either. I don't love quickly, easily or often...but, when I do choose to share that part of me, it is wholly and completely with a love partner. There WAS a reason I felt love...once. So, when I find the need to walk away...it is ALWAYS with respect, NO MATTER HIS FAULTS (as *I* perceive them). Wholly, completely and devoid of the need to discredit my partner. what a great post 
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How about people start taking some responsibility for their own situations? Men and women alike. I blame myself when I take a bite out of a rotten apple, I don't blame the apple.
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