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This is what I'm saying though....Racerx...yes...some women are gluttons for punishment....true....and they date azzes....TRUE...but men do the same thing....and they come in here and out in life whining about wanting a good girl...but when they have one right in front of them, they treat the nice kind girl like a dog....maybe because they let the dog treat them poorly in the past or something?? Who knows...the point is, they treat the good girls like crap....so the good girls get treated like crap from the jerks....and also treated like crap by the supposed good guys....where is the fairness in that one???  Thought you were going to bed, or maybe you're trying to hit 4000 tonight! Women don't want nice guys. They like hairy, ugly, loud and obnoxious, thirteen years older, Buddhist, skateboading, lives with mommy, freaks. Erum.............. no, I'm not bitter! not true; i like them young, cute and eager  Sorry. That was an accurate description of who my ex left me for. Still can't quite put my finger on it and am actually quite insulted by it. I think now though I've figured it out. Wanted to see what it was like with a "bad boy". Found myself a nice gal & am happier than I ever was with her anyhow. never had a bad boy, never wanted one. i've always liked the nerds, dorks and geeks. Go Caleigh, that's me too girl! told you, great minds think alike 
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oh please indian i just read yours it says how caring and wonderful and all that i said it would. dont give me grief because i said the same as you all have i just did it in a forum and not in a profile That was a total pain in the azz thing to say!!!! Nobody was arguing that it is bad to state up your good qualities.... Hawaii!! GOOD FOR YOU!!! BEST WISHES!!!  |
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yes they did look back a couple of pages
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me You must have had someone try to change you b/c you've mentioned it a few times... I'll take the good guy over a nice guy any day of the week.. a good guy knows what is an isn't appropriate to say and thinks before he talks and doesn't generalize... Just a quick note, the human brain remembers things by "generalizing" and putting things into categories, and there is a slew of philosophical papers out there on the matter. Since when did discussing things in a "general" sense become bad? I just made a generalization about people a moment ago and nobody got bothered by that. It's only offensive when you take offense to it. ,the gecko I do not like nor have I ever liked it.. If those you made the generalization to didn't care that's their thing.. As you notice in here every woman has an issue with it in this case not just me... The Princess.... Don't look now princess, but you just made a generalization. UM no I did not.. I made a statement of FACT... hmm, so now we need to differentiate between generalizations and fact. Which category does this fall into : "women are physically weaker than men"? I hear this a lot and wonder how you would categorize it, fact or generalization? Not all women are weaker than men... The fact is as you read if you read more than just my posts and the person you're flirting withs posts, that the women posting right now do not like to be categorized with "most".. That is a fact not a generalization.. I don't believe that's the answer to the question I asked. I didn't mean to single you out princess, and I'm not trying to bash you, I was making a blanket statement about how the human brain works and used that thread as an example. Second, I guess you did sort of answer my question in a round about way, but the fact is that "most" people don't like being described as "most" anything b/c out kindergarden teachers were obsessed about telling us how unique we are blablabla, but the fact of the matter is that "most" people fall into a category in everyone elses head and "most" people have a million other people out there that have some of the same nuances and habits, otherwise there would be no need for professional sports. (speaking to everyone here, not just you). Maybe instead of fighting with guys when they make a stereotype about women try to understand their point a little bit. Chances are that they've met a lot more women and gotten to know them on a deeper level than a woman would. Women would have a better insight about the nuances of men. Again, in general. ,, and leaving gay and lesbian formulations right out of the equation to keep it simple for the moment. All I'm saying, is that you can learn a lot when you look at things from a general point of view and try to figure them out instead of being on the defensive and defending yourself against a generalization that might not apply to you. 1) I did answer you 2) You did single me out 3) I don't care about kindergarten and what they taught us, it isn't about that.. It's about standing up and being a responsible person and saying "hey not everyone or most everyone is the same... Not most people are this way, but sure SOME are".. 4) I am not defensive about what could or could not be about me, I did not think it was about me until it was... I do not think any gender, race, species deserves to be generalized about b/c they are not all the same in personality or actions... 5) I don't know what you read but what I read does not generalize it's either researched and proven or a hypothesis never "well all apes can count" or "all men are stronger than all women"... Perhaps you jumped on one word and went with it as you're accusing me of doing rather than sticking with the subject... |
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yes they did look back a couple of pages But that part is missing the whole point, Racer... |
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me You must have had someone try to change you b/c you've mentioned it a few times... I'll take the good guy over a nice guy any day of the week.. a good guy knows what is an isn't appropriate to say and thinks before he talks and doesn't generalize... Just a quick note, the human brain remembers things by "generalizing" and putting things into categories, and there is a slew of philosophical papers out there on the matter. Since when did discussing things in a "general" sense become bad? I just made a generalization about people a moment ago and nobody got bothered by that. It's only offensive when you take offense to it. ,the gecko I do not like nor have I ever liked it.. If those you made the generalization to didn't care that's their thing.. As you notice in here every woman has an issue with it in this case not just me... The Princess.... Don't look now princess, but you just made a generalization. UM no I did not.. I made a statement of FACT... hmm, so now we need to differentiate between generalizations and fact. Which category does this fall into : "women are physically weaker than men"? I hear this a lot and wonder how you would categorize it, fact or generalization? Not all women are weaker than men... The fact is as you read if you read more than just my posts and the person you're flirting withs posts, that the women posting right now do not like to be categorized with "most".. That is a fact not a generalization.. I don't believe that's the answer to the question I asked. I didn't mean to single you out princess, and I'm not trying to bash you, I was making a blanket statement about how the human brain works and used that thread as an example. Second, I guess you did sort of answer my question in a round about way, but the fact is that "most" people don't like being described as "most" anything b/c out kindergarden teachers were obsessed about telling us how unique we are blablabla, but the fact of the matter is that "most" people fall into a category in everyone elses head and "most" people have a million other people out there that have some of the same nuances and habits, otherwise there would be no need for professional sports. (speaking to everyone here, not just you). Maybe instead of fighting with guys when they make a stereotype about women try to understand their point a little bit. Chances are that they've met a lot more women and gotten to know them on a deeper level than a woman would. Women would have a better insight about the nuances of men. Again, in general. ,, and leaving gay and lesbian formulations right out of the equation to keep it simple for the moment. All I'm saying, is that you can learn a lot when you look at things from a general point of view and try to figure them out instead of being on the defensive and defending yourself against a generalization that might not apply to you. 1) I did answer you 2) You did single me out 3) I don't care about kindergarten and what they taught us, it isn't about that.. It's about standing up and being a responsible person and saying "hey not everyone or most everyone is the same... Not most people are this way, but sure SOME are".. 4) I am not defensive about what could or could not be about me, I did not think it was about me until it was... I do not think any gender, race, species deserves to be generalized about b/c they are not all the same in personality or actions... 5) I don't know what you read but what I read does not generalize it's either researched and proven or a hypothesis never "well all apes can count" or "all men are stronger than all women"... Perhaps you jumped on one word and went with it as you're accusing me of doing rather than sticking with the subject... Thank you for proving my point. |
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im just going by what you wrote on your profile sunshine You pulled out some of it but you left out what didn't make your point which is um shall we say "skewing the control group" a bit... |
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me You must have had someone try to change you b/c you've mentioned it a few times... I'll take the good guy over a nice guy any day of the week.. a good guy knows what is an isn't appropriate to say and thinks before he talks and doesn't generalize... Just a quick note, the human brain remembers things by "generalizing" and putting things into categories, and there is a slew of philosophical papers out there on the matter. Since when did discussing things in a "general" sense become bad? I just made a generalization about people a moment ago and nobody got bothered by that. It's only offensive when you take offense to it. ,the gecko I do not like nor have I ever liked it.. If those you made the generalization to didn't care that's their thing.. As you notice in here every woman has an issue with it in this case not just me... The Princess.... Don't look now princess, but you just made a generalization. UM no I did not.. I made a statement of FACT... hmm, so now we need to differentiate between generalizations and fact. Which category does this fall into : "women are physically weaker than men"? I hear this a lot and wonder how you would categorize it, fact or generalization? Not all women are weaker than men... The fact is as you read if you read more than just my posts and the person you're flirting withs posts, that the women posting right now do not like to be categorized with "most".. That is a fact not a generalization.. I don't believe that's the answer to the question I asked. I didn't mean to single you out princess, and I'm not trying to bash you, I was making a blanket statement about how the human brain works and used that thread as an example. Second, I guess you did sort of answer my question in a round about way, but the fact is that "most" people don't like being described as "most" anything b/c out kindergarden teachers were obsessed about telling us how unique we are blablabla, but the fact of the matter is that "most" people fall into a category in everyone elses head and "most" people have a million other people out there that have some of the same nuances and habits, otherwise there would be no need for professional sports. (speaking to everyone here, not just you). Maybe instead of fighting with guys when they make a stereotype about women try to understand their point a little bit. Chances are that they've met a lot more women and gotten to know them on a deeper level than a woman would. Women would have a better insight about the nuances of men. Again, in general. ,, and leaving gay and lesbian formulations right out of the equation to keep it simple for the moment. All I'm saying, is that you can learn a lot when you look at things from a general point of view and try to figure them out instead of being on the defensive and defending yourself against a generalization that might not apply to you. 1) I did answer you 2) You did single me out 3) I don't care about kindergarten and what they taught us, it isn't about that.. It's about standing up and being a responsible person and saying "hey not everyone or most everyone is the same... Not most people are this way, but sure SOME are".. 4) I am not defensive about what could or could not be about me, I did not think it was about me until it was... I do not think any gender, race, species deserves to be generalized about b/c they are not all the same in personality or actions... 5) I don't know what you read but what I read does not generalize it's either researched and proven or a hypothesis never "well all apes can count" or "all men are stronger than all women"... Perhaps you jumped on one word and went with it as you're accusing me of doing rather than sticking with the subject... 
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me You must have had someone try to change you b/c you've mentioned it a few times... I'll take the good guy over a nice guy any day of the week.. a good guy knows what is an isn't appropriate to say and thinks before he talks and doesn't generalize... Just a quick note, the human brain remembers things by "generalizing" and putting things into categories, and there is a slew of philosophical papers out there on the matter. Since when did discussing things in a "general" sense become bad? I just made a generalization about people a moment ago and nobody got bothered by that. It's only offensive when you take offense to it. ,the gecko I do not like nor have I ever liked it.. If those you made the generalization to didn't care that's their thing.. As you notice in here every woman has an issue with it in this case not just me... The Princess.... Don't look now princess, but you just made a generalization. UM no I did not.. I made a statement of FACT... hmm, so now we need to differentiate between generalizations and fact. Which category does this fall into : "women are physically weaker than men"? I hear this a lot and wonder how you would categorize it, fact or generalization? Not all women are weaker than men... The fact is as you read if you read more than just my posts and the person you're flirting withs posts, that the women posting right now do not like to be categorized with "most".. That is a fact not a generalization.. I don't believe that's the answer to the question I asked. I didn't mean to single you out princess, and I'm not trying to bash you, I was making a blanket statement about how the human brain works and used that thread as an example. Second, I guess you did sort of answer my question in a round about way, but the fact is that "most" people don't like being described as "most" anything b/c out kindergarden teachers were obsessed about telling us how unique we are blablabla, but the fact of the matter is that "most" people fall into a category in everyone elses head and "most" people have a million other people out there that have some of the same nuances and habits, otherwise there would be no need for professional sports. (speaking to everyone here, not just you). Maybe instead of fighting with guys when they make a stereotype about women try to understand their point a little bit. Chances are that they've met a lot more women and gotten to know them on a deeper level than a woman would. Women would have a better insight about the nuances of men. Again, in general. ,, and leaving gay and lesbian formulations right out of the equation to keep it simple for the moment. All I'm saying, is that you can learn a lot when you look at things from a general point of view and try to figure them out instead of being on the defensive and defending yourself against a generalization that might not apply to you. 1) I did answer you 2) You did single me out 3) I don't care about kindergarten and what they taught us, it isn't about that.. It's about standing up and being a responsible person and saying "hey not everyone or most everyone is the same... Not most people are this way, but sure SOME are".. 4) I am not defensive about what could or could not be about me, I did not think it was about me until it was... I do not think any gender, race, species deserves to be generalized about b/c they are not all the same in personality or actions... 5) I don't know what you read but what I read does not generalize it's either researched and proven or a hypothesis never "well all apes can count" or "all men are stronger than all women"... Perhaps you jumped on one word and went with it as you're accusing me of doing rather than sticking with the subject... Thank you for proving my point. No I did not but you think whatever makes you feel pretty... |
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im just going by what you wrote on your profile sunshine You pulled out some of it but you left out what didn't make your point which is um shall we say "skewing the control group" a bit... Yep yep yep! |
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Hey, if you're not even going to try to understand what I'm saying then I'm joining in on the popcorn and beer with the others. Keep taking stuff personal, whatever makes you happy.
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Edited by
directandwrite
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Tue 07/07/09 01:23 AM
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Racer....I would just like to know from your own point of view why it is that you can make these outlandish statements about most women without admitting that most men do it too...isn't that denial????
Or are you just embarrassed by the fact that you were done dirty by some *itch and then you did another good girl wrong???? |
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Hey, if you're not even going to try to understand what I'm saying then I'm joining in on the popcorn and beer with the others. Keep taking stuff personal, whatever makes you happy. I wouldn't take it personal if you didn't keep stepping on me.. You're not doing much to understand what I'm saying either... |
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Hey, if you're not even going to try to understand what I'm saying then I'm joining in on the popcorn and beer with the others. Keep taking stuff personal, whatever makes you happy. I would like your thoughts on the fact that men do the same thing also, Geckgo |
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Hey, if you're not even going to try to understand what I'm saying then I'm joining in on the popcorn and beer with the others. Keep taking stuff personal, whatever makes you happy. I wouldn't take it personal if you didn't keep stepping on me.. You're not doing much to understand what I'm saying either... I wasn't stepping on you, none of my comments were about you specifically until you made them about you, and the moment you changed my words around, I'm done. |
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Nom! Nom! Nom!
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Hey, if you're not even going to try to understand what I'm saying then I'm joining in on the popcorn and beer with the others. Keep taking stuff personal, whatever makes you happy. I would like your thoughts on the fact that men do the same thing also, Geckgo Totally agree |
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Hey, if you're not even going to try to understand what I'm saying then I'm joining in on the popcorn and beer with the others. Keep taking stuff personal, whatever makes you happy. I wouldn't take it personal if you didn't keep stepping on me.. You're not doing much to understand what I'm saying either... I wasn't stepping on you, none of my comments were about you specifically until you made them about you, and the moment you changed my words around, I'm done. look back at your first comment about generalization... anywho...
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Nom! Nom! Nom! LOL I love the LOL kitty's time for another beer |
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i didnt bring that up. but we can generalize and we do. most women like to shop, most men drink beer. i know women that loath shopping but most of the ones i know love it. i dont drink beer but all my male friends do! get it
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