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yess meant it humanistically. :))) starting a relationship because you are not happy with yourself and expect the other to make you happy is kind of fooling yourself and the other. Then, YES...I agree with you on that level.  And, no offense, but for those that are cynical to this concept of the humanistic "need" are truly fooling themselves...as they seem to be frequent posters on here...interacting with other humans that are clearly feeding a "need" for them.  Oh, an in getting back on topic...I think all the "nice guys" are at Wally World right now. Heard they are running a Blue Light Special on pocket protectors and a 2-fer on Beanie Weenies tonight. 
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Everyone wants that inspite of what they may say.. To not want that would mean you're anti-social and if that were the case none of us would be here... The key is being happy with yourself and not getting depressed or negative if it takes a long time or till never to meet that special person...
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And no gettin' drunk on a daily basis!
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threads at lately?? Gosh, I think everyone scares them away to quickly. Where's a nice guy thread when you're bored? I ate them...  you need a new diet plan
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The point is to live your life and enjoy the days, as many as they be, until you do meet someone special. To many times people put their life on hold, I'm so guilty of this too, because of a break up, or just not meeting anyone.
It gets so frustrating. But... thats why we have friends. Mine sure dragged me out of my slump. 
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And no gettin' drunk on a daily basis! who's getting drunk? what's a beenie weenie? or do I not want to know?
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I need a cold shower
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Its almost time for my monthly "What the hell is wrong with me, aka, nobody likes me because I'm fat and ugly and I should just jump off a cliff" thread.
If that counts 
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The point is to live your life and enjoy the days, as many as they be, until you do meet someone special. To many times people put their life on hold, I'm so guilty of this too, because of a break up, or just not meeting anyone. It gets so frustrating. But... thats why we have friends. Mine sure dragged me out of my slump. I agree Jill.. Not sure if I'm living life so much but I enjoy my time with me friends and work too much to really know if I'm missing anything else...
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nice guys finish last. its that simple. women, not all ,but most. will go for the guy that treats them like crap. the guy that treats them like crap is one getting laid. i ll make my point. you ask almost every single mom what she thinks about the father of her baby or even ask the kid what his or her mom thinks about their dad and 9 out of ten times that guy will be the biggest a-hole on the planet. not everytime but most of the time that is what you hear. sorry ladies but its true
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nice guys finish last. its that simple. women, not all ,but most. will go for the guy that treats them like crap. the guy that treats them like crap is one getting laid. i ll make my point. you ask almost every single mom what she thinks about the father of her baby or even ask the kid what his or her mom thinks about their dad and 9 out of ten times that guy will be the biggest a-hole on the planet. not everytime but most of the time that is what you hear. sorry ladies but its true Sorry Racer, I don't agree with you.. To a point I do.. "Some women" would have made your statement more acceptable in terms of not being too general... As far as exes go, yeah mines an ******* but it's b/c of how he acted and treated the kids not so much b/c of how he acted to me... People that don't do right by their kids are azzholes pure and simple... |
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what's a beenie weenie? or do I not want to know? OMG..you ARE kidding me with this question, right???  Oh wait a sec, nevermind...just checked your profile, Cali gal! No wonder you don't know what beanie weenies are! Guess it's a "southern thang". But, ummm...it could also be a "girlie thang", if'n you think about it in a different context than I was referencing. 
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what's a beenie weenie? or do I not want to know? OMG..you ARE kidding me with this question, right??? Oh wait a sec, nevermind...just checked your profile, Cali gal! No wonder you don't know what beanie weenies are! Guess it's a "southern thang". But, ummm...it could also be a "girlie thang", if'n you think about it in a different context than I was referencing. ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh  BOB... 
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nice guys finish last. its that simple. women, not all ,but most. will go for the guy that treats them like crap. the guy that treats them like crap is one getting laid. i ll make my point. you ask almost every single mom what she thinks about the father of her baby or even ask the kid what his or her mom thinks about their dad and 9 out of ten times that guy will be the biggest a-hole on the planet. not everytime but most of the time that is what you hear. sorry ladies but its true |
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As another Mingler stated, it's not about being "nice" at all, as the nice ones inevitably end being total pushovers. And if they end up "finishing last", it's because they didn't take any initiative in the first place.
There is a difference between being a "nice" guy and being a "good" guy, as you wanna be the latter- a "good" guy isn't an "azzhole" (to quote Prncs) and treat people like crap but WON'T take any crap in the meanwhile. |
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As another Mingler stated, it's not about being "nice" at all, as the nice ones inevitably end being total pushovers. And if they end up "finishing last", it's because they didn't take any initiative in the first place. There is a difference between being a "nice" guy and being a "good" guy, as you wanna be the latter- a "good" guy isn't an "azzhole" (to quote Prncs) and treat people like crap but WON'T take any crap in the meanwhile. Very nicely put Moofers... |
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nice guys finish last. its that simple. women, not all ,but most. will go for the guy that treats them like crap. the guy that treats them like crap is one getting laid. i ll make my point. you ask almost every single mom what she thinks about the father of her baby or even ask the kid what his or her mom thinks about their dad and 9 out of ten times that guy will be the biggest a-hole on the planet. not everytime but most of the time that is what you hear. sorry ladies but its true Assuming this is the truth...I must say the same is true with men then...they will take a girl who treats them like crap and do anything and everything for her like a whipped puppy, but when a real decent woman comes along, he does her dirty!!! Please explain that one.... This all can be especially true if the *itch is considered "beautiful" and the nice girl is only average....but that is not the necessary case... the *itch can be ugly too...in more ways than just physically....
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nice guys finish last. its that simple. women, not all ,but most. will go for the guy that treats them like crap. the guy that treats them like crap is one getting laid. i ll make my point. you ask almost every single mom what she thinks about the father of her baby or even ask the kid what his or her mom thinks about their dad and 9 out of ten times that guy will be the biggest a-hole on the planet. not everytime but most of the time that is what you hear. sorry ladies but its true you took the words right out of my mouth; if the guy was so nice and amazing, you'd still be with him 
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chances are he was like that when you met him but it was over looked, guys dont change! ask women that also, we wont change for the better right? isnt that alot of complaints from women. they say" he wont change" right? so we dont change from the first time you meet us and date us and marry us. so why would you think that we change for the worse
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nice guys finish last. its that simple. women, not all ,but most. will go for the guy that treats them like crap. the guy that treats them like crap is one getting laid. i ll make my point. you ask almost every single mom what she thinks about the father of her baby or even ask the kid what his or her mom thinks about their dad and 9 out of ten times that guy will be the biggest a-hole on the planet. not everytime but most of the time that is what you hear. sorry ladies but its true Assuming this is the truth...I must say the same is true with men then...they will take a girl who treats them like crap and do anything and everything for her like a whipped puppy, but when a real decent woman comes along, he does her dirty!!! Please explain that one.... This all can be especially true if the *itch is considered "beautiful" and the nice girl is only average....but that is not the necessary case... the *itch can be ugly too...in more ways than just physically.... 
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