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rule number 2: only frustrated women ask, where the nice guys are.. Rule number 1: Rules are stupid and serve only to be broken. People are too stupid to live without rules. |
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should be..to live together without rules..
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They are so tired of being slammed for being nice. That's why they haven't showed up here.... And once again....let us clarify "nice" I know there are some guys who claim to be "nice" when in fact, they really aren't....too many in fact....that is very sad and disturbing....
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Interpretation is subjective in almost any personality trait.. I.e. the kidding about the difference of good and nice...
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should be..to live together without rules.. Rules are stupid to begin with, especially when it comes to something that is so completly random like dating or anything to do with people in general. People don't "need" to live together with or without rules, people can sustain life just fine alone. |
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should be..to live together without rules.. Rules are stupid to begin with, especially when it comes to something that is so completly random like dating or anything to do with people in general. People don't "need" to live together with or without rules, people can sustain life just fine alone. I agree that people don't NEED someone to live and be happy....some of us do, however PREFER to be with someone else...someone we can share our lives with. |
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that's the most stupid thing I've heard today. :D People need groups and rules to live in harmony. No one can survive 24/7*365*80years all alone.. |
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^ that's the most stupid thing I've heard today. :D People need groups and rules to live in harmony. No one can survive 24/7*365*80years all alone.. No, they don't. People need food, water, and shelter to live. Harmony doesn't exist anymore except in story books. Hell, Africa is one big group and they seem to be rather miserable. |
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They are so tired of being slammed for being nice. That's why they haven't showed up here.... And once again....let us clarify "nice" I know there are some guys who claim to be "nice" when in fact, they really aren't....too many in fact....that is very sad and disturbing.... what about me? . . . |
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should be..to live together without rules.. Rules are stupid to begin with, especially when it comes to something that is so completly random like dating or anything to do with people in general. People don't "need" to live together with or without rules, people can sustain life just fine alone. I agree that people don't NEED someone to live and be happy....some of us do, however PREFER to be with someone else...someone we can share our lives with. Even if they're not happy? |
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should be..to live together without rules.. Rules are stupid to begin with, especially when it comes to something that is so completly random like dating or anything to do with people in general. People don't "need" to live together with or without rules, people can sustain life just fine alone. I agree that people don't NEED someone to live and be happy....some of us do, however PREFER to be with someone else...someone we can share our lives with. Even if they're not happy? That's my point right there, IndnPrncs, I think a lot of us prefer to be with someone so that we will be happy I know that will make me happy... |
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all the nice guys paired up with all the nice girls yesterday it was like a cosmic event now they are moving to the burbs and ordering catalogs of lawn ornaments. they are helping their nice girls track their ovulation and eagerly watching the calendar and innocuous older sitcoms and "The Simpsons" they're drinking Chai and you know what that means for the rest of us.. |
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If you prefer to be alone, why surfing on the internet? Get to an island and show me you can make it for 1 year all by yourself, without any contact with any people.And I'll be convinced.
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They are so tired of being slammed for being nice. That's why they haven't showed up here.... And once again....let us clarify "nice" I know there are some guys who claim to be "nice" when in fact, they really aren't....too many in fact....that is very sad and disturbing.... what about me? . . . Hey Drew I hope you are well......you and I have had this discussion before (at least in part) ...if I remember correctly, we argued about it over about fifteen emails before calling a truce..... think back to it..... |
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If you prefer to be alone, why surfing on the internet? Get to an island and show me you can make it for 1 year all by yourself, without any contact with any people.And I'll be convinced. I've been doing just fine alone for the past few years...I have plenty of friends in my head to keep me company. |
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should be..to live together without rules.. Rules are stupid to begin with, especially when it comes to something that is so completly random like dating or anything to do with people in general. People don't "need" to live together with or without rules, people can sustain life just fine alone. I agree that people don't NEED someone to live and be happy....some of us do, however PREFER to be with someone else...someone we can share our lives with. Even if they're not happy? That's my point right there, IndnPrncs, I think a lot of us prefer to be with someone so that we will be happy I know that will make me happy... Direct, in my opinion and only my opinion for me.. I don't think anyone can make me happy.. I have to be happy on my own within myself and that special person will enhance that happiness and we'd enjoy our lives together but I feel that if I'm not meant to meet that special person then I will be content and happy with my life and choices as I've made them... |
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Edited by
74Drew
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Mon 07/06/09 11:23 PM
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They are so tired of being slammed for being nice. That's why they haven't showed up here.... And once again....let us clarify "nice" I know there are some guys who claim to be "nice" when in fact, they really aren't....too many in fact....that is very sad and disturbing.... what about me? . . . Hey Drew I hope you are well......you and I have had this discussion before (at least in part) ...if I remember correctly, we argued about it over about fifteen emails before calling a truce..... think back to it..... i thought we had a "discussion" about how physical attraction is important. i don't recall a "discussion" about me being a nice guy. . . . |
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Edited by
directandwrite
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Mon 07/06/09 11:26 PM
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They are so tired of being slammed for being nice. That's why they haven't showed up here.... And once again....let us clarify "nice" I know there are some guys who claim to be "nice" when in fact, they really aren't....too many in fact....that is very sad and disturbing.... what about me? . . . Hey Drew I hope you are well......you and I have had this discussion before (at least in part) ...if I remember correctly, we argued about it over about fifteen emails before calling a truce..... think back to it..... I'll email you...it's easier... i thought we had a "discussion" about how physical attraction is important. i don't recall a "discussion" about me being a nice guy. . . . Oh okay...what the heck.... |
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Direct, in my opinion and only my opinion for me.. I don't think anyone can make me happy.. I have to be happy on my own within myself and that special person will enhance that happiness and we'd enjoy our lives together but I feel that if I'm not meant to meet that special person then I will be content and happy with my life and choices as I've made them...
Prncs... you nailed it on the head. Anytime I have ever linked my happiness to another person, I've ended up miserable. My happiness is with me. Anyone that can add to that, great. If not... well ok. Either way, I'm still left with me in the end, so I have to be happy with me. |
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Someone else can't make you happy,maybe only for a sudden moment.. but sharing a simple moment with someone who you like/love/fun with will be 2 people who are happy, so more hapeniss then being just happy for yourself with yourself and by yourself. :D
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