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Topic: where's all the nice guys
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Mon 07/06/09 11:09 PM


rule number 2: only frustrated women ask, where the nice guys are..


Rule number 1: Rules are stupid and serve only to be broken.smokin


People are too stupid to live without rules.

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Mon 07/06/09 11:10 PM
should be..to live together without rules..

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Mon 07/06/09 11:10 PM
They are so tired of being slammed for being nice. That's why they haven't showed up here.... And once again....let us clarify "nice" I know there are some guys who claim to be "nice" when in fact, they really aren't....too many in fact....that is very sad and disturbing....noway

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Mon 07/06/09 11:11 PM
Interpretation is subjective in almost any personality trait.. I.e. the kidding about the difference of good and nice...

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Mon 07/06/09 11:11 PM

should be..to live together without rules..


Rules are stupid to begin with, especially when it comes to something that is so completly random like dating or anything to do with people in general. People don't "need" to live together with or without rules, people can sustain life just fine alone.smokin

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Mon 07/06/09 11:14 PM


should be..to live together without rules..


Rules are stupid to begin with, especially when it comes to something that is so completly random like dating or anything to do with people in general. People don't "need" to live together with or without rules, people can sustain life just fine alone.smokin



I agree that people don't NEED someone to live and be happy....some of us do, however PREFER to be with someone else...someone we can share our lives with.

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Mon 07/06/09 11:14 PM
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that's the most stupid thing I've heard today. :D People need groups and rules to live in harmony. No one can survive 24/7*365*80years all alone..

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Mon 07/06/09 11:16 PM

^

that's the most stupid thing I've heard today. :D People need groups and rules to live in harmony. No one can survive 24/7*365*80years all alone..


No, they don't. People need food, water, and shelter to live. Harmony doesn't exist anymore except in story books. Hell, Africa is one big group and they seem to be rather miserable.

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Mon 07/06/09 11:17 PM

They are so tired of being slammed for being nice. That's why they haven't showed up here.... And once again....let us clarify "nice" I know there are some guys who claim to be "nice" when in fact, they really aren't....too many in fact....that is very sad and disturbing....noway

what about me?


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Mon 07/06/09 11:18 PM



should be..to live together without rules..


Rules are stupid to begin with, especially when it comes to something that is so completly random like dating or anything to do with people in general. People don't "need" to live together with or without rules, people can sustain life just fine alone.smokin



I agree that people don't NEED someone to live and be happy....some of us do, however PREFER to be with someone else...someone we can share our lives with.


Even if they're not happy?

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Mon 07/06/09 11:19 PM




should be..to live together without rules..


Rules are stupid to begin with, especially when it comes to something that is so completly random like dating or anything to do with people in general. People don't "need" to live together with or without rules, people can sustain life just fine alone.smokin



I agree that people don't NEED someone to live and be happy....some of us do, however PREFER to be with someone else...someone we can share our lives with.


Even if they're not happy?



That's my point right there, IndnPrncs, I think a lot of us prefer to be with someone so that we will be happy I know that will make me happy...

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Mon 07/06/09 11:19 PM


all the nice guys paired up with all the nice girls yesterday
it was like a cosmic event

now they are moving to the burbs and ordering catalogs of
lawn ornaments. they are helping their nice girls track their
ovulation and eagerly watching the calendar and innocuous
older sitcoms and "The Simpsons"

they're drinking Chai



:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


:wink: devil and you know what that means for the rest of us..

devildevildevil

laugh

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Mon 07/06/09 11:21 PM
If you prefer to be alone, why surfing on the internet? Get to an island and show me you can make it for 1 year all by yourself, without any contact with any people.And I'll be convinced.

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Mon 07/06/09 11:21 PM


They are so tired of being slammed for being nice. That's why they haven't showed up here.... And once again....let us clarify "nice" I know there are some guys who claim to be "nice" when in fact, they really aren't....too many in fact....that is very sad and disturbing....noway

what about me?


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Hey Drew waving I hope you are well......you and I have had this discussion before (at least in part) ...if I remember correctly, we argued about it over about fifteen emails before calling a truce..... think back to it..... flowerforyou



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Mon 07/06/09 11:22 PM

If you prefer to be alone, why surfing on the internet? Get to an island and show me you can make it for 1 year all by yourself, without any contact with any people.And I'll be convinced.



I've been doing just fine alone for the past few years...I have plenty of friends in my head to keep me company.smokin

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Mon 07/06/09 11:22 PM





should be..to live together without rules..


Rules are stupid to begin with, especially when it comes to something that is so completly random like dating or anything to do with people in general. People don't "need" to live together with or without rules, people can sustain life just fine alone.smokin



I agree that people don't NEED someone to live and be happy....some of us do, however PREFER to be with someone else...someone we can share our lives with.


Even if they're not happy?



That's my point right there, IndnPrncs, I think a lot of us prefer to be with someone so that we will be happy I know that will make me happy...


Direct, in my opinion and only my opinion for me.. I don't think anyone can make me happy.. I have to be happy on my own within myself and that special person will enhance that happiness and we'd enjoy our lives together but I feel that if I'm not meant to meet that special person then I will be content and happy with my life and choices as I've made them...

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Mon 07/06/09 11:23 PM
Edited by 74Drew on Mon 07/06/09 11:23 PM



They are so tired of being slammed for being nice. That's why they haven't showed up here.... And once again....let us clarify "nice" I know there are some guys who claim to be "nice" when in fact, they really aren't....too many in fact....that is very sad and disturbing....noway

what about me?


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Hey Drew waving I hope you are well......you and I have had this discussion before (at least in part) ...if I remember correctly, we argued about it over about fifteen emails before calling a truce..... think back to it..... flowerforyou




i thought we had a "discussion" about how physical attraction is important.
i don't recall a "discussion" about me being a nice guy.



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Mon 07/06/09 11:26 PM
Edited by directandwrite on Mon 07/06/09 11:26 PM




They are so tired of being slammed for being nice. That's why they haven't showed up here.... And once again....let us clarify "nice" I know there are some guys who claim to be "nice" when in fact, they really aren't....too many in fact....that is very sad and disturbing....noway

what about me?


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Hey Drew waving I hope you are well......you and I have had this discussion before (at least in part) ...if I remember correctly, we argued about it over about fifteen emails before calling a truce..... think back to it..... flowerforyou I'll email you...it's easier...




i thought we had a "discussion" about how physical attraction is important.
i don't recall a "discussion" about me being a nice guy.



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Oh okay...what the heck.... :tongue: :thumbsup:

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Mon 07/06/09 11:26 PM
Direct, in my opinion and only my opinion for me.. I don't think anyone can make me happy.. I have to be happy on my own within myself and that special person will enhance that happiness and we'd enjoy our lives together but I feel that if I'm not meant to meet that special person then I will be content and happy with my life and choices as I've made them...

Prncs... you nailed it on the head. Anytime I have ever linked my happiness to another person, I've ended up miserable.
My happiness is with me. Anyone that can add to that, great. If not... well ok. Either way, I'm still left with me in the end, so I have to be happy with me.

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Mon 07/06/09 11:29 PM
Someone else can't make you happy,maybe only for a sudden moment.. but sharing a simple moment with someone who you like/love/fun with will be 2 people who are happy, so more hapeniss then being just happy for yourself with yourself and by yourself. :D

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