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That's just stupid... And you tell me not to get angry... How is a woman to know that 3 yrs into her marriage her husband is going to try to kill her? A great guy for 4 yrs then all of the sudden he doesn't get what he wants or he feels she cares about her work more than him b/c he's insecure and BAM he tries to choke her to death and throws her around for hours.. YOU tell me PLEASE how she allowed that? EDIT on my part, Indian, ok? Certainly, my previous post has no reference to physical, mental, or emotional abuse. That's a whole different ballgame, hon.  You had NO part in responsibility in that...unless you provoked it, which likely you did not. However, I have experienced that to a certain degree...but, will still never openly "bash" my way long ago "ex" for it. Perhaps it is because he realized he had anger issues and began seeking help for it before he became an "ex". I forgive him for it. He was not well...clearly. No worries Silver I didn't even take it that way at all.. I don't think exes should be bashed... It's one thing to discuss a subject and another to call exes ********.. My point was that it's not "most" womens fault, sometimes they get blindsided but something they never saw.. Perhaps they missed a sign but that in no way means they asked for it or tried to change the guy or even ignored a nice guy for a guy that ends up being bad.. Life is not black and white and men should not assume they even have a clue on what has gone on in a woman's life and make generalized statements that most women do this and most women do that... |
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me
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How about people start taking some responsibility for their own situations? Men and women alike. I blame myself when I take a bite out of a rotten apple, I don't blame the apple. I agree.. I do not blame "most" of a gender either... |
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How about people start taking some responsibility for their own situations? Men and women alike. I blame myself when I take a bite out of a rotten apple, I don't blame the apple. |
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im not trying to make anybody mad im just saying women choose these a holes and wonder where the nice guys are and it makes me laugh 
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me You must have had someone try to change you b/c you've mentioned it a few times... I'll take the good guy over a nice guy any day of the week.. a good guy knows what is an isn't appropriate to say and thinks before he talks and doesn't generalize... |
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But don't you see Racerx....men do the SAME thing!!!!
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But don't you see Racerx....men do the SAME thing!!!! No Direct, he doesn't see.. He can only see what he wants to see.. Otherwise it's most women's fault and women are supposed to have ESP and are always trying to change guys, but not him mind you... 
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me I really mean no offense by this, Racer...and no, I am NOT bashing you, but I truly have a difficult time with others who profess themselves to be "nice". I don't think that is up for us to judge for ourselves. Certainly, I'm a proponent for "positive affirmations" and tooting our own horn at times. However, when it comes to trying to justify and validate our own self-professed "niceness"...I think that should come from others in our personal lives that can accurately provide references. |
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This is what I'm saying though....Racerx...yes...some women are gluttons for punishment....true....and they date azzes....TRUE...but men do the same thing....and they come in here and out in life whining about wanting a good girl...but when they have one right in front of them, they treat the nice kind girl like a dog....maybe because they let the dog treat them poorly in the past or something?? Who knows...the point is, they treat the good girls like crap....so the good girls get treated like crap from the jerks....and also treated like crap by the supposed good guys....where is the fairness in that one???
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i just like bewbies......
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me You must have had someone try to change you b/c you've mentioned it a few times... I'll take the good guy over a nice guy any day of the week.. a good guy knows what is an isn't appropriate to say and thinks before he talks and doesn't generalize... Just a quick note, the human brain remembers things by "generalizing" and putting things into categories, and there is a slew of philosophical papers out there on the matter. Since when did discussing things in a "general" sense become bad? I just made a generalization about people a moment ago and nobody got bothered by that. It's only offensive when you take offense to it. ,the gecko |
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i just like bewbies...... 
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Edited by
racerx767
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Tue 07/07/09 12:51 AM
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me You must have had someone try to change you b/c you've mentioned it a few times... I'll take the good guy over a nice guy any day of the week.. a good guy knows what is an isn't appropriate to say and thinks before he talks and doesn't generalize... i have to say what you think is appropriate even though everything i stated was not only true but SHOWN to be true. look back a page or 2 a couple said their ex was an a hole and one woman said hers were not..... so, MOST of you said your ex was an ahole dont get mad at me |
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me I really mean no offense by this, Racer...and no, I am NOT bashing you, but I truly have a difficult time with others who profess themselves to be "nice". I don't think that is up for us to judge for ourselves. Certainly, I'm a proponent for "positive affirmations" and tooting our own horn at times. However, when it comes to trying to justify and validate our own self-professed "niceness"...I think that should come from others in our personal lives that can accurately provide references. yeah i love it when a guy describes himself as "good looking, caring and nice." i'm like good looking according to who? his mom? and as for nice, nice guys don't make blanket, insulting statements about an entire gender, just because they've had bad experiences with said gender and are now bitter. nice guys accept rejection and bad situations and move the f*** on. just sayin' 
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me You must have had someone try to change you b/c you've mentioned it a few times... I'll take the good guy over a nice guy any day of the week.. a good guy knows what is an isn't appropriate to say and thinks before he talks and doesn't generalize... Just a quick note, the human brain remembers things by "generalizing" and putting things into categories, and there is a slew of philosophical papers out there on the matter. Since when did discussing things in a "general" sense become bad? I just made a generalization about people a moment ago and nobody got bothered by that. It's only offensive when you take offense to it. ,the gecko I do not like nor have I ever liked it.. If those you made the generalization to didn't care that's their thing.. As you notice in here every woman has an issue with it in this case not just me... The Princess.... |
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me I really mean no offense by this, Racer...and no, I am NOT bashing you, but I truly have a difficult time with others who profess themselves to be "nice". I don't think that is up for us to judge for ourselves. Certainly, I'm a proponent for "positive affirmations" and tooting our own horn at times. However, when it comes to trying to justify and validate our own self-professed "niceness"...I think that should come from others in our personal lives that can accurately provide references. Wow, I really like you. Here's another flower
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I need some popcorn...this is starting to get good...
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me I really mean no offense by this, Racer...and no, I am NOT bashing you, but I truly have a difficult time with others who profess themselves to be "nice". I don't think that is up for us to judge for ourselves. Certainly, I'm a proponent for "positive affirmations" and tooting our own horn at times. However, when it comes to trying to justify and validate our own self-professed "niceness"...I think that should come from others in our personal lives that can accurately provide references. yeah i love it when a guy describes himself as "good looking, caring and nice." i'm like good looking according to who? his mom? and as for nice, nice guys don't make blanket, insulting statements about an entire gender, just because they've had bad experiences with said gender and are now bitter. nice guys accept rejection and bad situations and move the f*** on. just sayin' good guys...  It's useless Calleigh.... |
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me You must have had someone try to change you b/c you've mentioned it a few times... I'll take the good guy over a nice guy any day of the week.. a good guy knows what is an isn't appropriate to say and thinks before he talks and doesn't generalize... Just a quick note, the human brain remembers things by "generalizing" and putting things into categories, and there is a slew of philosophical papers out there on the matter. Since when did discussing things in a "general" sense become bad? I just made a generalization about people a moment ago and nobody got bothered by that. It's only offensive when you take offense to it. ,the gecko I do not like nor have I ever liked it.. If those you made the generalization to didn't care that's their thing.. As you notice in here every woman has an issue with it in this case not just me... The Princess.... Don't look now princess, but you just made a generalization. |
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