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| Topic: Do you really believe there is someone for everyone? | |
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oh I believe it...I just think my one is in hiding (in the witness protection program)   either that or Joy is hiding him under her bed...i hear she is that way  Now Kim, I can't use them all.... |
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Joy....haven't you gotten the memo??? use them and abuse them....just ask Krupa...he'll tell ya
but at least throw ME a bone here
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Well if you look at it from a logical standpoint. I would say no. The man to woman ratio says otherwise. From a personal standpoint. I dunno if there is someone out there for me specifically but it is nice to hope and have fun anyway.
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Or is that simply a line we feed to ourselves and others to make people feel better, give them false sense of hope? Is it just as likely some are condemned to live a life alone either by themselves or a higher power as some sort of punishment for past actions? I am on the fence on this one. I suppose a sense of hope, even a false one, is better than no hope at all. I think some are meant to be alone simply b/c they make it too difficult to accept someone long term.. some need a sense of hope and there's nothing wrong with that... whatever gets one through the day as long as it's not hurting anyone else... I am fully aware that there may not be anyone for me and that I am mainly responsible for that... I'm ok with it b/c "if" it's meant to be it will be, I won't settle just to be with someone... But Princess, it's too late for me to cancel our plane tickets to that Caribbean Island! Just kidding! Tickets are to the Fiji Islands! Princess, you know I love ya! 
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Kim just tell me which one you want and I'll throw him to ya..
I'm sure a lot of men would agree with Krupa... ((Poet)) How'd you know I wanted to go there???  love ya too darlin'...
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Joy...I want that one...and that one...and this one...oh, and that one over there...and....
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I'll send them right over...
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Joy....I have coupons
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of course there is someone for everyone......thats why you keep moving on to the next one
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Sometimes I think a person can get set in their ways and may not feel comfortable thinking about finding "the one". They may not want to make the adjustment that it would make to their lives. That is sad in a way for everyone should feel what it feels like to find and keep "the one". As for me, the years keep piling up and "the one" is still out there. I may be set in my ways, but if I did find "the one", I would certainly not let her go for all she would have to do is put her hand in mine and everything would become beautiful!
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There is a world full of people out there. If you aren't with someone, then it's because you choose not to be. We set our own parameters, in life. We draw lines, circles, and even build walls. It's a defense mechanism. As far as i'm concerned, i really don't care, and i can say that honestly. I am content, because i've learned to be.  Would i like to be with someone? well yeah..but being alone is not going to kill me, my constitution is much stronger than that. My daddy told me, "happiness is a state of mind" I was too young to understand that, but i know now, what he meant. Good luck out there. |
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There is a world full of people out there. If you aren't with someone, then it's because you choose not to be. We set our own parameters, in life. We draw lines, circles, and even build walls. It's a defense mechanism. As far as i'm concerned, i really don't care, and i can say that honestly. I am content, because i've learned to be. Would i like to be with someone? well yeah..but being alone is not going to kill me, my constitution is much stronger than that. My daddy told me, "happiness is a state of mind" I was too young to understand that, but i know now, what he meant. Good luck out there. Well said ((Mark)) |
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Or is that simply a line we feed to ourselves and others to make people feel better, give them false sense of hope? Is it just as likely some are condemned to live a life alone either by themselves or a higher power as some sort of punishment for past actions? I am on the fence on this one. I suppose a sense of hope, even a false one, is better than no hope at all. Here's my problem with this idea: If there really IS someone for everyone, then that requires that there be someone or something in charge of making the determination of who is supposed to be for who. (Completely apart from the issue of whether or not the people in question ever actually find each other -- that's another matter entirely.) As I've seen no evidence of there being any sort of supernatural mystical match agency (hey, there's an idea: Mystical Match! Can we do that?), I just don't see any reason to believe in the "someone for everybody" scenario. I see it more as one of those platitudes that people fall back on for some kind of comfort: "It'll turn up when you're not looking" (demonstrably untrue) or "It'll turn up at the right time" (same problem as above -- who's determining the "right time"? -- and WHY should we trust "them," particularly since the most likely probability is that "they" don't even exist!) -- In the past I would have said "Yes-there is someone for everyone" but as time goes on I'm leaning more toward what Lex is saying- it makes sense.... |
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“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
-Rumi |
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Lex: The problem arises if one believes 'there is a reason for everything'..hence God is in charge of all the little quirks in our lives from birth to death aside from the free will actions we commit on each other for good and bad. Yeah, this comes up from time to time with "is there a reason for everything?" and "do you believe in karma?" and topics of this nature. See, I just can't accept any of that. It requires that one believe in someone/something being in charge of making decisions, balances, etc., and that's too much like religion/mythology/superstition for me. I mean, OK, it COULD be that there is, in fact, someone for everybody. My own experiences and observations would tend to debunk the idea. Doesn't mean it's wrong, necessarily, just that I have no frame of reference which allows for such a belief. Now I believe God created this world, and occasionally gets involved to prevent us from blowing this world up, but other than that I'm thinking the Sims game. Set it and forget it. Well, I certainly can't prove otherwise; I just don't see anything that indicates that's the true explanation. |
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Or is that simply a line we feed to ourselves and others to make people feel better, give them false sense of hope? Is it just as likely some are condemned to live a life alone either by themselves or a higher power as some sort of punishment for past actions? I am on the fence on this one. I suppose a sense of hope, even a false one, is better than no hope at all. I think some are meant to be alone simply b/c they make it too difficult to accept someone long term.. some need a sense of hope and there's nothing wrong with that... whatever gets one through the day as long as it's not hurting anyone else... I am fully aware that there may not be anyone for me and that I am mainly responsible for that... I'm ok with it b/c "if" it's meant to be it will be, I won't settle just to be with someone... Don't worry. You still have me :D |
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Or is that simply a line we feed to ourselves and others to make people feel better, give them false sense of hope? Is it just as likely some are condemned to live a life alone either by themselves or a higher power as some sort of punishment for past actions? I am on the fence on this one. I suppose a sense of hope, even a false one, is better than no hope at all. I think some are meant to be alone simply b/c they make it too difficult to accept someone long term.. some need a sense of hope and there's nothing wrong with that... whatever gets one through the day as long as it's not hurting anyone else... I am fully aware that there may not be anyone for me and that I am mainly responsible for that... I'm ok with it b/c "if" it's meant to be it will be, I won't settle just to be with someone... Don't worry. You still have me :D Aww thanks sweetie...  How are you? I haven't seen you in forever....
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I sure hope so...I like having somone of my own to hug and squeeze and take care of
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Or is that simply a line we feed to ourselves and others to make people feel better, give them false sense of hope? Is it just as likely some are condemned to live a life alone either by themselves or a higher power as some sort of punishment for past actions? I am on the fence on this one. I suppose a sense of hope, even a false one, is better than no hope at all. I think some are meant to be alone simply b/c they make it too difficult to accept someone long term.. some need a sense of hope and there's nothing wrong with that... whatever gets one through the day as long as it's not hurting anyone else... I am fully aware that there may not be anyone for me and that I am mainly responsible for that... I'm ok with it b/c "if" it's meant to be it will be, I won't settle just to be with someone... Don't worry. You still have me :D Aww thanks sweetie... How are you? I haven't seen you in forever.... I'm ok. Havnt been on the forums much. I am usually on mingle everyday. Checking my empty inbox. Lol..how have you been beautiful? Still beating away men with that stick? |
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