Guess what...I went to the club for the first time ever and got turned down 5 times in a row. The first one that turned me down winked at my brother as soon as she got done with me. And about now I am desprate, lonely and pathetic. I never had a girlfriend my whole life while my brother is still trying to get chicks off him. And my sister is a lesbian and she gets more women than both of us. In fact I started looking at Carl from Aqua Teen Hunger Force as a friend and somebody I can relate to. Hell I'm probably close to looking like him. I just gotta gain some weight and lose some hair. In fact I think Im gonna try to do that. Then we can sit thare and talk about how our failures prosper. Then we'll get drunk and watch a bunch of pornos (And I got a LOT of em') But my question is why do me and Carl have such rotten luck with women? We know we're not the best looking things in the world but damn! We can't even get the scariest looking chicks with the most screwed up minds. We use all types of game from taught to made up but we just are no good.

No offense Isaiah but do you think you're the only guy with that problem? Maybe a different tactic is needed...

if you're not good at 'game' then just stop - be yourself and eventually you'll find her - stay positive

I would have danced with you........

but Im too old for you......

Well honestly...I think you need to change some of those pictures, they are kind of scary looking. Plus if it were me, I would be a little bit more positive in your profile, you seem a bit negative. Women don't like negative men. So change those pics and work on that profile and then you are good to go.

Ouit running game and try being truthful. Are you looking to have a couple chicks that you have to beat off with a stick or a meaningful relationship. Be careful what you wish for dude.

First, drop the negative attitude, girls are repulsed by that.

Second, quit hanging around high maintenence girls unless you want to get trapped with one. If they blow you off then they aren't worth the trouble to chase.

Third, mm, I wasn't looking to make a list but oh well, you're a good lookign guy. Haven't read your profile and not going to b/c I'm lazy, but if you have anything going for you at all, all you have to do is find a respectable place (where do the college girls hang out?) and just walk up to one and say "hi" with no other agenda than to get to know someone and have a friend. Once you meet one person, they probably know a lot of people at the bar/coffehouse/resturant/bookstore/etc. that they can introduce you to, and if you hit if off with someone, cool. If not, you got a lot of good friends who have friends who have friends [you see where I'm going with this?] and the more people you meet, the better your chances for finding someone well suited.

...or just buy a 350Z, lol

Woh! That was a lot of replys real quick. But that's just it. Eventually I started telling the truth and that turned them away even quicker. And wht negitiveity. People always say I'm negitive but I don't know what they are talking about. And I don't know about good looking. Somehow I doubt it. Sometimes I think What would James Bond Do?

"what negativity?"

When you read what you write it sounds like you dont think much of yourself. People are attracted to people who are confident so it will help you to act as though you think you are attractive to all women. If you act like that for a while you will begin to believe it. Then others will be attracted to that. Beleive me it works

Luck

I'm sorry your first time ever at a club was so traumatic.

A little behind the gun, I must say, since I started sneaking into clubs when I was 15, but to each his own, I guess.

when I was a kid my dad told me

"99% of the women you approach are gonna turn you down. You have to get through those 99 women to find the one"

just keep on keepin on and dont let the rejection get you down. It's normal

ummmmmm

this one might scare em off

Dang, is that % number higher for gals? I think I passed 200 2 weeks ago.

OMG is that pic on his profile? with the eyes? Im scared to look now.. creepyyy.

Anyway, yeah, everyone gets turned down alot, ya just keep gin til u meet someone nice thats all. Youll meet someone nice, just takes time.

And the pics of swords and guns just might freak a few women out too.
Just sayin'

no shirt,no shoes,no service. be seeing you

I turn down women all the time

Actually, if it was less grainy and photo shopped better so the red looked more 'natural'.....

The pic I would recommend getting rid of would be the one w/ the gun. On the other hand, a better picture of the Katana would be good. It's a bit to far away to see too well. Maybe nicely displayed.

The profile is a bit down on yourself.

First, you did 5 approaches in a single night. This is GREAT! Most guys don't do any.

My best advice for you is simple. When you approch a woman smile, stand up straight and speak clearly. Don't invest too much in the interaction. Just say hello and try to have a 2 or three minute conversation and leave with her thinking you are a cool guy. Oh, and introduce yourself and shake hands. Be playful.

If your brother is really so good with women go out with him and pay attention to how he does things. Don't copy him, but do learn from him.

Flirting is an art. You have to learn to pull someone in while pushing them away at the same time. This creats sexual tention. Saying things like "You are very attractive. Maybe you should stand on the other side of the room" in a playful way is a good example of this.