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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Mon 06/29/09 10:15 PM
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Guess what...I went to the club for the first time ever and got turned down 5 times in a row. The first one that turned me down winked at my brother as soon as she got done with me. And about now I am desprate, lonely and pathetic. I never had a girlfriend my whole life while my brother is still trying to get chicks off him. And my sister is a lesbian and she gets more women than both of us. In fact I started looking at Carl from Aqua Teen Hunger Force as a friend and somebody I can relate to. Hell I'm probably close to looking like him. I just gotta gain some weight and lose some hair. In fact I think Im gonna try to do that. Then we can sit thare and talk about how our failures prosper. Then we'll get drunk and watch a bunch of pornos (And I got a LOT of em') But my question is why do me and Carl have such rotten luck with women? We know we're not the best looking things in the world but damn! We can't even get the scariest looking chicks with the most screwed up minds. We use all types of game from taught to made up but we just are no good. Sounds like you're rushing things ... I went out the first time in my life when i was 16. Asking out 5 women in one night would be too much for me. When I'm in a mood, I maybe talk to one..otherwise I BS with the guys. If i could count how many women turned me down since I was 15, i would go nuts.. It bothered me in my early 20s..but later it sorta motivates me to try even harder..trying to find out why I was turned down. Sometimes it was obvious and the most common is the girl having a boyfriend, other times they just weren't out dating or there were times they were lesbians. You supposed to get used to it so well to be turned down, that you should be able to just brush it off within seconds. On the other hand, as i said, being turned down motivates me and makes me curious and I become a reluctant SOB and if i really like the woman I try multiple times and only stop when i see she is actually frustrated, because some of them likes to play hard to get games. Lately, like the past 5yrs..I don't feel like messing around and if I'm in the mood, I rather just want to talk about stuff, but no more. And don't ever get desperate, I seen guys going around bumping into women to ask them for dance and being turned down immediately...because they are actually going around and other women seeing it what he is doing. And as you know, women likes to go out in pairs or more..so you jump right into their conversation and trying to pull one away, they get defensive or feel being disturbed. I usually just ask them if they'd like to have a drink and eventually just start talking. You gotta know when they are interested meeting someone, or just out to have some fun and go home. Either way you could talk to them, and don't treat them like a piece of meet on a market, that's all. |
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One more thing I'd like to add. These women are not rejecting you. They don't know you well enough to reject you. They are rejecting your approach. Change the way you approach and you will get a differant result. It's not rejection, it's feedback.
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Well honestly...I think you need to change some of those pictures, they are kind of scary looking. Plus if it were me, I would be a little bit more positive in your profile, you seem a bit negative. Women don't like negative men. So change those pics and work on that profile and then you are good to go. i agree about the pics |
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but Im too old for you...... your not to old for me!!!! wanna dance? |
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