oh...I meant that in the most unpleasant way lol

I can imagine. I think its late there so a glass of red and into bed sounds like a good plan..bye

Hi Princess, Gypsy and Mirror
Thanks for the comments. There are a bunch of nice people here.

Encouraging indeed d&w...and its nice that people stay to chat. I hope your day is going well...

*chuckle* No it means...this is a strange question for a dating site x

new love
you love your partner a little more every day. You worry about their little flaws and wonder what they might be.

old love
you love your partner a little more every day. You know about their little flaws and love them even more for them.

I just ate cod

"what negativity?"

When you read what you write it sounds like you dont think much of yourself. People are attracted to people who are confident so it will help you to act as though you think you are attractive to all women. If you act like that for a while you will begin to believe it. Then others will be attracted to that. Beleive me it works

Luck

Its not my job to entertain women...if Im funny its cause I find something funny. I try not to compete with other lads and in truth 98% of women have made their choice before a word is spoken. Anyone think I'm wrong?

innocent

Nice guys are rare and, according to this thread, often not seen by women. This is because they are unlikely to get in your face. Decent men have thought through lifes relationship issues and do not define themselves by the attention they receive from women. They define themselves by their own acheivements.
Have you wondered why women are so often in a relationship crisis when they are with men who are not shy or reserved...the one that swept her off her feet...the one who bullies her relentlessly with emotional games and controlling behaviour...the one who screwed three of her friends then begged to be able to come back? Because those men need the attention of women to feel fulfilled. They throw themselves at women (which adds to the illusion that nice guys are not there). Men who are that needy are unlikely to have considered how to actually make a relationship work. They are also unlikey to have a great deal to offer once they have chalked up another conquest.
Nice guys may appear gay or taken because they dont pursue women the way that women have become used to from the needy tools. They are not gay and they are too clever to be taken ("owned"). They dont throw themselves at women because nice guys are capable of living life for itself and not for their partner. They are not dependent on the emotional crutch of a relationship.
Nice guys are are rare and sought after. They are the coolest people on the planet.

Sending out an "I love you"

to myself

and anyone who missed getting one today

Worst thing to start with
"I've been watching you for some time now..."

Worst thing to end with
"...so what do you think..should I go back to him or not?"

heya Billy...sounds like you've had a rough time! Thats when ya gotta go fishin! (Take a nice beer wench with u)

thanks all for saying hi. this seems like an awesome joint! look forward to chatting with you all. xx

bwahahaha! sorry txs sun lol....I didnt even read the profile. I was just looking at the lovely animal pics!

Heya Ike.
You are one of the good looking lads and are very lucky for that. To most others here this would be obvious so your question is confusing. But I know how, particularly after a series of let downs or relationship blows, you can lose track of who you are and how you are perceived....I understand that feeling and I dont see your question as an indicator of lost self esteem....just lost self awareness..
Try this....go to a bar. Any nice bar nearby. Lots of handsome lads with good looking girls yeah? Now do this slowly and deliberately. Look at the guy nearest you closely. Rate him for looks. Be honest. Seen in isolation he can appear very different to how he appears in a group. Now do it with his mate. Then others. You will soon see that yoiu are in the top 10% of attractive people there. The trick is to look at people as individuals rather than a single amorphous threatening mob.
When you start to see yourself how you really are on the outside..then you can start checking out inside..

I dont know that its too useful to recall times when I was treated badly. Its far more useful to recall times when I treated someone badly. Then I can learn and grow. If I give it enough attention I may one day become someone who is worthy of spending my life with a person who has a good heart

great quote and good point jb.
Personally I am put off by profiles that demand "..must be able to make me laugh.."
I am funny as heck in real life. But I am not here to find someone that I have to entertain. If you want to attract a lad put "..I will make you laugh.." on your profile..

Hi all. I just wanted to check in and meet some people. I'm keen to meet anyone from around the world. I'm just into making friends and having fun. Write to me if you would like...I'd love to hear from you. (PS I'm straight but happy to also meet interesting and intelligent guys)