like i said,

"Bashing on me"

what does that mean to you winx?

or is the important question...."What does 'bashing on me' mean to me?"

because it doesnt mean what you took

stop reading and hearing what you want and start seeing and listening to what it really is

You "stop reading and hearing what you want and start seeing and listening to what it really is" and read and hear what the woman are saying about their feelings about safety issues instead of telling them that they are wrong.

I know what "bashing on me" means.

you really think i am telling them that they are wrong worrying about their safety?

why in the world would i do that?

i love people winx

i truly do...i love everyone on here...i do...i care about all of you...when i see somebody sad i send them a message with a flower in it....when i see a new person come in via the new members section i say hi.......you make me out to be this guy who wants you to go out and meet stalkers

and that is exactly the opposite approach to my thread

i was just saying...maybe ya'll be safer if you didnt trust what they said via online either....look back at the original post and you'll see it.

if not i can point it out for you

original post:

So I have noticed some trends while being single -- and I am asking you ladies to answer this one for me:

Why do you need to get to no one someone better "via" online before you give out your number?



What am I going to do? Search your number to find out where you live? Cuz...I mean I think being online has much more resources....ya know?

Or...is it a...."he's not good enough to have my number" thing?

Is that part of a bunch of hurdles we have to cross?

Because if it is, its the hardest...everything else after getting your number is EASY :)

there ya go -- just showing ya in bold so i dont yell at you

see? trying to help you ladies

show ya maybe from a mans view what we see

so you might succeed next time

as to dudes blackberry thing -- you use the internet on your blackberry man....

and maybe dude threw in that "im paranoid" "im frustrated" because he knew i was right and he knew i was trying to help u guys out

and he didnt like it...lol

he just wanted to help u guys get pissed at me

for me if i talk on here i can tell right away about giving my number. the real guy comes out on the phone better then on the net. that is when you know he is a little (loopy)being nice. and just tell him you dont want to talk to him again. and if he does just dont answer. even the crazy one give up after awhile and find someone else. stalker are all over. just listen to the voice in the back of your head and you will life well

thank you

yeppers

You just have to realize that not everyone is going to think the same as you. If some don't want to give out their numbers right away, that's fine. If you want to talk on the phone with people rather than online, go for it. Not everyone is going to, though.