So I really didn't know what to name the thread.
But I figured I'd post it anyhow and get in on all the rough housing and what not.
Become (part of the gang) haha.
I really don't know though.
I guess I'm trying to find a way to meet new people who aren't creepy, way too old, and conceited.
For some reason guys think that they can just up and order you around.
Or tell you they have interest in you and when you want to meet them they just post pone it.
I am sure I can take being putting off alittle. But it's not called 'Minglewhenyoufeellikeit.com'
You know?
And when you're interested in one person and want to see if it'll go any further..
You kinda wait and see what they want to do.
Or atleast I do just because I'm respectful like that.
?But I'm not gonna wait around for weeks.
But hey.. If you feel you can put some good words in here.
Or help me out alittle.
LEt me know!
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Hmmmmmmmmmmm when I was 21 I didnt need any internet to get a guy...........wassssssssssssssup people???

I don't need the internet it's just I'm not a real big drinker so I don't go to bars. I don't go clubbing because you won't find the real material there. And I don't go to 'mixers' cause I'm not that old yet. I get out and experience life I just don't meet the right guys.

And what's with attacking?
Can't you simply add in helpful information or not comment at all?

Evidently you are looking for a country man and finding country flakes! Sometimes the grass in our home range isn't exactly as green as we would like it. Ya just got to be patient because there is no such thing as instant gratification.

that wasnt an attack. Sorry if you felt it was. I was just wondering whats up with people so young and not finding love?>

Take that stuff out about "can and have been taken advantage of". And you say you expect little in return. That's an advertisement for abusers.
Best wishes!!

I see nothing surprising.
I guess it's the 21st. century. I've seen people talking on the cell phone to each other in the same house. Civilization is overrated.

I know what you mean, Atlantis...I freaked the first time I saw my 19yr old neice & her friends texting eachother...IN THE SAME ROOM! I mean...WTF???

I was at a nice restaurant with a friend and my kid. At the table next to us was a father and son. They must have uttered only a few words to each other the whole time. They were both sitting there texting away to others instead of talking with each other!! I wondered if they even tasted their food they were so busy texting!!

Actually, you have to be pretty desperate to be on these online dating sites...expecting to find "love". Because honestly, I feel stupid for believing anything I read on this (or any site) is true. Anyone could easily post any picture they want to, and say ANYTHING they want as well. Furthermore, why are we lowering our standards? Girls, if a guy has enough time to mess around with this, or any other site, just think about what else he might be spending his time on. Just my two cents. This whole internet dating thing is a joke! The only guy I'd be interested in on here is a guy who "doesn't belong" on here. As confusing as that sounds, it makes sense! Good luck anyways.

that isn't much different than in real life. people are people whether it's online or real life

But yet you are on here? This is a dating site afterall.

I am here for friends. That's it! Notice I said, "expecting to find love". AND, people in real life atleast look like what they really do look like IN REAL LIFE. No hiding that. ALSO, online guys can seem real cool, but in person they may be real weird! Which explains why they're on here trying to find a date.

Most people on are here are not desperate.

Nobody is lowering their standards. Many of us don't go to bars so this is the next best way to meet people.

That is so not true. I have met some very nice people online. They even looked better then their pics.

Seriously i dont get all this

Most people on here ARE DESPERATE, and not every guy or girl that hangs out at a bar is a drunk or bad person. Also, there are lots of other places to meet people in the world.

Seriously i dont get all this

and yet again...you are here?

I shoot pool all the time. I have made great friends on here and in the real world. I assure you I'm not desperate. Just like the real world...if it happens, it happens.

there are idiots and liars in the real world as with online. the only difference is...in the real world...you see what they look like in person immediately. Not everyone lies about who they are.

sort of a sad way to think IMO