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OC pooped his pants!
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na didnt do that moof |
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Thanks for the kind/thoughtful words Andy...but I'm not messed up! I've been through a lot, and I've learned a lot. You want to see messed up, meet my siblings. I'm actually the normal one. Let's not get into psychology here. Because if you only knew what I've been through...and I'm far from being messed up because of it. My family fell apart, My father became a Born Again Christian and not one of the nice ones, one of the weird freaky ones, and on top pf that he was the most manipulative bastards I ever knew. I could tell you abuse stories that would make you probably cry but that was in the past. The toughest thing about wisdom is the cost it comes to us sometimes. I agree about leaving out the psychology because my last GF was a MFT. I really got human nature down pretty good. I did really good in that subject in college. One of my friends has two sisters and both are HARD core tweakers. She is the normal on in her family as well. I got another friend who is in his Fear and Loathing stage and his family is dysfunction incarnate. I am not assuming you are messed up, just off course. I think what has people here so riled up is your presentation of your argument. Trust me. I wish to GOD I still had friends who would go with me to Dockweiler Beach and have a bon fire at night roasting hot dogs in the sand or pick around in the tide pools at Palos Verdes. Everything changes and sometimes the changes work against us. Some of us are likewise in my same boat where our social lives evaporated and now we adapt as best we can. Online is not exactly as exciting as meeting people up front immediately but it is better than going crazy in loneliness. Nothing is sane, normal is not normal, and people are people, good bad, and otherwise. I started out by saying SOME PEOPLE on here. NOT EVERYONE. SO for anyone on this thread to get made at me for stating my opinion, that's their fault. I'm not a mean person, I was just getting my thought out there. For what it's worth, I'm sorry for making you or anyone else mad. I'm a writer. I like writing. And I like good debates. But honestly, I just stated my opinion, not expecting it to really be noticed. I've only posted 180 or so times. And usually when I do, not much is said back. So I didn't expect this time to be any different. You said, "Actually, you have to be pretty desperate to be on these online dating sites..." ....EXPECTING TO FIND LOVE. Doesn't mean you won't find love, doesn't mean you CAN'T find love,...it just means, you can't EXPECT TO! I'm very careful about how I say things. I'm not stupid. |
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and chevy I hid all of it
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So I really didn't know what to name the thread. But I figured I'd post it anyhow and get in on all the rough housing and what not. Become (part of the gang) haha. I really don't know though. I guess I'm trying to find a way to meet new people who aren't creepy, way too old, and conceited. For some reason guys think that they can just up and order you around. Or tell you they have interest in you and when you want to meet them they just post pone it. I am sure I can take being putting off alittle. But it's not called 'Minglewhenyoufeellikeit.com' You know? And when you're interested in one person and want to see if it'll go any further.. You kinda wait and see what they want to do. Or atleast I do just because I'm respectful like that. ?But I'm not gonna wait around for weeks. But hey.. If you feel you can put some good words in here. Or help me out alittle. LEt me know! ::signhelp:: "I guess I'm trying to find a way to meet new people who aren't creepy, way too old, and conceited." And yet, you are here...on the internet no less. It doesn't get easier online, hell, it is harder. Not only do you have to know them before you meet the next Dahmer or Gein but now you have to read into what they write, find the "white lies" in what they type...this is by far harder than doing that face to face, not only that but now you have the ability to cross-check them to other people...oh! Now it gets interesting, what do other people think of him/her, bad news? Asshole? Or, just maybe, he/she is perfect? As if perfection actually existed in mankind, right? There is absolutely no luxory to coming on a friendship/dating site that can't be equally enjoyed within the same perspective in the "outside" world. Only difference here is it is easier to drop someone off and not feel bad about it, probably what you have come across...we all have, either get used to it or hit the bar. |
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well said my friend
fear how ya doing 
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well said my friend fear how ya doing I'm still alive, how about you bud?
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well I learned I am a idiot and have no life,and no pretty much nothing lol
all from one person besides that I am good,just working and trying to make it |
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well I learned I am a idiot and have no life,and no pretty much nothing lol all from one person besides that I am good,just working and trying to make it Damn! From one person? Wonder what they have to say about my idiotic greatness.  Sounds good bro, all we can do anymore.
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Idiot- A foolish or stupid person.
You have to be pretty stupid to argue with me!  |
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Idiot- A foolish or stupid person. You have to be pretty stupid to argue with me! Oh, oh...I wanna try!
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Thanks for the kind/thoughtful words Andy...but I'm not messed up! I've been through a lot, and I've learned a lot. You want to see messed up, meet my siblings. I'm actually the normal one. Let's not get into psychology here. Because if you only knew what I've been through...and I'm far from being messed up because of it. My family fell apart, My father became a Born Again Christian and not one of the nice ones, one of the weird freaky ones, and on top pf that he was the most manipulative bastards I ever knew. I could tell you abuse stories that would make you probably cry but that was in the past. The toughest thing about wisdom is the cost it comes to us sometimes. I agree about leaving out the psychology because my last GF was a MFT. I really got human nature down pretty good. I did really good in that subject in college. One of my friends has two sisters and both are HARD core tweakers. She is the normal on in her family as well. I got another friend who is in his Fear and Loathing stage and his family is dysfunction incarnate. I am not assuming you are messed up, just off course. I think what has people here so riled up is your presentation of your argument. Trust me. I wish to GOD I still had friends who would go with me to Dockweiler Beach and have a bon fire at night roasting hot dogs in the sand or pick around in the tide pools at Palos Verdes. Everything changes and sometimes the changes work against us. Some of us are likewise in my same boat where our social lives evaporated and now we adapt as best we can. Online is not exactly as exciting as meeting people up front immediately but it is better than going crazy in loneliness. Nothing is sane, normal is not normal, and people are people, good bad, and otherwise. I started out by saying SOME PEOPLE on here. NOT EVERYONE. SO for anyone on this thread to get made at me for stating my opinion, that's their fault. I'm not a mean person, I was just getting my thought out there. For what it's worth, I'm sorry for making you or anyone else mad. I'm a writer. I like writing. And I like good debates. But honestly, I just stated my opinion, not expecting it to really be noticed. I've only posted 180 or so times. And usually when I do, not much is said back. So I didn't expect this time to be any different. You said, "Actually, you have to be pretty desperate to be on these online dating sites..." ....EXPECTING TO FIND LOVE. Doesn't mean you won't find love, doesn't mean you CAN'T find love,...it just means, you can't EXPECT TO! I'm very careful about how I say things. I'm not stupid. You said, "You have to be pretty desperate to be on these online dating sites" and more. |
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Idiot- A foolish or stupid person. You have to be pretty stupid to argue with me! Unless you pooped your pants, at which point we wouldn't have to argue with you in the first place!
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Idiot- A foolish or stupid person. You have to be pretty stupid to argue with me! Oh, oh...I wanna try! I love it when these people come on,makes it so much fun |
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Thanks for the kind/thoughtful words Andy...but I'm not messed up! I've been through a lot, and I've learned a lot. You want to see messed up, meet my siblings. I'm actually the normal one. Let's not get into psychology here. Because if you only knew what I've been through...and I'm far from being messed up because of it. My family fell apart, My father became a Born Again Christian and not one of the nice ones, one of the weird freaky ones, and on top pf that he was the most manipulative bastards I ever knew. I could tell you abuse stories that would make you probably cry but that was in the past. The toughest thing about wisdom is the cost it comes to us sometimes. I agree about leaving out the psychology because my last GF was a MFT. I really got human nature down pretty good. I did really good in that subject in college. One of my friends has two sisters and both are HARD core tweakers. She is the normal on in her family as well. I got another friend who is in his Fear and Loathing stage and his family is dysfunction incarnate. I am not assuming you are messed up, just off course. I think what has people here so riled up is your presentation of your argument. Trust me. I wish to GOD I still had friends who would go with me to Dockweiler Beach and have a bon fire at night roasting hot dogs in the sand or pick around in the tide pools at Palos Verdes. Everything changes and sometimes the changes work against us. Some of us are likewise in my same boat where our social lives evaporated and now we adapt as best we can. Online is not exactly as exciting as meeting people up front immediately but it is better than going crazy in loneliness. Nothing is sane, normal is not normal, and people are people, good bad, and otherwise. I started out by saying SOME PEOPLE on here. NOT EVERYONE. SO for anyone on this thread to get made at me for stating my opinion, that's their fault. I'm not a mean person, I was just getting my thought out there. For what it's worth, I'm sorry for making you or anyone else mad. I'm a writer. I like writing. And I like good debates. But honestly, I just stated my opinion, not expecting it to really be noticed. I've only posted 180 or so times. And usually when I do, not much is said back. So I didn't expect this time to be any different. You said, "Actually, you have to be pretty desperate to be on these online dating sites..." ....EXPECTING TO FIND LOVE. Doesn't mean you won't find love, doesn't mean you CAN'T find love,...it just means, you can't EXPECT TO! I'm very careful about how I say things. I'm not stupid. You said, "You have to be pretty desperate to be on these online dating sites" and more. Okay, I will quote myself. "You have to be pretty desperate to be on these dating sites...expecting to find love." |
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I think I am going to go hunt EMOs tonight. Got my EMO whomping stick, night vision, and EMO bag. The limit is two in one night in California but I hear there is no limit in Texas.
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Idiot- A foolish or stupid person. You have to be pretty stupid to argue with me! Oh, oh...I wanna try! BRING IT! 
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Recap of argument: "I've been through hell in my life!" ahh...really?
I don't care what you have been through, you are not starving to death like millions in Africa or dying from HIV at the age of eight. You were not working in a factory at 11 for pennies on a dollar, which was supposed to last you that entire day...that's right, here, have a nickel and make it through life on that wage. You don't have to dodge bullets, car bombs, or artillery. And furthermore, you don't have to deal with death constantly and all the while wondering when and if you will be next. You have the luxory of tomorrow, a lot of people do not. I'm not even going to bring to the table the lucrative amount of **** that has been handed to me in my short life, I won't even bother...I stand, I lived through it, and I will not use it as a bullet proof vest to those that want to shove their life around like a holy grail. |
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Recap of argument: "I've been through hell in my life!" ahh...really? I don't care what you have been through, you are not starving to death like millions in Africa or dying from HIV at the age of eight. You were not working in a factory at 11 for pennies on a dollar, which was supposed to last you that entire day...that's right, here, have a nickel and make it through life on that wage. You don't have to dodge bullets, car bombs, or artillery. And furthermore, you don't have to deal with death constantly and all the while wondering when and if you will be next. You have the luxory of tomorrow, a lot of people do not. I'm not even going to bring to the table the lucrative amount of **** that has been handed to me in my short life, I won't even bother...I stand, I lived through it, and I will not use it as a bullet proof vest to those that want to shove their life around like a holy grail.
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