another pointless thread going no where

I think somebody needs a hug here.

Now granted I can attest to getting sticker shock meeting someone online. Losers come in women and men flavor. Now granted there are wierdos on the internet but they also lurk out there in life. He drives a BMW 5 series, his shoes are 400 bucks and his house is in Beverly Hills. Then you find out he is a credit pony and all image but no substance. On top of that what if he is a real depraveo?


Is it suspicious for a guy to be into the weird and bazaar? Does that make him weird? I love AdultSwim. I got almost the complete South Park DVD series. I have the whole Lexx series. I also got my own place but what is it that makes me feel at times like I got cooties all over me?

Real or Internet it is ALL the same unfortunately. It can look like a diamond but unless you know what to look for it may be just Quartz. Ya got to get past the rock its in first.

There are a lot of fakers in life. There are also a lot of spun out loosers. Unfortunately living under a rock does no one any favors.

The answer is to have a dating sight just for the weirdos! They still will try to infiltrate any other dating site because unfortunately weirdos are people too.

How can you tell a real pervert? When you find his blow up sheep.


PS. What is wrong with looking for love on a dating site? It has worked for some people! Can't win the game if you don't play!

Andy...can I get a strawberry flavor one????

OrangeCat is cutting Chucky loose on us tonight!

I am not desperate. The people that I have met are not desperate.

I don't go to bars. I am not around places where I can meet men.

You are so off base with this!

Yes, passion fruit, mango, and green apple flavor as well!

Like i said, somebody needs a hug...

AGAIN, what I am saying applies to people on here trying to find "love" or a date. Not to the people, like myself, just chatting, and making "online" friends. And I know not everyone lies about who they are on here. But you have to assume they are if you're looking for a potential partner. Because not to assume that would make you nieve.

Pretty much this is how it goes



the ones who say others are desperate,are the desperate ones them selfs,they just dont wanna admit it.



the ones always doing the talking are the ones with the biggest problem

I know people that met online and married.

It's happened to people on here too.

I'm okay. Thanks, though.

OC. Your pic is scary to me.

People do date online. They get married too. I've had a bf that I met online. He was a great guy.

Online dating is the "in" thing to do.

you know the saying about assuming right?

not being gullible is good, but to assume what you are is the other extreme.

if you don't want to look for someone...great. but don't make assumptions about things you don't know. that maybe true for you...but not for everyone

Andy will give you a hug

can I have one of each????

Dateing is never simple so meeting people on line is not necessarily easier. It takes time and effort and repeat exposure. Jump on the forums, change your pictures, and tweak your profile occasionally if you are not getting the results you want. It is hard but no whineing and don't rag the regulars.

You probably run into the even more of the pretty girl anxiety on line since at least if they are talking they have gotten a little attention and don't want to strike out in person.

I am beginning to wonder if the ask a lady for a date is a dying art but it is not unique to younger guys with more options. Most women won't admidit but the ones who date a lot usually ask the guy in such a way he thinks it is his idea. Sad but true some just trow themselves at guys hoping something will stick.

Dateing has, and I believe always will be, ruled by two things; meeting a large number of people and being a fun date. I am not suggesting being easy sexually but easy to talk to, laugh with, and do a variety of things with usually helps. Especially if it is activities that guys can relate to.

Looking good when you don't think you have to doesn't hurt either. The average woman is seen by 50+ guys a day but don't realize that going out looking like warmed over french fries is signing your own death warrant since most of us function in a very small pattern and most guys won't jump on the opportunity to talk to you the first time they see you unless you look your best and are approachable. Flirting helps but being oblivious is often mistaken as taken or worse stuck up.

I will agree that bars are not the only place to meet great people but there are great people who do occasionally go out to socialize with friends in bars celebrateing life events and meet people thier own age. Keeping your eyes open it is really easy to seperate the wheat from the chaf that makes it a habit.

The problem with thinking that you can avoid "creeps" by avoiding certain locations is that real creeps don't exactly wear a badge that keeps them from going very many places. If you just keep eliminateing avenues that occasionally introduce you to a creep your world will get really small.

Hang in there. As is already pointed out you are still young and the game is not over if you don't find someone in six months.

the ones always doing the talking are the ones with the biggest problem



therefor no one will ever win.



yes there are some who are desperate,I said some.but thats on or off the computer.


many on here that are looking for love,are on here because there to busy in life to go and and meet people,being on here is easier.///

many are here just for friends.



so before u sit here and act like u know what your talking about JB

Think first.

HAHAHAHAHAHA! I am SOOOOOOOO not desperate! And I'm actually only on here when I'm babysitting. Because the parents are out late, and the kid goes to bed at 8. And I think it's interesting reading other people's profiles, and the threads. And the people who actually meet online, then get married, GOOD FOR THEM! Not the type of story I would want to tell my future kids though. And the only problem I have is that you people are blind! Some of you have over a thousand posts. That's crazy! Get a life. Besides, I'm young. Young people go through their internet phase.

Guess what? My kid went to bed at 8:00 too.

Yep, it sure is worse to tell your future kids that you met online then it is to tell them that you met at a bar.

Your age and probably your upbringing has led you to this Bugie way of thinking. What honestly makes you think you are so superior to the others on this site including myself? Allow me to illucidate this speech I am presenting...


I do not go to church and do not find comfort in groups of people. I hate hanging around in bars and clubs and in all reality I know I am a lot smarter than average people. This has caused me my share in heartbreak. Right now all I got in life is work to keep the bills payed, the roof over my head, and to support my employment operations. I don't get much of a chance to get out and "meet" people and I am looking for a woman who has a brain in her head and also self determined enough to have her own job and life. The last thing I am looking for is a female version of me. I want grace, style, and talent but what do I see on average? Just self centered humans. I know there is someone out there that knows what founding a family is all about. In a nutshell I am too smart for my own good. I also know what I can and cannot put up with. BS is one thing I cannot put up with. Weakness is another.

Now along comes a Spider. Your statement is cold to put this in a minimalistic sense. The best I hope for here is to make new friends which I have done. I also rub a lot of people the wrong way. So what? I am not here to please everybody but at least I try not to step on toes so hard unless someone has it coming. For a woman as hot as you look you got a cold streak a mile wide and that is not becoming of you. you will never know when true love hits you and from whom but when it does chances are you are going to screw it up badly. God knows I have had my share of total fumbles in my romantic life. My ass sure doesn't walk on water but remember this,


Neither do you!


Yes I did look at your profile. Go ahead and call me a perve now...