Topic: Being Upfront
74Drew's photo
Tue 06/16/09 09:57 AM



Basically men were put on this earth to make us CRAZY!!!rant explode noway laugh

well, technically, if you believe in certain religious proclamations, it was the man that was placed first. which means that women were put here to ruin it for us men.


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If adam bought eve this purse........there would have been NO PROBLEMS!!!noway

it's just one more thing that she didn't really need and it would have cluttered up the garden.


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adj4u's photo
Tue 06/16/09 10:00 AM
They assume it's confrontational when it isn't.

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it appears as tho it was

it did take awhile tho

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yellowrose10's photo
Tue 06/16/09 10:03 AM
there are sore topics for everyone....isn't it best to NOT push those topics?

lilith401's photo
Tue 06/16/09 10:04 AM
That's boring. If you don't push them, you never learn anything new.

Winx's photo
Tue 06/16/09 10:04 AM
There are people with avoidance personality disorders. There's also passive-aggressive people. They don't communicate when they dislike something.

franshade's photo
Tue 06/16/09 10:05 AM
who here done be pushing YR????

74Drew's photo
Tue 06/16/09 10:05 AM

there are sore topics for everyone....isn't it best to NOT push those topics?

are you saying that it's just better for the man to shut up and let her have the purse even though she doesn't need a new one?


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no photo
Tue 06/16/09 10:05 AM

There are people with avoidance personality disorders. There's also passive-aggressive people. They don't communicate when they dislike something.
I agree!

franshade's photo
Tue 06/16/09 10:06 AM
whatcha ladies pushing??? the topic of being up front? or did I miss something yet again frustrated

no photo
Tue 06/16/09 10:08 AM

there are sore topics for everyone....isn't it best to NOT push those topics?


What do you do then? Stick with the happy, fuzzy, feel good topics at all times?

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 06/16/09 10:08 AM


there are sore topics for everyone....isn't it best to NOT push those topics?

are you saying that it's just better for the man to shut up and let her have the purse even though she doesn't need a new one?


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i'm saying...if someone knows it's a sore subject...don't be surprised at the response.

like talking about exs. a friend of mine kept pushing her boyfriend for every detail of past relationships and would get upset when he told her little things because he wanted the past to stay in the past.

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 06/16/09 10:09 AM


there are sore topics for everyone....isn't it best to NOT push those topics?


What do you do then? Stick with the happy, fuzzy, feel good topics at all times?


again..if you know it's a sore subject....don't be surprised at the responses

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 06/16/09 11:22 AM


must only happen to minglers, found out last night that another member has and listens to the voices in her head and names them too


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ok...in case anyone couldn't figure it out whoa fran is talking about me and it's a JOKE only whoa

franshade's photo
Tue 06/16/09 11:24 AM
I never said it was you, and to be honest you are not the only one :wink: there are more of 'you' out there laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 06/16/09 11:25 AM

I never said it was you, and to be honest you are not the only one :wink: there are more of 'you' out there laugh


laugh thanks fran...now people that have no clue about the joke are analyzing me laugh

franshade's photo
Tue 06/16/09 11:27 AM
embarassed I'm sorry :cry:


yellowrose10's photo
Tue 06/16/09 11:30 AM
nah fran...you knew the joke bigsmile

TBRich's photo
Tue 06/16/09 11:35 AM
You ladies do know of course that often when a man just avoids and walks away, it is because he is already thoroughly disgusted by something that you said or did and does not see the need to bother any further.

franshade's photo
Tue 06/16/09 11:36 AM
for those that didn't it was a joke

DaveyB's photo
Tue 06/16/09 11:48 AM

there are sore topics for everyone....isn't it best to NOT push those topics?


Probably not put "push" them but some gentle coaxing is sometimes a good thing. But I'd say you better know the person pretty well already and be very cautious.