hummm, I'm looking for a man with a beautiful heart..maybe we should talk.

I know!! But I can order the hell out of a pizza!

They dont want implants
They just want to inplant thier pen1s in you
They dont care about botox
Just your Box

Agreed, but I have to ask what the point is of their lying about it in the first place. Why do they pretend to be on the same page with me for 3 months and then do this ungodly radical turnabout? Why not just be open from Day One, say what it is you want, say what it is you're looking for, say what kind of relationship you're seeking....? They never do that. It's always "I love everything about you" for 3 months, and then it's "Now I have to CHANGE everything about you." What kind of sense does that make?

Not that 3 months is all that long, in and of itself, but when you multiply those 3 months by the number of my exes who have done exactly that procedure, that's a lot of wasted years.

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Yeah, I get that. I won't chase anybody, either. It's just not me. I've never done that, probably wouldn't even really know how.

But you're one of the most up-front, open, honest people here, and nobody is ever going to accuse you of hiding your feelings and beliefs. And me, I'm just a writer trying to get established, but I'd like to think I've been pretty straightforward about myself and what I want -- but it doesn't make any difference. It's like if you don't fit this preconceived mold, you're just plain out of luck, pardner.


I get that, too. Seven years studying psychology has made me everybody's therapist. I'm OK with that, too. I mean, I think it says something if people think enough of you to open up and talk about their problems with you, right? Helping people is a good thing.

It's just that it would be nice if, just once, there was someone around for the therapist to talk to....but that's just too "outside the box," I guess.




That preconceived mold you speak of,,with MANY,,they THINK,,that is the way,,ALL WAYS ,,of their dream man,,,so THAT DREAM MAN will truly never be found,,,to BE THEM,,in their minds..

I have also come to believe that when it only LASTS with them about a month or two or three,,,,ITS because THATS THEIR HABITS
Its time for a new dude to use,,,,BUT,,,TALK THEM INTO IT,,through the makings of WANTING REAL LOVE,,FOREVER,,
And THATS,,,lol,their way of "THINKING" what they do is RIGHT..
But it boils down to 'their players'...and see,,,THAT, wouldn't bother me at all if a babe said she just wanted to see how we were in the bedroom,,I might say cool,,I'm up with that,,,maybe not,,BUT
ONE THINGS for sure,,,I WOULD LIKE "THAT" up-front knowlegde
over the sly fake rear entry that SOME PLAY,,,,

As to helping others and having THAT help repaid back,,,yes,,THAT
would be asking to much,lol most who I have talked end-less hours with,,after they tell me how sweet and kind I am,,THEY LEAVE,,w/o even a goodbye,,,

Papa Johns Vegi

honestly......
just a faithul free spirit

What do men want?A belly dancer who works in a Victorias secret.

I think you need to be more specific....


















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How about this, why is it men to this day are held to the living standard of the 1950s? We all have to have the union job bringing home the pay check while the woman stays at home taking care of the kids. I thought this was the new millennium? I also thought women were supposed to have equal rights? Does that mean a lot of women still need to drag everyone and everything around them back to the days where the lioness didn't have to make the kill because that was the big strong male lion's job? Personally I like women that can hold their own and don't depend on me for everything. I need my space now and then and I am sure many women are the same way. I just LOVE hypocrisy and Double Standards!


In all honesty I respect a woman who makes more money than me. It means she is smart enough to pull her weight. Now a snotty control hungry btch with a lot of money? Come on now, I won't sell my soul to the devil so what makes anyone think I will marry for money? There is no such thing as the easy way out and I am not bought, I am earned. So far no woman has really earned me and if that is the way it has to be that is the way it is.

Many women walk around with the idea they have the "Power of the P%ssy" between their legs and that entitles them to everything they want. Women have used sex as a weapon and tool on men for years. True love comes without strings or price. True love is Bohemian. I could care less if the woman I love is a bubble headed blond perpetual cheerleader who thinks two plus two is a cheese sandwich as long as she has talent and can express herself and knows nothing in life is free. As long as she accepts me as I am then life is all good.

I also don't like it when women use that "I got pregnant" to suddenly get fat and change their lives completely at the guy's expense. I have met women that had a problem with weight and seen the pain they endured dealing with it. Success never came easy to them when they did succeed. THAT was worth a huge amount of respect in my book! I hate hearing that whining line "but it is too hard, I can't do it!" when a woman diets, quits, diets, quits. It is one thing to be big as in she can bench press three hundred pounds even though she is a little on the large side. I will not say anything about the aesthetic because there is aesthetic in that much physical power. Looking like Jabba the Hut in a two piece bakini? to the Nth degree!! I myself do not like women who let themselves go or they get pregnant and suddenly their entire lives are devoted to the children. In real life these days it takes two people to raise the kids and two people to have jobs. I hate it when the idea of having kids will destroy who I am and what I am. That is part of the reason why so many divorces and broken homes happen!

To avoid being a hypocrite myself a lot of men are self centered **** heads. They make the rest of us look bad. If they can get a free ride on a woman's back they will. Those are men of cheapness. I may be struggling but I am not cheap. If anything I am expensive. The woman that actually lands me will be getting a lot of bang for her buck. I just really really really would like to for once meet a woman that compliments me (not in the verbal sense) more than has me around to fill a need for something. At times it sucks cucumbers devoid of seeds being the guy who can fix everything.

This is one man who does not fear the Almighty Uterus. I just don't put up with it's bullsh*t. I won't put up with a guy's BS either.

Hope this sheds some light on the mindset of a man (at least mine).

A bigger penis.

Hey new to this internet chat thing. It's nice and sweet to see all the comments, but I think that you get to know someone better by actually talking to them. Is there anyone out there that would like to have a conversation? I prefer one on one and out of these community forums. Or is there a place I can go on this site?

Is there any ladies still in this community. Looks like you guys are just talking to each other.

I thought I killed this thread finally?

I guess I was wrong!

some just want a warm sandwich in front of a warm television set, with a warm body waiting in the bed


some want a partner that they can overcome obstacles and enjoy victories with as well as one they can get through rough patches and grow stronger with


some want eye candy on their arm

some want a best friend


some want a maid, accountant, babysitter, chef, and prostitute all rolled into one


and some want that superwoman who can be all of the above,,,men are as diverse as we are,, so are their wants

Who cares?

Men like a challenge :)

I can't speak for all men or even a group of men. But I will say this. I believe that men seek different things/women at different phases of their lives.

When I was younger, I only thought about "hot women" with all the curves, flowing hair, and implants. As I have matured, I have come to admire intelligent, independent women who are loyal and emotionally stable. Looks aren't as important as they used to be. But, they don't hurt. In other words, there has to be substance too. Beauty is a magnetic attraction, but it doesn't last forever and much of it is "store bought."

So, a hot transvestite in the middle of the sex change won't do?