Ditto

Now there is hope for that kid, as he demonstrated empathy for someone else, most sociopath's seem unable of doing that.

Um... you're sweet. It's called showing off, a selfish act.

It is NOT! Billy said he wanted to see the whale jump though the fire!
So I showed him, its not my fault the house caught fire.
it's not, it's not, it's not,it's not.

Awwwwwwww.

It was t he older kiddos idea.

But you're funny.


Geesh, the shyt I hear for my job... typing it out like this I wonder how I do it....

What about unconditional love between a mother and an adopted child? Do you think it is possible or never really exists?

I thought this was about a mothers uncoditional love?The people that gave birth to these children are not mothers!Any one can have a baby.{Please,this is not intended to hurt Ladies that can't}But a true Mother has unconditional love.

I believe it should be.

A fantasy to believe it's the general rule.

I believe it is and should be!

ABSOLUTELY YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!
without a doubt!

there are a lot of women that have children yet never become mothers (jmo)

..no..i dont believe all women make good mothers or have an unconditional love for their children.. .

Love; even the love of a parent for a child can be beaten down if the child abuses the parent's love intentionally, or not, long enough. Or; the parent does not bond with the child in the first place.

IMHO The idea of unconditional love is a romantic notion that doesn't really work where the familia relationship is dysfunctional from the start or is inner-generationally flawed. It is difficult to give, or even aspire to, that which you have never known.

Some Mother's unconditional love is just not "tested" in the way some other's are. Sadly for some children they have the luck of the draw to be more of a burden to their mother's than a blessing.

Unfortuneately the help we give Mother's in crisis does little to bond the child to mother and vice versa. We usually give less than subsistence living assistance and try to force the child into surrogate care and the Mother into the near impossible role of low paid sole provider. Family time is then usually subject to exhaustion which rarely makes it pleasant or contributes to bonding either direction.

When a Mother gets no choice, approval, or comfort for being pregnant or as a parent it is nearly impossible to develope love much less anything remotely close to unconditional love.

Bonding with a child, When I gave birth to my daughter, the nurses gave her to her father at just a few seconds old, I never got my daughter for almost 2 hrs.

For the next 3 months of her life, her father diapered, bathed and cared for, all i was; was a cow to feed her. Even though I got to hold her.. HE wanted ever second and stayed home on unemployment so he could be with her.

outcome.

by 3yrs old he was de-tatched from her I will never know what happend! Work, money, Work, money everything for the family nothing for him...??? i guess..

When his son came, in the hospital I got my son the moment he came out! however for the next 3 weeks again my husband took full care of his son. But again work, money, work, money everything for the family nothing for him.. now was double trouble..??? I guess... by the time he was 2 yrs old he just stopped...

I would hold my kids for hours on hours when they were infants, I would always be there for them no matter what.

OUTCOME! They have not seen there father in over 5 yrs.

IT is the parent that stick it out, who is there for them, Who no matter what they say or do is willing to be there regardless if thy achieve or fail.

Unconditional love is my name: I live it everyday not only with my kids but with other parents kids who have to work.

Who am I: I am a Childcare giver!.. It is the time spent with the child that counts.. with fun and love and discipline.

unconditional love is to teach a child right from wrong they thrive on it and with out discipline they feel they were never loved.

No, some mothers are terrible...sadly.

I think it is quite possible. I worked with a young autistic boy who was adopted from Russia. His parents were amazing and fought hard to provide their son with every resource available to develop his social skills, verbal etc. It wasn't just about that though, even though there were days when you could see the exhaustion on their faces, their eyes would light up when they saw him. It made my heart smile.

Not at all. My mother doesn't give a shyt about me and my sister but our brothers as golden.

My love for my sons is.. I learned unconditional love and forgiveness from them, not my own mother. My mom hates me