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| Topic: Do you agree that a mothers love is unconditional? | |
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My love for my sons is.. I learned unconditional love and forgiveness from them, not my own mother. My mom hates me  LadyLid...Maybe it's not really hate, maybe it's something she never did with you that makes her feel guilty. My mom acts like she hates me too...I guess parents are just funny like that??? I know she doesn't HATE me..the word hate means to reject..and she does reject me when I don't do as she would like me to do..that is conditional love. Thank God I had my sons to teach me... I guess now were those funny acting parents...  Sorry, didn't know it was "reject"..I know what it's like to be rejected as well by my own mom.  My son maybe young but he's taught me what real love is and I have the rest of my life to learn alot more from him.
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 A mother's love is always unconditional no so..my mother has many conditions based on her beliefs..she holds back her love when I disappoint her, she always has. Sounds alot like my mom...I guess the only thing we can do is just remind them that we love them, no matter what? yep..and be grateful because we know what it's like to be a mom..and forgive.... I was wondering...if we can be a mom, forgive and still love...why can't our mom do the same? What is so hard about sucking up the reality and saying "i'm sorry" and just learning to view your kids for who they are and nothing else??? |
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usually, but unconditional love doesnt mean unconditional support. I love mine unconditionally but I wont support any decisions they make to do wrong. I will still love them though, right or wrong. This is a very good point. Often people think that when someone does not support whatever they want to do they don't love or have their back. Sometimes the hardest thing to do, but responsible and loving thing is to say no, your wrong, or I won't be a part of this. Parenting often is about doing the hard stuff. Yes it is...saying NO can be the hardest thing when it comes to love. |
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My love for my sons is.. I learned unconditional love and forgiveness from them, not my own mother. My mom hates me LadyLid...Maybe it's not really hate, maybe it's something she never did with you that makes her feel guilty. My mom acts like she hates me too...I guess parents are just funny like that??? I know she doesn't HATE me..the word hate means to reject..and she does reject me when I don't do as she would like me to do..that is conditional love. Thank God I had my sons to teach me... I guess now were those funny acting parents... Sorry, didn't know it was "reject"..I know what it's like to be rejected as well by my own mom. My son maybe young but he's taught me what real love is and I have the rest of my life to learn alot more from him. As difficult as the all consuming years were when my boys were young..all worth it because THEY have taught me unconditional love and forgiveness. What a wonderful gift...never do I wonder WHY..are they here with me anymore. When my oldest turned 25 last summer he apologized for giving me such a hard time..I told him thank you for every minute because of all he has taught me. We cried and hugged...  Was a very cool tender moment! 
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My love for my sons is.. I learned unconditional love and forgiveness from them, not my own mother. My mom hates me LadyLid...Maybe it's not really hate, maybe it's something she never did with you that makes her feel guilty. My mom acts like she hates me too...I guess parents are just funny like that??? I know she doesn't HATE me..the word hate means to reject..and she does reject me when I don't do as she would like me to do..that is conditional love. Thank God I had my sons to teach me... I guess now were those funny acting parents... Sorry, didn't know it was "reject"..I know what it's like to be rejected as well by my own mom. My son maybe young but he's taught me what real love is and I have the rest of my life to learn alot more from him. As difficult as the all consuming years were when my boys were young..all worth it because THEY have taught me unconditional love and forgiveness. What a wonderful gift...never do I wonder WHY..are they here with me anymore. When my oldest turned 25 last summer he apologized for giving me such a hard time..I told him thank you for every minute because of all he has taught me. We cried and hugged... Was a very cool tender moment! I bet it was rewarding, not only the fact that he could apologize to you for all he did to you, but realize that all you did for him was out of love. |
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