Topic: Young and NOT sleeping around!
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Thu 06/04/09 05:49 PM








What a lot of people don't realize is that sex is not required to have a relationship. Maybe those people will learn one day. Personality, honesty, chivalry, and a sense of humor can go so much farther than that.



True, but everyone has their own preference and opinion. Me, a month at least is all I ask and because I can't find someone willing to do that .. I have been single for about a year now.



A month, is that all.what Really not too much to ask.


Yes, a month a freaking month and that's apparently too much to ask. I swear, things have changed so much while I wasted a year and a half with my ex. Un-freaking believable. ( end of rant )


I'd give ya a monthflowerforyou


Thank you! Shame you're type is never close by


Your very welcome. Maybe I'll take a vacation to Jersey one day winking


You do that :tongue: Ok this quote thing just got out of control


rofl We're building a quote mountain rofl

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Thu 06/04/09 05:50 PM
I'm ending it ^^

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Thu 06/04/09 05:51 PM
tongue2 you killed the mountain. it was getting a little outragous

WolfEyez's photo
Thu 06/04/09 05:53 PM
yes, yes it was.

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 06/04/09 07:47 PM
Haha...I don't sleep around and between the six partners I've had in my 24 years, one of them gave me herpes...life's a ***** then you die. I have the luxory of dying comfortable with who I am and who I decided to be.

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Thu 06/04/09 07:50 PM
don't be easy and you'll gain respect!

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Thu 06/04/09 08:04 PM
virgins do exist.

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Thu 06/04/09 08:05 PM
i concur
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steven27rb's photo
Thu 06/04/09 08:06 PM

virgins do exist.

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so your one?if so good 4 u:wink:

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Thu 06/04/09 08:08 PM


virgins do exist.

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so your one?if so good 4 u:wink:


and damnnn proud of it.

SunnyMcleod's photo
Thu 06/04/09 08:09 PM

virgins do exist.

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It's true! And there IS more than two.
Just some of us really don't advertise it...I find guys freak when it comes out

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Thu 06/04/09 08:12 PM


virgins do exist.

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It's true! And there IS more than two.
Just some of us really don't advertise it...I find guys freak when it comes out


omgz! ohnoez!surprised

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Thu 06/04/09 08:14 PM


virgins do exist.

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It's true! And there IS more than two.
Just some of us really don't advertise it...I find guys freak when it comes out
unfortunate for them, i think its alright if a woman has her virginity still

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Thu 06/04/09 08:15 PM



virgins do exist.

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It's true! And there IS more than two.
Just some of us really don't advertise it...I find guys freak when it comes out


omgz! ohnoez!surprised

See! I scared him...and his name is Fear!laugh

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Thu 06/04/09 08:15 PM




virgins do exist.

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It's true! And there IS more than two.
Just some of us really don't advertise it...I find guys freak when it comes out


omgz! ohnoez!surprised

See! I scared him...and his name is Fear!laugh


rofl rofl

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Thu 06/04/09 08:22 PM

Before I start, I totaly don't want to offend any young people by saying you all sleep around- I don't believe in genrlising people like that.

It's just so many of my peers sleep around and seem to have no thoughts on waiting to get to know a guy first. Am i odd for not wanting to do the same??

I've always tried to get to know guys but it seems i only ever attract the guys after one thing- they tire of my 'old fashioned' 'boring' ways then leave for girls who will sleep with them after five minutes!

I've been single for a year now! And i'm getting tired of always being called miserable and boring too. :(

Any thoughts?

XLJX




The only thought I have is this.

get used to it for a while. Guys yer age ( for the most part ) are looking for nothing but the next sexual conquest.

The level of maturity you have in wanting to wait, far exceeds the guys' ( for the most part ).

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Thu 06/04/09 08:41 PM
Edited by luc05kay06 on Thu 06/04/09 08:44 PM
Nothing wrong with waiting or being selective. Lots of men and women, of all ages, are the same way. And a lot aren't. There's nothing wrong with that either if they're safe about it. Just means they're looking for something else. If a man isn't willing to wait, I'd bet he doesn't have feelings for you, but rather a completely physical attraction. Nothing more, nothing less.

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Thu 06/04/09 08:52 PM
I totally respect your point. Believe it or not, I'm the kind of guy who is looking for a great girl who isn't all about having sex right away or all the time. Hang in there and you'll find a great guy!bigsmile

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Thu 06/04/09 08:55 PM
I think the problem with women is that they are physically attracted to the kind of men that would just want to sleep around. The genuine guys aren't sexy enough or mysterious enough looking. Women, like men in a lot of ways, want to have their cake and eat it, too...the macho guy with the sweet side who doesn't want to have quick sex.

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Thu 06/04/09 10:21 PM

I think the problem with women is that they are physically attracted to the kind of men that would just want to sleep around. The genuine guys aren't sexy enough or mysterious enough looking. Women, like men in a lot of ways, want to have their cake and eat it, too...the macho guy with the sweet side who doesn't want to have quick sex.


Probably a bit of truth to that.

I wonder if the "sexy enough" men are used to getting sex when they want it with nearly whomever they want, and that's why they expect it. Yet the "genuine" guys who aren't "sexy enough" don't have the experience and ability, so they've learned to seek out other things in a woman and for lack of a better term, take what they can get.