We've been hit hard.. It's hard affording to live here even before that...

I understand that too.

The problem is that there are a whole lot of people passing up on a whole lot of other very good people just because there might be one or two minor things " off " about them that make them not perfect for them.

As my screen name indicates, I am not anyone's idea of Prince Charming. I am just a guy. I'm not now, nor have I ever been, anyone's idea of " perfect for " them.

But I am a damn good man.

But because I'm not " perfect " for anyone so far, being a good man means f**k all.

I am at the point where I don't even want to go out... I don't want to talk, do the niceties, etc. I don't feel like I can even like someone or meet someone I'd like enough to want to spend time with them.. I'm trying to figure out why but can't... I miss that liking someone feeling but just don't have it...

I think the problem with women is that they are physically attracted to the kind of men that would just want to sleep around. The genuine guys aren't sexy enough or mysterious enough looking. Women, like men in a lot of ways, want to have their cake and eat it, too...the macho guy with the sweet side who doesn't want to have quick sex.

there is a difference between saying someone doesn't like someone and why vs saying someone should follow in the footsteps of assassinated presidents vs saying I want to kill this person.

if this article IS a notice saying he wants to kill or someone else to kill...then that could go to premeditation or to incite...and I would want to wait until it happens to do something. as well as it could just be saying he isn't happy with BHO. this shouldn't have been printed because it's unclear. it is not the same or handle the same as someone clearly posting a death threat

If you want to have a honest relationship with someone doesn't that require being honest about the feelings you have?

Telling someone you love them is relative to how both of you define love.

Unfortuneately the word is pretty generic and means many different things to people. Seems wise to me to give a relationship enough time to know how the person you have feelings for defines it?

What would seem more important is do you know how the person will react to you having such serious feelings?

Just because you have a feeling doesn't require that you share it.

Doesn't matter if it was a joke. It's against the law to threaten the president.

A federal jury in Tucson ruled Tuesday that an Arizona rancher did not violate the civil rights of 16 Mexican nationals he stopped after they sneaked illegally into the United States, but awarded $78,000 in actual and punitive damages on claims of assault and the infliction of emotional distress.

The jury of four men and four women returned the verdict Tuesday afternoon in U.S. District Court in Tucson after a day and a half of deliberation. The jury, after a nine-day trial, also threw out charges of false imprisonment, battery and conspiracy against Douglas, Ariz., rancher Roger Barnett.

In a case that generated national outrage over the ability of Americans to stop illegal immigrants, most of the award - about $60,000 - was for punitive damages.

The illegal immigrants, five women and 11 men, had sought $32 million in actual and punitive damages - $2 million each - in a lawsuit brought by the Mexican American Legal Defense and Education Fund (MALDEF). The allegations were based on a March 7, 2004, incident in which Mr. Barnett approached a group of illegal immigrants while he patrolled his ranch carrying a gun and accompanied by his dog.

Punitive damages are in criminal case this is a civil case.