It would if people quit worrying about what others think, and live for themselves & what is healthy for THEM :)

Nothing like a cold nose or rough tongue on your ass when its least expected

all men dont go for the barbies,some of us actually look for interests and spark

Thank God!!!

There are men that like bigger gals and some that don't. It's a matter of personal preference and opinion. You can't change how they think, so just don't let it get to you.

Best thing I can tell you is to let your personality shine. If they can't see past your dress size, then obviously they aren't worth your time in the first place.

I have been with gals bigger than you...I have been with gals smaller than you....

Enthusiasm really does mean more than physicalities...

that being said...if I am gonna be honest....I will be with a woman who keeps herself healthy and fit with a good personality...before I will be with a woman who is apathetic about herself with good personality.

Probably sounds shallow but, at least it is honest.

The key is confidence. If you're not happy with yourself they wont be either

People HAVE quit worrying what others think,and ARE living for themselves. That's why half the folks in this country are overweight.
That's why medical insurance and premiums are going sky-high. As far as the individual, it's all about being healthy. My brother just died of a fatal heart attack last week, no symptoms, no warnings, as he was working at his job. For years he was on the heavier side, tho not considered obese. He was only 4 years older than me. Do you think that scared me sh!tless?
Heck yea it did. It woke me up to the fact that I'm taking my health for granted and it's time to stop. That sh!t sneaks up on you and you can be gone in an instant. I had to witness that firsthand.

I dated someone who preferred bigger girls as did his brother and they were skinny. I know they are out there and there is even a site for those men and women.

You will find the right guy for you that loves you the way you are. Just don't settle.. you are a pretty girl. Keep positive and never let a guy know that you are worried about it. Attitude is everything.

It's a matter of personal taste. There is someone out there for everyone no matter your body shape. Besides true beauty is on the inside not the out, and anyone that doesn't know that isn't someone you want to be with~

^^^^ but the issue with having beuty on the inside is that most men look at the outside and pass up funny, smart wonderful girls...

My old neighbor was large but one of the nicest people you could ever know...

Would you want to get naked with that neighbor?

While this is sadly true in a lot of cases, I can only say again that that isn't the type person you would want anyway. One that was so shallow they didn't take the time to learn what was inside? If you like someone for the way they look only, you don't like THE PERSON just the shell.

No because she is a chick...

As many others said, it's just a matter of preference. The thing is, it takes time to meet the right person, so you just have to be patient. Being confident in yourself helps, too.

I believe that the downfall of civilization is the media. We strive to be like the ones we see on the television. But it is only in recnet few decades that you need to be anorexic thin to be noticed. Marilyn Monroe was a size 14, They did tests and said she would need 11 cosmetic surgeries to look beautiful in the media's eyes now. Thinner women also struggle. I find it disgusting if a girl refuses to eat becuase she want's to shed a few pounds. absolutely disgusting. But men also get judged constantly too if they don't fit the tall tan and chizzled features. its a mixture of both female and men who can not cruicfy the ego and look to the inner being knowing that beauty is not skin deep. this rant became longer than i wanted. i hope someone gets something from this message

Not being a skinny chick myself, all I can say is, attitude and confidence works wonders. Personal preference always comes in to play because we are human, but don't blame all men into one category for not liking you because of the weight.


Love yourself, be proud of who you are and it attracts the right kind of man for you.

yes there are a lot who go for that.



but no not all do.


dont change a thing about you,to make any one else happy.
if they dont like you for you they dont like you at all.

I lvoe solo's POV on this and he seems to be a sweet guy too... I'm not the littlest thing in the world either but I'm not having issues. Just got to give it a little time and find your nich.

Good luck and happy hunting.

Beauty is a mathical formula. A woman's actual weight is less important than the ratio of her waist to her hips. 0.7 to 1 is attractive no matter your weight. This is true across all cultures. A heavy woman with this ratio is thought to be more attractive than a skinny woman with those curves.