Topic: Could you...
IzRblu's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:26 PM
If you have get togethers, then you're not doing your own thing like you would be doing at the beach. Are there dinners or dances or conventions?

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:26 PM

I have been to nude beaches, but where else can you be a nudist?
I walk around nude all the time in my own home, but I've always wondered what draws people to be nude in groups.
Perfect place for me to ask.


There are plenty of places and I can give you more info if you want it but I would prefer to send it privately and I'm blocked from sending you email.

I have a website for you but know it would not be accepted here on the boards.

There are resorts and hotels and overseas there are towns.

no photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:26 PM



May be off your beaten path but does that make it impossible?
Yes. I'd wonder what else they were so free spirited about.


I understand that point of view and that is what makes things hard. Trust and communication are at the heart of it and if that isn't there then the relationship would surely die.


There's also the matter of maturity to contend with. Some people are simply not mature enough to handle people in their natural form. They'll giggle... they'll blush... they'll come up with all sorts of off-color comments. It makes you wonder what else they're not mature enough to handle.

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:30 PM

I think I'm to much of a 'touchey feely' kind of person to be around nudists blushing


Jill, I'm a hugger like no other and that is perfectly acceptable. Just cause we are nude doesn't mean we are not humans that need physical contact.

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:30 PM

If you have get togethers, then you're not doing your own thing like you would be doing at the beach. Are there dinners or dances or conventions?


Yes to all of that! On a large scale and a small one. Normal community events and gatherings.

IzRblu's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:31 PM
With the clothes designed for women being torture devices half the time it's no wonder someone got a whole town!

Jill298's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:32 PM


I think I'm to much of a 'touchey feely' kind of person to be around nudists blushing


Jill, I'm a hugger like no other and that is perfectly acceptable. Just cause we are nude doesn't mean we are not humans that need physical contact.
my clothes are my barrier from me and the rest of the world. Tho I love physical contact... I save the skin to skin contacts for my man flowerforyou I have no issue being naked. In fact, I like it. I just don't want to be naked for everyone :wink:

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:32 PM




May be off your beaten path but does that make it impossible?
Yes. I'd wonder what else they were so free spirited about.


I understand that point of view and that is what makes things hard. Trust and communication are at the heart of it and if that isn't there then the relationship would surely die.


There's also the matter of maturity to contend with. Some people are simply not mature enough to handle people in their natural form. They'll giggle... they'll blush... they'll come up with all sorts of off-color comments. It makes you wonder what else they're not mature enough to handle.


AMEN!!

That type of behavior is understood from new comers but it is frowned upon from people that have been there for a bit. It is something that is either overcome or the person isn't there because they just aren't comfortable.

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:34 PM

With the clothes designed for women being torture devices half the time it's no wonder someone got a whole town!


AMEN TO THAT!!:banana:

They are wide spread towns!

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:35 PM



I think I'm to much of a 'touchey feely' kind of person to be around nudists blushing


Jill, I'm a hugger like no other and that is perfectly acceptable. Just cause we are nude doesn't mean we are not humans that need physical contact.
my clothes are my barrier from me and the rest of the world. Tho I love physical contact... I save the skin to skin contacts for my man flowerforyou I have no issue being naked. In fact, I like it. I just don't want to be naked for everyone :wink:


Nothing wrong with that. It isn't for everyone that's for sure. To each his/her own.flowerforyou

Jill298's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:38 PM




I think I'm to much of a 'touchey feely' kind of person to be around nudists blushing


Jill, I'm a hugger like no other and that is perfectly acceptable. Just cause we are nude doesn't mean we are not humans that need physical contact.
my clothes are my barrier from me and the rest of the world. Tho I love physical contact... I save the skin to skin contacts for my man flowerforyou I have no issue being naked. In fact, I like it. I just don't want to be naked for everyone :wink:


Nothing wrong with that. It isn't for everyone that's for sure. To each his/her own.flowerforyou
Not saying I wouldn't go for at least one meeting tho bigsmile

no photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:39 PM
Yes, I could. I think at this point in my life I lack the emotional maturity to be around nude people and not see naked people, the difference being, the time and place I was raised, "Nude" was an artsy fartsy word, used for statues and colors of panty hose. "Naked" was the word used for peekin in the neighbors window and dirty movies. Small destinction in deffinition, huge destinction in mental corolation. Clothing or the lack of clothing has nothing to do with a persons moral fiber or sexual proclivities. I personally would have more respect for a female nudist, than one of the women in the dance clubs dressed like a hooker. The dance club hooker is looking to stared at, and or picked up. The nudist is in group of other nudists, not trying to stand out and get attention. Just because you are a nudist does not mean you are sexual, just like the little 8 year old girls who's parents allow her to dress like brittney spears is a tramp. I could love a nudist even tho I am not one. Given time I might even try it myself if I felt comfortable. I have been known to moon people. It's a choice, I choose to wear clothes, someone else chooses not to.

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:40 PM





I think I'm to much of a 'touchey feely' kind of person to be around nudists blushing


Jill, I'm a hugger like no other and that is perfectly acceptable. Just cause we are nude doesn't mean we are not humans that need physical contact.
my clothes are my barrier from me and the rest of the world. Tho I love physical contact... I save the skin to skin contacts for my man flowerforyou I have no issue being naked. In fact, I like it. I just don't want to be naked for everyone :wink:


Nothing wrong with that. It isn't for everyone that's for sure. To each his/her own.flowerforyou
Not saying I wouldn't go for at least one meeting tho bigsmile


That is perfectly acceptable as well and you might surprise yourself and enjoy it.flowerforyou

no photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:42 PM





May be off your beaten path but does that make it impossible?
Yes. I'd wonder what else they were so free spirited about.


I understand that point of view and that is what makes things hard. Trust and communication are at the heart of it and if that isn't there then the relationship would surely die.


There's also the matter of maturity to contend with. Some people are simply not mature enough to handle people in their natural form. They'll giggle... they'll blush... they'll come up with all sorts of off-color comments. It makes you wonder what else they're not mature enough to handle.


AMEN!!

That type of behavior is understood from new comers but it is frowned upon from people that have been there for a bit. It is something that is either overcome or the person isn't there because they just aren't comfortable.


And whether someone is a nudist or not would not be something I would consider to be an "uncomfortable" subject that would exclude me from dating that person. If nothing else, it'd be whether or not I was treated with any respect as it's the person's character (or lack-thereof) that would more of an indicative factor than anything else.

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:46 PM

Yes, I could. I think at this point in my life I lack the emotional maturity to be around nude people and not see naked people, the difference being, the time and place I was raised, "Nude" was an artsy fartsy word, used for statues and colors of panty hose. "Naked" was the word used for peekin in the neighbors window and dirty movies. Small destinction in deffinition, huge destinction in mental corolation. Clothing or the lack of clothing has nothing to do with a persons moral fiber or sexual proclivities. I personally would have more respect for a female nudist, than one of the women in the dance clubs dressed like a hooker. The dance club hooker is looking to stared at, and or picked up. The nudist is in group of other nudists, not trying to stand out and get attention. Just because you are a nudist does not mean you are sexual, just like the little 8 year old girls who's parents allow her to dress like brittney spears is a tramp. I could love a nudist even tho I am not one. Given time I might even try it myself if I felt comfortable. I have been known to moon people. It's a choice, I choose to wear clothes, someone else chooses not to.



Well said!!

:heart:{{{Flower}}}:heart:

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:48 PM






May be off your beaten path but does that make it impossible?
Yes. I'd wonder what else they were so free spirited about.


I understand that point of view and that is what makes things hard. Trust and communication are at the heart of it and if that isn't there then the relationship would surely die.


There's also the matter of maturity to contend with. Some people are simply not mature enough to handle people in their natural form. They'll giggle... they'll blush... they'll come up with all sorts of off-color comments. It makes you wonder what else they're not mature enough to handle.


AMEN!!

That type of behavior is understood from new comers but it is frowned upon from people that have been there for a bit. It is something that is either overcome or the person isn't there because they just aren't comfortable.


And whether someone is a nudist or not would not be something I would consider to be an "uncomfortable" subject that would exclude me from dating that person. If nothing else, it'd be whether or not I was treated with any respect as it's the person's character (or lack-thereof) that would more of an indicative factor than anything else.


I like your opinions on this topic. Thanks (((J)))flowerforyou

Differentkindofwench's photo
Thu 05/14/09 02:06 PM
I have no clue what being a nudist entails. Oh goodness, I'm trying really hard to answer this without doing plays on words all over the place. Screw it. A person has pro's and con's no matter who or what they use as a defining label for themselves. As long as you can be honest with yourself and them regarding those pro's and con's, the answer to this question will naturally surface.

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Thu 05/14/09 02:23 PM
Well...I think if you can see past the outside...You can live with the inside. If that person respects your decision not to embrace their life style, and still wants to be with you, then I think it would be ok.

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 02:30 PM
Love having you as my friend(((Wench))):heart:


Mysterious... first let me say welcome to mingle.flowerforyou Then let me say thank you for taking the time to read and post your opinion on this topic. Since I went and read your profile I can see that your views are open minded and honest and I like that. The fact that you didn't post a picture but did take the time to explain why in your profile's first sentence is amazing.
Thanks for the respect and may I say, it is given in return.

Again... Welcomeflowerforyou

no photo
Thu 05/14/09 02:38 PM
when im at home i like to walk areound and hang out in the nude. my girlfriend hates it. what makes were most mad is when she FINDS A CHEST HAIR IN THE EGGS