Topic: Could you...
Winx's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:08 PM
I do have a question. Is it common in your area?

Totage's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:10 PM

Could you fall in love and have a happy relationship with someone that is a nudist though you are not one yourself?

I'm finding that people have huge misconceptions about nudism and it is quite disconcerting.

So, what say you?


As long as she had respect for my clotheisim, I could respect her nudism.

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:10 PM
<----still waiting to go with vicki and davey

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:12 PM

I'm old fashioned... the only people I want seeing my man naked is me and his doctor. bigsmile Maybe I'm just greedy laugh



I can see where you are going with that Jill and this is where the misconception is...

nudity = sex right?

WRONG

It is about being freed from judgment based on looks or the brand names you might be wearing.

Getting naked is liberating! Before I started going to the places I go I had some major self esteem issues and wouldn't be caught dead undressed in front of another person and didn't even want my dr to see me bare... Now it is about the fact that others have accepted me for WHO I am not HOW I look. I have been told I'm beautiful but it isn't because of the shell I walk around in it is because of the person I am and the way I treat other people.

So far the biggest compliment I have received is that I am quite memorable and that I am missed when I'm not around. How uplifting is that?

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:14 PM



noway call me a prude, but - not I...


Why?


well, for me... it's a matter of the difference being too great. If I were a nudist myself, I would not have a problem with it... but I think fundamental beliefs need to be somewhat alligned in order to have 'compatibility'... If I was not alligned with my partners core beliefs (nudist seems to be rather 'core') - I think it would be an issue - down the road if not immediately....

So I guess it's not the nudist part iteslf, just the difference between me and them would be too great on an important issue....

i'm not passing judgement on nudists, just describing a part of what I think will be successful in a relationship....


Nice reasoning and thank you!

I see the lack of judgment on your part and it is nice!

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:14 PM



sure ... why not


hi ya pork chop!

i knew you were open minded already!:wink:


i only run around naked in private (don't want to be laughed at lol) but I have no problem with nudists if that's what they want


trust me lady you would NOT be laughed at!!love

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:16 PM


Could you fall in love and have a happy relationship with someone that is a nudist though you are not one yourself?

I'm finding that people have huge misconceptions about nudism and it is quite disconcerting.

So, what say you?



you know i would love to see you nude


Goes both ways Mike but is it sexual or is it for the freedom of self?


Been missin ya Mr!!!drinker

soloplustwo's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:16 PM
im not a nudist but it can happend just becasue someone is a nudist doesnt make them a bad person that doesnt make there personality terrible and thats what i fall in love with, i would be cool with a nudist cause then your ok with your body and when we have sex your not worrying whether you look to fat or anything your just enjoying it

no photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:17 PM
I see nothing wrong with being a nudist. I do it all the time in my home . And if I could go outside with out some one screaming omg call the police.. I would be outside to.

Here I thought all the people here look at the human body as a work of art. I am sure I would giggle and laugh at first and maybe just maybe turn red from embarrassment. But I sincerely doubt that.. yeah being a nudist could be the thing...... hmmmm but where would I put my lollipops?

shoesmonkey's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:17 PM

May be off your beaten path but does that make it impossible?
Yes. I'd wonder what else they were so free spirited about.

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:17 PM

I do have a question. Is it common in your area?


Common in my area? Well I imagine it is a bit more common all over than you might think it just isn't quite as easy out there as it is here because of the climate challenges.

TJN's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:18 PM
I've been trying to get someone to clean my house nude for years now.

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:18 PM


Could you fall in love and have a happy relationship with someone that is a nudist though you are not one yourself?

I'm finding that people have huge misconceptions about nudism and it is quite disconcerting.

So, what say you?


As long as she had respect for my clotheisim, I could respect her nudism.


Respect is key in all relationships clothing or not. Open communication also helps.

no photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:18 PM
No problems with nudity or anyone being a nudist here. Then again, there are a whole slew of other things that can throughly botch a relationship up.

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:19 PM

<----still waiting to go with vicki and davey


ready when you are

IzRblu's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:21 PM
I have been to nude beaches, but where else can you be a nudist?
I walk around nude all the time in my own home, but I've always wondered what draws people to be nude in groups.
Perfect place for me to ask.

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:22 PM
Solo
Duck
Moof

Thank you and nice views! You have hit the core of things right on the money!

Jill298's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:22 PM
I think I'm to much of a 'touchey feely' kind of person to be around nudists blushing

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:23 PM


May be off your beaten path but does that make it impossible?
Yes. I'd wonder what else they were so free spirited about.


I understand that point of view and that is what makes things hard. Trust and communication are at the heart of it and if that isn't there then the relationship would surely die.

lurchs_sister's photo
Thu 05/14/09 01:24 PM

I've been trying to get someone to clean my house nude for years now.



laughlaugh

Naughty!!