Topic: What is your preference??
Atlantis75's photo
Sun 05/03/09 01:20 PM

This is for Men and Women: How do you prefer you mate? Skinny, Fat, Thick, Thin? If there a difference? And what makes you like them THAT way??

I like skinny with some fat on her.

Big boobs, small nipples....or maybe the other way, I can't remember.

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Sun 05/03/09 01:28 PM


It's not what you got, it's how you use it. There in nothing more beautiful in a woman than a mind.



That is actually very true. The whole pretty is as pretty does is true. Remember the drop dead gorgeous girl from high school that was such a *****? laugh The more gentle in spirit a woman is, the more beauitiful she becomes.


-nods in true appreciation for the alignment of our opinion-

sassystacey69xx's photo
Sun 05/03/09 01:32 PM
My men,i like stocky but not fat...........not too muscley eiether(cos i hate that feeling of sleeping with a rock)i hate skinny men!!!a guy must have some meat on them but with no fat!!!!!!!!!!!!

Monkeygirl38237's photo
Sun 05/03/09 01:40 PM
Edited by Monkeygirl38237 on Sun 05/03/09 02:21 PM

Personally, I prefer "slender". I really hate the word, "skinny". There is a BIG difference. To me, "skinny" smacks of "gaunt", and that ain't good.

Call me shallow. See if I give a sh!t.



Thats what I wanted to know.... This is HONEST!!! I love that. I personally like the thinner guys. But I've dated and married a big guy once. But I have to have facial hair!!! I don't know why. Just do. And I'm a sucker for REDHEADS!!!

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Sun 05/03/09 01:41 PM
I have always preferred slim blonds, who know why? Dark haired gals have never really attracted me right off the bat.
Yet the gal I am dating now has short,dark/dirty blond hair and a few extra lbs. But she as more going on upstairs than most I've ever dated.

Savitar's photo
Sun 05/03/09 01:58 PM
I honestly dont have one . zvariety is the spice of life after all

Monkeygirl38237's photo
Mon 05/04/09 04:20 AM
I find it odd that so many have said that is all about personality, sense of humore, charm ...blah blah blah...but in all honesty. You would never see them with someone that was really fat or sickly skinny.

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Mon 05/04/09 04:26 AM

I find it odd that so many have said that is all about personality, sense of humore, charm ...blah blah blah...but in all honesty. You would never see them with someone that was really fat or sickly skinny.


You're right, because if they are extreme in either direction I wouldn't date them. I wouldn't take the time to get to know them with dating in mind.

Pink_lady's photo
Mon 05/04/09 11:29 AM
Edited by Pink_lady on Mon 05/04/09 11:29 AM

I find it odd that so many have said that is all about personality, sense of humore, charm ...blah blah blah...but in all honesty. You would never see them with someone that was really fat or sickly skinny.


Well i already answered u but u never replied to my post

To answer ur Q, yes, i would overlook that.

One of my exs was 18st (i was about 8 n half st at time) I first noticed him while i was at my usual haunt, he was always smiling and had a warm face.

I honestly didnt care about his weight, it never even entered my mind. I also once dated a guy who was only 4 ft tall!

I really am not a person who looks at exterior fist, i look at their smile, and their personality, as i said before, charisma is prob the only thing i can connect to most of my bf's.


As i already said, i dont need to find a guy gorgeous to be interested.

U r only speaking for urself imo.

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Mon 05/04/09 11:53 AM

Skinny - a little chubby, tanned, brunette, at least my height.



Us poor short girls don't get to have your attention sad

JasmineInglewood's photo
Mon 05/04/09 11:54 AM
my physical preference in men is that they be tall and slender with just a little muscle to show he's a man.

az_grrl's photo
Mon 05/04/09 11:58 AM
I like my women to be intelligent, funny, caring and able to communicate. If she happens to be a cutie, it’s a bonus…. ♥

franshade's photo
Mon 05/04/09 12:00 PM
Edited by franshade on Mon 05/04/09 12:06 PM

I like my men good and ugly!!!! laugh :wink: laugh I wanna be the pretty one!!!!explode noway :wink: laugh


:laughing: ya read my mind :laughing: and tall

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Mon 05/04/09 12:00 PM
I do like intellect, a goofy side, a bit of a princess type...

but the original post was about body type, so to be honest...

plump, chunky... a few extra pounds... nice round rear and D cup... OMG!! boom boom POW drool :banana: biggrin

whispertoascream's photo
Mon 05/04/09 12:06 PM
A recent boyfriend of mine was quite over weight. So much so there were rolls. Bedroom time was NOT pleasant at ALL. I like my sex. It should be a good time. NOT awkward, and I should not have to play a game of Hunt-a-D!ck.

At that time I did not think size mattered to me. He was the first large guy that I went out with that I have ever tried to be sexual with. And never again. I am a very sexual person. And not that I think that sex is force of every healthy relationship, it does help. You reach a different level of togetherness.

So yes size does matter to me. I do not want to hunt for your package. This is not Christmas here. I am not trying to unwrap a surprise here. I already know what it is and that I want it. And I want it easy to access.

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Mon 05/04/09 01:45 PM



I see a pattern of "clean", is being clean a problem that some people do not know how to shower often enough???what


as a matter of fact, yes.


You're kidding me? I've never known anyone that wasn't prone to shower daily...


you should get out more....laugh

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Mon 05/04/09 01:46 PM


It's not what you got, it's how you use it. There in nothing more beautiful in a woman than a mind.



That is actually very true. The whole pretty is as pretty does is true. Remember the drop dead gorgeous girl from high school that was such a *****? laugh The more gentle in spirit a woman is, the more beauitiful she becomes.


true true

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Mon 05/04/09 01:51 PM

I find it odd that so many have said that is all about personality, sense of humore, charm ...blah blah blah...but in all honesty. You would never see them with someone that was really fat or sickly skinny.


not necessarily true. I've been w/ a woman who was 5' nothing and 300 pounds. Also been w/ one who was over 6' and 120 pounds tops.

some people really aren't shallow.

74Drew's photo
Mon 05/04/09 01:55 PM
since you're asking for my preference, i will tell you. i like slender/athletic women with small breasts.

i'm hoping that i won't be berated because of that.

i don't know exactly what it is that attracts me to these types, but i know that if their attitude sucks then their looks are irrelevant.


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SirQuixote's photo
Mon 05/04/09 04:07 PM
Me and Goldilocks like em, "just right!"flowerforyou